I only hear the smiles of new people, and weeds grow on the graves of old people, so naturally I turn a blind eye.
Maybe a man can forget a woman very quickly, and there is no need to think too much at all. Those deep feelings are just expressions of words, just like the brother-in-law in today's narrative, he also has feelings for his sister. I didn't expect that after the old friend passed away, the change would be so quick and leave no room.
Narrator: Xiaoxue, 28 years old
My sister is 6 years older than me. We have had a deep relationship since childhood, but my sister and I have very different personalities. My sister is gentle and generous, while I am more lively and rebellious.
Since my sister is also a top student, she was the first one in our town to be admitted to 11 university. After graduating from university, she returned to the public institution in her hometown county. She was also the backbone of the business in the unit. She also met her brother-in-law while working.
’s brother-in-law is also from a public institution and has contacts with my sister’s company, so we got to know each other from time to time. It is also my brother-in-law who pursues my sister. They were in free love, and they got married after two years of dating. Another year later, I also had my own baby, my little niece.
Originally, they could be considered the beginning of a happy life. In the county town, both of them had stable jobs and quickly bought a house. Even though housing prices in the county town were not high, they also bought a car two years later. Although it was only a mobility scooter worth about RMB 100,000, in the eyes of others, they were a happy family. My sister was also promoted, from deputy section chief to section chief.
Maybe God is jealous of their happy life, but something tragic happened. My sister was diagnosed with late-stage breast cancer during a physical examination at the work unit, which is of a very bad nature. Basically there is no room for maneuver, it has spread to the brain.
Not long after, she left. Respect her own wishes without over-treating her. "I really don't know how I can live without your sister," the brother-in-law almost fainted from crying.
Because she and her brother-in-law were still paying the mortgage on their house, and the niece was still young, my parents didn’t think about the inheritance. They just thought about leaving it to their niece. They also had their own pensions anyway.
More than two months after my sister left, we heard that my brother-in-law had introduced someone to him. At that time, we were too embarrassed to ask him, because after all, my brother-in-law was only in his 30s, so we couldn't keep hanging on to him and prevent him from getting married. But I didn't expect that time would go so fast. I thought they might just understand it first.
Unexpectedly, three months later, my brother-in-law came to invite us to his wedding. It turned out that the relationship was true. He meant that his daughter was still young, and he was a big man who didn’t know how to take care of children. So I want to find a mother for my daughter. This person was introduced by a friend. She is a primary school teacher. She has a good personality and likes children. She has never been married, so she is considered an older leftover girl!
My parents are very silent, and I can see that they won’t be able to accept it for a while. But I was impatient, so I picked up the broom and drove my brother-in-law out, saying, "Can you let my sister rest in peace like this?" This made the child cry and cry. The child said, "I don't want a new mother, I live with my grandma, grandma, and aunt."
In the end, none of our family went to the wedding. But the brother-in-law had to let the child go to the wedding, so the grandma took the child there, which was also very reluctant. It’s really difficult for the children.
After my sister passed away, the child has been living with us. Now my brother-in-law is married. He wants the child to follow him and his new wife in the future, but the child is unwilling to go. Is there any way to stop it?
is written at the back:
From a legal point of view, there is nothing wrong with a child living with his father, and the legal support will be given to living with his father.
But from an emotional point of view, this brother-in-law's hasty remarriage still makes people feel chilled from head to toe.Although the man is very realistic, and he did not make any moral mistake by remarrying, he still feels a little ruthless. I just hope that the wife in the back can treat the child sincerely, otherwise the child will be really pitiful.
After all, many men only love themselves. A man who loves himself will only love himself. He will not love his parents, nor will he love his children, nor will he care who his wife is. The reason why he gets married and has children is due to social pressure, not from himself.
In this case, we must accept all choices. There is a saying in China that the dead are the most important, but I think the living are more important. It’s just that when the man is alive, the man must be sincere enough to treat the woman well. After that, the man also has the right to pursue his own happy life, right? !
