Speak is verbal expression, unlike text chat that can be withdrawn, and it is easy to enter others' hearts and affect others' emotions.
Sometimes an unintentional word will cause the listener to estrange you, and sometimes an unintentional word can make you more popular. After all, the speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional.
You will find that there will always be such people. As long as you open your mouth, you will involuntarily calm your surroundings. Listening to him talking freely, it makes people feel comfortable, not boring, and speak fluently and deeply rooted in people's hearts.
Cao Cao After his death, the second son Cao Pi succeeded to the throne. Cao Pi was afraid that his younger brothers would compete for the throne with him, so he felt that it would be better to start first. He seized the military power of his third brother, , Cao Zhang, . At this time, only the fourth brother Cao Zhi remained, and Cao Pi hated him deeply. He ordered Cao Zhi to walk seven steps on the hall and recite a poem impromptu. If he succeeds, he will kill him if he fails.
Boil beans into soup and filter the beans to make juice.
The filament burns under the kettle, and the beans cry in the kettle.
was originally born with the same root, so why not worry about each other?
- Cao Zhi's " Seven-step Poems "
Beans are boiled in the pot, trying to filter out the residue of the beans and leave the bean juice to make a paste food. The bean stems burn under the pot, and the beans cry in the pot. It said: We were originally born from the same root, how could you torment me so urgently? Why do brothers persecute each other?
Cao Zhi’s seven-step poem, borrowing beans and firewood as metaphors, with a tactful tone, with a deep tone, hidden metaphor, and a sense of persuasion. This made Cao Pi feel ashamed, and he saved Cao Zhi from his death penalty and allowed him to return to his fiefdom.
Later, the second term "It was born with the same roots, why are we too anxious to fight each other" has become a common term for people to advise people to avoid brothers' clashes and kill each other for thousands of years.
The maintenance and improvement of feelings between people cannot be separated from language communication. Sometimes what can be said into the heart can make the other party feel more than actual actions.
Heaven will pay extra attention to those who can speak. People who can speak will have fewer obstacles on the road to success, while people who can’t speak will build walls for themselves.
In fact, being able to speak does not teach you to be worldly and sleek, but knows how to talk to the other person's heart. This is actually a manifestation of high emotional intelligence.
