Watch DouyinWhen I hear a topic about "extramarital affairs" and "infidelity" which triggers thoughts.
TikTok says "extramarital affair" is a shameful and disgraceful word. For people who have extramarital affair, this statement is undoubtedly a question and criticism of the inner thoughts and souls! Usually people are most afraid of taking one thing on the desktop to discuss right or wrong. But in fact, there is no absolute right or wrong in any event!
As for "extramarital affair" is a disgraceful event, from the perspective of personal thinking and cognition and thought: whether it is "extramarital affair" or "infidelity", there is no such thing as "extramarital affair" or "infidelity" in the world. However, as society continues to improve and develop, there are gradually sayings such as "extramarital affair" and "infidelity"!
In modern marriage monogamy, from the perspective of human nature, people are selfish. Whether starting from the perspective of men or women in marriage, they hope that each other's partners in marriage will be loyal and unswerving. Whether it is mental mental cheating or physical substantial cheating, they are not allowed or accepted in marriage! But the fact is that people are like society. Society is constantly moving forward and changing, so how can people’s thoughts and cognition remain unchanged? People’s thinking and cognition are also changing with the development and progress of society! Similarly, the same goes for men and women in marriage, and they will undergo ideological and cognitive changes as society develops and progresses! Therefore, people’s thoughts, feelings, and preferences are not static, but will change with the development of society!
"Extramarital affair" and "infidelity" are inevitable products on the road to social development and progress! Whether a man looks at a beautiful woman more, or sees an excellent woman in love; or a woman looks at a handsome man more, or sees an excellent man in love, this is a normal human nature. People’s yearning for beautiful things and their joy in heart are natural sensory issues that are born into human beings, and they are inevitable! Even in the face of the ancient saying "Do not look at what is wrong, and do not listen to what is wrong", the so-called "unpropriety" does not absolutely limit the word "unpropriety"!
From the perspective of personal cognitive thinking, he does not agree that "extramarital affair" and "infidelity" are disgraceful events. Whoever you like or don't like is a sensory issue that a person is born with naturally! How can people who are not liked or appreciated force people to like it? It is just from the perspective of the overall interests of the country, it is necessary to maintain social stability and stability and harmony. It is necessary to issue laws and moral codes to maintain and restrain men and women in marriage! Only when a small family is stable and harmonious can the society be stable and harmonious, and only when a society is stable and harmonious can the country be stable and harmonious!
(The world is nothing, and there is no right or wrong, there is only the regulations and divisions of people later)
