In the movie " Yangtze River No. 7 ", there is a line: "Although we are poor, we don't lie, we can't beat people. We can't take things that are not ours. We can study hard and be a useful person to society."
Simply put, this is the bottom line.
In this life, it is more important than anything else to keep these three bottom lines well.
01
Keep the bottom line of the heart and let the heart settle well
Kolin is a colleague I met when I first worked. We often chat and have a good relationship. Later, Kobayashi jumped to a large listed company and told me that the treatment there was very good, so I asked her to change jobs with her.
But the job I am doing now is the job I have always expected, and I like professional matching, so I did not agree to her.
After hearing that Kobayashi had worked for less than a month, she resigned.
It turns out that this job was recommended by a customer of Kobayashi. Kobayashi said that they were having a speculative conversation, and the other party was like a big sister, so he told the other party about his work.
The customer said that his company happened to have a suitable position in Kobayashi, and his salary was still twice as high as he is now, and his salary was definitely better than now.
She didn't understand this job well, and she blindly changed jobs when she heard that she was treated well. After joining the company, he realized that although the company is large, the position of Kobayashi is only arranged for Kobayashi as a small assistant. He can only take the intern’s salary and do trivial things. Kobayashi cried as he talked.
A person’s heart is not heavy enough. He often believes in whatever others say. He has no judgment, no goals and determination, and will only step on pitfalls all the way.
There are too many temptations in life, sometimes making you feel that success is close, and when you look back, you will find that it is just your momentary obsession.
Actor Ni Ni once said in an interview: "I never pursue the highest point of life, because all the highest points mean that the next step is to fall, just like a seesaw.
So I pursue balance. I think that the stage of balance is the best stage in life. Look at the world with a pure heart, live life with a happy heart, create emotions with a normal heart, and eliminate worries with a soft heart."
Yuan Dynasty scholar Xu Heng Go out for a day, go on a long journey, and is hungry and thirsty. Passing by a pear tree, pedestrians climbed the tree to pick pears, but Xu Heng didn't move.
Someone asked him why he didn’t pick pears. He said that it was not his own pears, so how could he pick them randomly? The pedestrian laughed at him, who would know who the owner of the tree was.
Xu Heng said, "Although the pear has no master, my heart has a master."
Everyone says that in the face of interests, you can try people's hearts the most. Only by comforting your heart and being confident in your heart, so that you can do things steadily.
What you have left for the rest of your life is all in your heart. If you keep a normal mind when encountering things, you can walk through the wind and rain safely.
02
Keep the bottom line of the mouth and say it well if you have something to do
A netizen shared this thing on Weibo :
He said that he started Hair loss as soon as he was in junior high school, and later it became more and more serious. He searched for medical treatment and asked for medicine everywhere and searched for various folk remedies for treatment.
Once he applied ointment in the dormitory. He was very careful, but he accidentally dripped the ointment on the table.
At this time, one of the students laughed and said, "Does the table grow hair?"
Another student said, "You will know when you look at his head."
Everyone laughed so hard that they were tilted backwards. It was already very embarrassing. He said that he really wanted to dig a hole and drill in.
Maybe those classmates were just kidding, but he had been inferior for many years because of this.
Hemingway once said: "It takes two years for a person to learn to speak, and it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up.”
In daily life, the most common mistake people make is that they cannot control their own mouths, regardless of the occasion, and say what they should not say without their brains, hurting others but not knowing it.
I heard a story: a white mother and son get into a taxi driven by a black man.
As soon as the child got on the bus, he asked his mother: "Why is the driver's uncle's skin different from ours? ”
Mom answered like this: “God created people of different colors for the sake of more colors in the world. "
When you get off the bus, the driver didn't charge them. He said that the mother's words are more valuable than the fare.
Some people don't talk much, but they can make people feel comfortable as soon as they open their mouths; some people are so sensible, but they make people feel bored when they open their mouths.
Whether you are intentional or unintentional, everyone in life has their own weaknesses. A seemingly irrelevant word may hurt the other party.
Speaking well is a compulsory course for adults. In any relationship, controlling your mouth is a respect for others , it is also a kind of responsibility for oneself.
03
Keep the bottom line of transportation, and walk the road well
In the variety show " Heart-warming offer2", there is an intern He Minzhe, who has always questioned his resume on the Internet.
A netizen said: "He Minzhe's internship unit is not what he wrote on his resume at all. "
Some netizens said: "How can a formal employee who has been in office for two years be able to do something in his internship experience. "
In the program, He Minzhe's behavior also caused everyone's discomfort. He put on a high-ranking attitude in front of the intern, naturally flattered the lawyer, hugged his colleagues' thighs, and even did not care about anything else in order to achieve his goal. After
was eliminated, he admitted that his internship experience in an accounting firm was indeed fake.
He said that he made a mistake because of his vanity and a hot mind. Lawyer Wang in the program said this: "After some mistakes are made, it takes a long time to erase them; once some mistakes are made, the price is too high. "
Knowing that the fraud of academic qualifications on the program will definitely be exposed, he still chose to do so. As a person who studies the law, knowing the law violates the law and destroys the future.
Feng Jicai once said: "People's confidence is based on the bottom line. Only when a person keeps the bottom line can he achieve a successful self and a successful life. ”
After all, the bottom line can best see a person.
As a person, you must control your feet and stick to your bottom line. After all, if you have a bad character and a low bottom line, it will be useless no matter how outstanding you are.
After all, you can see that those who are at ease in the workplace and are well-organized in life do not have to learn some superb skills, but keep your bottom line, not how many things you have done, but understand what you can't do.
Don’t be impatient when doing things, otherwise you will easily fall into a dilemma;
You must know how to be sensible when speaking, otherwise you will hurt others and yourself;
You must act correctly no matter which road you are on, otherwise you will be in a state of doom.
Keep the three bottom lines so that you can go smoothly on the road of life.
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