A mother gave birth to a son with her husband when she was young. At this time, she devoted herself to raising her son, raising him with poop and urine and sending him to school. After his son graduated from college, he also dated a girlfriend. At this time, she sold the house in her hometown, bought a new building, and held a grand wedding for her son. After her son got married, she lived with her daughter-in-law.
She originally wanted to rent a house, but her son and daughter-in-law persuaded her to live with them. She felt that this way, while her son and daughter-in-law were working, she could help her son and daughter-in-law cook for them and do housework every day. Moreover, after her son and daughter-in-law got off work, she would bring food to their mouths. After they finished eating, they would go shopping, play, watch TV, and play with their mobile phones. She would also go into her bedroom or go shopping. The family also got along very well.
Later, her daughter-in-law gave birth to a fat boy. She wanted to take care of the child at that time, but she felt that it was inconvenient to take care of the child because she was old, so she paid for a confinement wife to take care of her daughter-in-law. At that time, after his daughter-in-law gave birth to a fat boy, he gave his daughter-in-law 60,000 yuan. She felt that her daughter-in-law was also very filial to her, and he treated her as his own daughter in daily life. When her daughter-in-law was in confinement, she often spent money to cook nutritious meals for her, and bought some nutritional supplements for her daughter-in-law to replenish her body. Her daughter-in-law also recovered well during confinement, and she was very happy. When she lived with her daughter-in-law, she was responsible for all the family expenses, and her monthly retirement salary of more than 8,000 yuan was basically spent. She also felt that as long as her son and daughter-in-law had a good attitude towards her, she would be willing to spend any amount of money. Moreover, her son bought a new car some time ago, so she gave 150,000 yuan to her son and he bought a new car.
Now my daughter-in-law has gone to work, and she works hard to take care of her grandson at home every day. Although she is very tired and busy, she also feels very happy. Unexpectedly, one day, her father-in-law and mother-in-law came to their home and asked her to live in a nursing home. She felt that she had no conflicts with her son and daughter-in-law. She treated her daughter-in-law as a daughter and got along very harmoniously with her son and daughter-in-law.
At this time, my mother-in-law said that my daughter-in-law doesn’t like to eat mutton. You always like to cook mutton. Your daughter-in-law doesn’t like to eat greasy food. You cook light meals every day. My daughter-in-law is not happy, so he suggested to her that in order to avoid conflicts, she should simply let her live in a nursing home.
She feels that it is perfectly fine for her to go to the nursing home every month. She has a monthly pension of more than 8,000 yuan, which is perfectly fine, and she now has a savings of 1 million yuan on hand. But she felt that she had a good relationship with her son and daughter-in-law, so why did she go to a nursing home? She can't figure it out now, what should she do?
