Recently, my sister's nephew is going to get engaged, and the girlfriend I have had is still a college classmate.
The woman put forward two conditions:
first. The bride gift is 100,000 yuan.
Second. The man buys a house (if the full payment is not added to the woman’s name. If the loan is made, the woman asks to add the name, of course the dowry can be reduced to 60,000).
My sister asked me, and I told her that the bride price was given to her 100,000 yuan, and her name was not added to the house. If she divorces one day, according to the Marriage Law, how many years she has paid off the loan, she can just give her the loan part at that time. If she wants to leave half of our house, she has no way to go.
After discussing with my sister, I couldn't calm down for a long time. I don’t know what girls nowadays think. Before they get married, they start to think about other people’s money. They have the ability to earn it themselves.
It was a very happy thing for the two to get married. The woman's family gave the bride gift and the man's family finished it. The rest was to happily consider the future of their two couples. I don’t know when I started to spoil women, and I want to take this or that before marriage, and I can always take it or not to get married to get the man. Little do you know that the man’s family originally thought you very simply, and if you marry him and have a child after he gets in the family, it would be a good idea to live a harmonious life. When you see that you are not a good person before marriage, you are a scheming woman. How can the man’s family not be careful about you? People are still afraid of giving you everything. If you divorce your son, you will lose all your personal wealth!
I advise those young people in love to correct their views on marriage, that their happiness is obtained by themselves and their wealth is earned by themselves. Don’t think about relying on marriage and taking all your money into your own name. Everything has cause and effect. Planting good causes will lead to good results, planting evil causes will lead to bad results, and doing everything well!
wrote these things because of my thoughts, although this incident reduced my impression of my nephew's girlfriend. As my uncle, I still hope that their marriage will come true. Finally, I wish them the young couple!
