Women's desire for love is not only in their ignorant adolescence, but even in middle age, they still look forward to receiving strong love from men.
It’s just that the needs for love between these two age groups are different. Young girls want impulsiveness and passion, while middle-aged women want something quiet and a confidant to warm their hearts.
Many middle-aged women are always used to burying the deep love in their hearts. If they like a man, they just watch him silently, waiting for the man to discover and pursue it.
This has caused many men to pass by the women they were originally destined for and miss out on love. Therefore, being able to read the cues a woman releases in front of you is a knowledge that all men should master.
In fact, when middle-aged women want to hug, they will give these hints. Men should not miss them.
Hint 1: Hate the loneliness of single life
Without a special relationship, a middle-aged woman will not complain to you about the loneliness of single life. When you hear her say this to you, she actually hopes that you can catch her words, and hope that you will say what you are facing with her.
At this moment, you are often in her heart, but you have not noticed it yet. She has been single for a long time, and she is very eager for your care and hug. If a woman is like a dolphin swimming alone in the sea, then you are the light on her sea, bringing her hope and warmth.
You need to understand that when a middle-aged woman complains to you that she hates the loneliness of single life, she is already attracted to you. She is hinting to you that she is still single and has no support, and she is secretly asking for a hug from you. If you can accept her, heal her and cherish her with a man's broad mind, then her fantasy of love will become reality.
Hint 2: I feel very comfortable getting along with you
Men and women are like magnets, attracting each other unconsciously. Women always pay more in this regard, because in their hearts they pay more attention to obtaining a lasting feeling of warmth, and do not want to waste meaningless time on meaningless men.
If a middle-aged woman tells you that she feels very comfortable getting along with you, then you must have hit the softest part of her heart. The feeling you gave her is the one she has been looking forward to for a long time. Once she recognizes this feeling, a woman will not let go easily and stick to you like a follower. This is a very common phenomenon.
A woman enjoys that sweet feeling, and having more interactions with you is what she wants. In this atmosphere, she will often no longer hide anything from you, but will want to capture your straightforward expression of feelings.
So when you face a middle-aged woman who says she feels very comfortable with you, don’t miss it, she just wants you to hug her, hug her tightly.
Hint 3: You haven’t made a true confidant who can be honest with you
Friends of each of us come and go, and there are gains and losses as time changes. For introverted middle-aged women, there are not many friends in the first place, and close friends who can be honest with each other are even more rare. But usually, women will not tell other men that they have no friends. On the one hand, it seems that they have poor social skills, and on the other hand, the relationship between the two is not good enough to tell each other.
Therefore, when you hear a middle-aged woman say this to you, it is probably because her trust in you has reached a certain level. You may be the one she likes, and you have received the approval and admiration from her heart. When
said this to you, she was showing the key to her heart in front of you. She wanted you to be her close friend, the tree hole where she confided her secrets, and her soul mate who solved problems.Men should remember that no matter how strong a middle-aged woman is, she is just a woman. Even a strong woman like 武美婷 also needs a man she can rely on.
Sister Dou’s inner words:
When dealing with middle-aged women, men cannot do without the ability to understand the subtext. Those words that are not spoken directly are often the expression of the true inner thoughts.
Feelings for a person sometimes come and go quickly. If a man fails to understand a woman's subtext for a long time, it will make her think that you have no affection for her, and she will become discouraged without knowing it.
If you can easily understand the subtext of what she says to you, then even if you don't give her a sweet sugar-coated response, you just need to hold her gently in your arms, and she will be melted by you.
