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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Time can understand love, prove love, and overturn love."
Indeed, many feelings cannot stand the test, it is nothing more than seeing a person's true face as time passes, causing the relationship to collapse instantly.
Especially men, once they get along with women for a long time, they are prone to boredom. They can’t stand the dullness and are prone to going out to find freshness.
For women, this kind of emotional betrayal is the most painful. When a woman gives everything and thinks she can get happiness, she suddenly finds that the man has changed his mind and cannot let go of this pain.
When men first start, they promise to women that they "love you forever". However, after entering marriage, after experiencing an ordinary life, they will soon forget to make a promise.
Therefore, when a man has extramarital feelings, many changes will occur in him and he will not treat women like he used to.
At this time, problems will arise in their attitudes, actions, and the maintenance of intimate relationships. As long as the woman pays attention to the observation, she can find out.
Generally speaking, when a man has an "extramarital affair", these three "changes" will appear on his body, which is difficult to hide.
1. I am cold in attitude towards you, often ignore you
A man no longer loves you, and has another woman in his heart, his attitude towards you will be particularly cold in attitude towards you, often ignore you.
In life, he will no longer care about you, basically ignore everything about you, and even deliberately keeps a distance from you.
On the one hand, in order to hide his secret, he doesn't want you to find out that he has betrayed.
On the other hand, he has no you in his heart, and he is very bored to see you and is not willing to be with you at all. Men like
may have already had the idea of leaving you, but they were worried that it would affect them, so they did not show it immediately.
In love, a person's attitude is very important. If a man has an extramarital affair, he will not have the attitude of loving you. This change is a sign of betrayal.
can be seen. If a man doesn’t love you, no matter how smart he is, he can’t hide it. You can see it at a glance.
Ms. Zhou and her husband have been married for five years. At the beginning, her husband was very nice to her and would follow her everything. She was enthusiastic and considerate and thoughtful.
However, after three years of marriage, my husband's attitude suddenly changed. Not only did he lose his enthusiasm, but he also became more and more cold.
Whenever he comes back, he has never communicated with Miss Zhou. He is almost too lazy to take a look at her more and always deliberately alienates her. Before
, he would hug Miss Zhou when he came back, and he would have endless things to say to her, often making her happy, very diligent at home, never neglect her, and his relationship was very sweet.
However, my husband today makes Miss Zhou feel sad. After coming back, she did not act intimately, but she is getting farther and farther away from her, and she is even absent-minded in speaking.
Seeing her husband's cold attitude, Ms. Zhou realized that he no longer loved him. After observation, she finally found that he had an ambiguous relationship with other women, and her heart was as calm as ever.
So, Once a man has an extramarital affair, his attitude changes very clearly . A woman has seen a man love you, and when he no longer loves you, you can feel it.
At this time, you have to make plans early to avoid continuing to consume, which is not worth it.
2. The action of not giving is very stingy, and I remember a female colleague said, "A man who betrays me is willing to spend money on women outside, but I will never be willing to pay for my wife."
This sentence makes sense. If a man betrays you, in addition to his cold attitude, he also has the most important change, which is that he suddenly feels reluctant to give for you. Men like
, can pay for other women regardless of gains and losses, but they will not spend a penny to their lover, and they act very stingy.
Moreover, their money will hardly be controlled by you, and there will be a lot of extra expenses invisibly. In fact, it is just to please other women and use up all the money.
In extramarital relationships, men are generous, and no matter whether they are buying gifts or sending red envelopes, they do not hesitate at all.
The difference is that they will be stingy with you at home. Even if it is a normal daily necessity, they are unwilling to give you money. If you ask where his money has gone, he will definitely be impatient.
So, when a man is with you, he has no action to give and is reluctant to spend money for you, his mind may not be on you.
In reality, many men become irresponsible after betrayal, ignore the affairs at home, and deliberately ignore women.
They don’t love him anymore and don’t want to continue to give. No matter how much a woman pays for her family or how much she cares about him, it’s hard to pull him back.
They often stay outside and even stay away all night. In fact, they are with other women and enjoy a temporary joy. Men like
will willingly give everything to others, but will always be stingy to you, and even deliberately picky about you .
They are reluctant to spend money on you, but they still think that you are not saving. If you don’t do anything well, they will magnify infinitely, thereby neglecting and alienating you.
When a man has such a change, you must understand that he already has someone else in his heart. You might as well make plans early to avoid worrying about gains and losses.
3. No longer maintaining intimate relationships and rejecting all intimate behaviors
. The most obvious change for a man to have an extramarital affair is a physiological change.
The men who betrayed no longer maintain close relationships, and they will reject all intimate behaviors .
Whenever he sees you, he looks very disgusted and doesn't want you to get close to him, and he won't take the initiative to be enthusiastic and considerate to you.
Even if you come to him on your own initiative and want to hold hands and hug him, he will not cater to you. Instead, he will push you away coldly, find various excuses to escape from your sight.
A man has such a change, but he actually doesn’t love him anymore. If he has someone else in his heart, he will naturally lose expectations for you.
In his eyes, you will never be as good as other women. He dislikes you everywhere and has long excluded you from intimate relationships.
The man who truly loves you will have a strong love for you, and he will come over to make intimate actions to give you the best love and care.
On the contrary, when a man no longer loves you and has an extramarital relationship, he will be very annoyed with you and don’t want to be with you. He always finds reasons to be alone and not let you disturb you. Men like
don’t want to maintain a close relationship with you at all. Their mind is not on you and they will ignore everything you do.
Even if you care about him, it is a burden in his eyes. , especially when you get close to him, he will be particularly repulsive and ignore you at all, and always sleep alone.
In any relationship, when men undergo this change, there are almost people outside. They cannot let go of bees and butterflies outside, cannot control their desires, and have long lost themselves.
If a woman finds that a man refuses to have an intimate move with you, she should pay attention and take measures in time to avoid greater harm in the future.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In summary, when a man has an "extramarital affair", these three "changes" will occur on his body:
has become cold towards you, and often ignores you; he has no actions and becomes very stingy; he no longer maintains intimate relationships and refuses all intimate behaviors.
Emotional Master Tu Lei said:
"In the process of marriage, through his three different understandings of making mistakes, he can reflect what kind of feelings he has for this woman.
Just had the idea of betrayal and it came to an abrupt end, which means that this man loves this woman;
When this man has betrayed and the facts have been determined, he still wants to come back, and he is nostalgic for this woman.
hit a wall outside, the fact happened, and he was dumped by the other party, and only then did he think of you. This is not called love or nostalgia, but to go home. "
So, when a woman notices that a man has changed significantly, she must carefully observe what his feelings for you look like and whether there is any substantial betrayal.
When you have a full understanding and judgment of his behavior, you can make corresponding countermeasures to avoid being let down and hurt.
Women should remember that no matter what kind of feelings, you must love yourself well. If you find that a man no longer loves you, it is best to stop the loss in time.
Because, your sincerity, only to give the man who truly loves you can get the happiness you want.
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