Now discussing the issue of "blind date". Most articles on the Internet are considered from the perspective of the woman.
is also about the woman's conditions and requirements.
This may be a bit cruel:
If you are a boy with ordinary conditions in all aspects, then it may not be your turn to make a blind date and marriage.
To put it bluntly, there is a woman who is willing to meet you, or even talk about marriage and thank you. What the other person looks like, how much salary, how high the education is, is not the most important thing.
It would be nice if you don’t pick on women, so don’t pick on others;
But in fact, there are also single men in life who are in good condition in terms of material, education, appearance, parents, etc.
For the latter, although he was the man when he went on a blind date, he was more in a "condescending" position.
This is how marriage is. Both men and women clearly mark their own prices. When their various conditions, that is, the "price code" is far higher than the market average, everyone will be in the advantageous side and pick and choose from others.
Today we have invited three single men who are impeccable in terms of appearance, age, education, income, and original family. Let’s see what they think about blind dates.
Xiao Zhou, 27 years old, engineer
Actually, I am not in a hurry to get married now, but my mother is more anxious.
After I graduated from my master's degree, I was in a hurry to arrange a partner for me.
Why don’t I look for it myself? You can tell by looking at my job. There are very few girls around me, no matter whether I am friends, classmates or colleagues in the workplace.
so my mother can only worry more.
I didn’t have much request for the woman when I went on a blind date.
I am 183 tall and I have been exercising all year round (and the nature of my work is because of the nature of my work. If I don’t want to exercise, I will also take 10,000 steps every day. Who knows the sadness of the citrus dog?).
Like motorcycles, of course there are games, and so on.
My parents both retired from state-owned enterprises, and their salary, benefits and other aspects after retirement are pretty good.
I have a bottom line for the woman, that is:
If you just want to deal with your parents' urge to get married, or if you don't want to refute the person's face, you can barely come out to meet me. I don't think it's necessary to
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I don’t want to force others to do so, but I don’t want to be dealt with.
You are wasting your own time and my time.
Wu Cheng, 30 years old, programmer
Last time I met a 32-year-old girl with a very good temperament, and I am 165 years old and 179 years old.
Both of us work in public institutions , and both have bachelor's degrees and their interests are quite the same.
Girls are also generous in speaking and chatting, and they feel good when they meet for the first time.
So I was very satisfied with her. Later, the middleman said that she was also quite satisfied with me, hoping to continue to get along for a while.
I was very happy and felt that I had finally met a good partner when I was thirty years old.
Although she is two years older than me, I don’t think it’s anything. She looks younger than me, and I’m busy stacking codes all day long and look older than her.
However, after half a year of death, I realized something was wrong.
We went out to have a meal, and she ordered a few dishes, and I said, "How can you, a southerner, eat such a spicy dish."
She was vague at first, but later said she was leaking, saying that this was the dish her ex-boyfriend liked to eat.
Although I felt uncomfortable, I didn't say anything.
But later, I discovered that the concept of "her ex-boyfriend" is everywhere in our daily life.
The clothes she bought for me were branded by my ex-boyfriend;
The restaurant she liked to go to was a restaurant they often ate in the past;
The songs she shared in her circle of friends were basically the theme of missing the past feelings, not the feelings with me now.
Even if I can't find a partner, I won't continue to get along with the girl who is always her ex-boyfriend in this way.
Maybe one day I will be hated.
Lin Yong, 34 years old, private enterprise boss
In the secular sense, I may be the "successful person" in others' terms:
Have a house and a car, have my own career, and have millions of deposits.
Maybe I have had several unsuccessful emotional experiences. I am now allergic to girls who are particularly capable of "doing".
I only have one condition for blind date:
If you want to experience the kind of people who are pursued, coaxed, and held you high, and hold you in your palms as a little princess every day, no talk.
I don’t have the mind or the energy.
I hope my partner is independent in spirit and will not be entangled and dependent all day long.
You can rely on me materially, and I have the confidence to give you a material life that is not worried about money and is higher than the average level.
However, now many girls talk about "emotional value". Sorry, I can't give it.
I work hard outside, run the company, and spend a lot of spiritual, intellectual and hard work every day to fight in this world.
I think I am the one who needs emotional value.
discussion
As a boy, what are the conditions for your blind date to the woman?
What kind of blind date have you encountered?
Welcome to share in the comment area.
