What is the point of thinking after a man cheats on him?
This is what all women who have been cheated and want to solve their extramarital affair need to know.
Because cheating on a man is the key point in solving extramarital affair.
He wants to break up with his mistress and live a good life with his wife. It is very easy to resolve an extramarital affair.
If he doesn't want to break up with his mistress and his wife wants to save her, it will be very difficult to resolve the extramarital affair.
So wives need to know what the cheating men are thinking and use their psychology to solve extramarital affair.
Men generally have these five psychology towards their wives after cheating.
The first kind of psychology, hatred.
Many wives may not have imagined that a cheating man has a hatred for her.
It was clearly a man who cheated on him, but it was them who hurt his original wife. Why did they hate their wives?
Because of cheating, men feel that they are not happy in their marriage life.
Not only did his wife fail to fulfill her obligation to be a wife, she also always oppressed and exploited herself.
For example, the extramarital affair case that Jiaxin had come into contact with before is like this.
original matchmakers were strict with money. The cheating man made money to support his family, but he had no money to spend.
is often ridiculed by a group of friends, and men who cheat will feel resentful. After
, they not only refuse to admit their mistakes, but also hate their wives.
So there are problems with the relationship between husband and wife, and the cheating man feels that he has been treated harshly.
will hate wives after cheating. Wifes need to find a cigarette of hatred to resolve it in order to further resolve extramarital affair.
The second kind of psychology, complaining psychology.
Men will blame their wives for cheating, and think that they are cheating because of their wives.
At the beginning, many cheating men did this, maybe just to get rid of the blame.
But they kept brainwashing themselves while turning the blame, and they would really believe it in the end.
began to feel that cheating was really the problem of the original wife, and he would complain about his wife.
Another situation is that wives can’t accept the way to solve extramarital affair.
Many women will not care about the situation and will not care about their relationship with cheating men.
He cheated on him, why should his wife give him face? So he will start making trouble directly.
made the man's cheating a lot and made the man lose face.
A man who cheats will not feel that because he cheats, the original wife is the one who deserves it.
will only feel that the original wife does not miss the relationship between husband and wife, which will cause him a lot, so she will have a complaint towards her wife.
The third kind of psychology, guilty mentality.
Not all cheating men are mentally abnormal, and some are normal.
They cheated and betrayed their wife. When they saw their wife suffer from an extramarital affair, they felt guilty.
If a cheating man sees his wives crying, their attitude is very silent.
will even agree to some conditions for wives, even interact with them to admit their mistakes and coax them.
and they promise not only to say it, they really will do it.
A man like this really feels guilty about his wife.
This is also a very beneficial mentality for wives who have been cheated on.
Wife can use the mentality of cheating men to solve extramarital affair.
The fourth type of psychology, fear.
is not a strong man and a weak woman. The original wife needs to live on a marriage that cheats on a man before an extramarital affair occurs.
Many cheating men rely on men, and men are obviously in a marriage where women are strong and men are weak, so men will cheat.
In marriages like this, if an affair of a cheating man is discovered, he will feel fear.
In this case, the person who cheats on a man is not afraid of the original wife.
is because his wives are afraid that they will do something if they know about extramarital affairs,
, and these things will damage the interests, reputation, etc. of the cheating man.
This is what a cheating man is afraid of. In the final analysis, he is still afraid of losing his interests, rather than his original wife and marriage.
For such cheating men, wives must teach them the deepest lesson at once.
must not give them a lucky mentality, and they feel that they will not be punished if they cheat.
must make them pay, they are very afraid of the price to eliminate the possibility of secondary cheating.
The fifth kind of psychology, avoiding psychology.
There are many cheating men who are very cowardly. They are cheated and just want to hide from their original wife.
On the one hand, they are afraid that the original wife will make trouble when she finds out, but on the other hand, they can't handle the original wife or the mistress.
Don’t think that he dares to cheat, he dares not face the mess caused by cheating.
For such cheating men, wives must directly crush them from their momentum.
The stronger you act, the more you have to face the tragic consequences of an affair.
forced him to deal with an extramarital affair. When he made a choice, he would be more inclined to choose his original wife.
Because escaping psychology is a manifestation of cowardice, cowardly people will choose the option to harm themselves less.
It is obvious that they choose mistresses. A strong wife will do it, which makes them scared, so they will naturally choose a wife.
How to use the third party psychology of cheating men? If a cheating man feels guilty towards his wife.
Then such a cheating man is still saved and is also the easiest to recover.
At this time, compared to the cheating man who is right and wrong, why did he cheat on the mistress? What the original wife should do more is to expand the guilt of cheating men towards you by selling misery and showing their pain, because guilt will cause compensation.
He wants to compensate you, so he breaks up with the mistress and accepts various punishment measures after returning to his family.
Wife can all raise it. If he resists, you will continue to use your guilt.
A cheating man will take the initiative to break up with the mistress, give up his financial rights, and accept punishment to compensate the original wife.
Finally, Jiaxin wanted to say that not all marriages can only choose to divorce after being cheated.
Not all cheating men are not worthy of another chance for their wives.
After the original wife was cheated, when facing the cheating man, she still has to analyze their psychology.
A man who still feels guilty and can compensate his wife because of guilt.
If the wife also needs this marriage, then she can give her a chance.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow Jiaxin and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Jiaxin, a marriage maintenance teacher who focuses on the separation of third parties.
