There is a saying in "Baishan Collection of Essays": "It is better to read a book you like ten times than to read a hundred books; it is better to reflect on your life experience than to read a book you read ten times. It is better to read your own life experience than to read others."
There are three realms in life: to read yourself, to appreciate yourself, and to please yourself.
Reading yourself: Examine yourself and recognize the direction
I have a friend complained to me, saying that I often compare myself with the achievements of others, so that I can fall into inferiority and feel that I am not as good as others.
Sometimes when others misunderstand, I will be sad for a long time and even cannot adjust my state.
I believe many people have encountered this situation, are in a low mood, and cannot reorganize their hearts and then devote themselves to work or study.
I have heard this saying: When a mirror is dirty, you don’t think your face is dirty.
So why do you think the bad thing is yourself when others misunderstand you or even say something bad?
I think each of us should learn to examine ourselves, review what we have done and said regularly, and have a clear understanding and positioning of ourselves.
Go beyond yourself: surpass yourself, first break and then build
The meaning of life lies in constantly surpassing yourself and accepting yourself.
Since the time of studying, everyone has experienced the "children of other people" in adults, comparing grades, skills, and personality... We bear the expectations of our parents, and imagine others as "imaginary enemies" and thinking of surpassing others.
When I was working, maybe at a class reunion, I learned that the classmate who was ignorant and had a prosperous life and a harmonious family.
But I am so ordinary, being urged to get married, being compared... This invisible pressure is even pressed to have no outlet for venting.
In fact, this feeling of suffocation can be relieved.
Feng Tang said: To deal with troublesome things in the world, you only need to figure out two things: one is "nothing about me" and the other is "nothing about you".
I thought this sentence was a little funny when I saw it, but when I think about it carefully, it seems that it is.
comparison is the beginning of anxiety. It is better to compare everything with yourself and focus on yourself.
cheers and cheers for your own progress, accepts your own ordinaryness, but does not compromise on the ordinaryness at this time.
Continuously surpassing yourself and breaking through yourself, this is a rhythm of development in a good direction.
Pleasant yourself: Pleasant yourself, be free in body and mind
A person does not live for others to see, but for himself, and be a meaningful person.
Life is long, and it is better to please yourself than please others. Everyone should learn to know how to please themselves, enrich their souls, stand firm in their own position, and live out their own pattern.
please your face. Even if the years pass and you are well maintained, you will not see any wind and frost on your face.
please yourself in your heart. Only by constantly accumulating knowledge and increasing your wisdom can you have a rich heart and expand your pattern.
please yourself, pursue what you love, become the person you want to be, and live the brilliance and beauty of life.
