Recently, a child who is in love has encountered troubles in life. After graduating from an undergraduate advertising major, she gave up a series of employment opportunities in school recruitment in order to be with her boyfriend. She opened an advertising store with her boyfriend, who is not wealthy. However, during the epidemic, the physical store is in a difficult state of survival. She has been struggling for half a year and still has no turning point. Not only did the two of them not make money, they spent time in the store every day, but they also had to consider life issues.
She said she could have gone to her second aunt's unit and would have a good position. In a third- and fourth-tier city like us, it is already a very good job to get a salary of 5,000+ per month. I said you should go, and this does not affect your relationship with your boyfriend. She said that she couldn't bear to see her boyfriend endure hard alone, and winter was coming soon. She couldn't bear to leave her boyfriend alone in the cold weather and went out to install it alone, and she couldn't bear to leave her boyfriend.
Have you been moved by her true love? Maybe people who have had similar experiences will empathize, just like I had experienced them when I was young.
I really wanted to tell her that cruel sentence at that time: True love cannot die well. But after hesitating for a while, I held back and didn't say anything, just laughed and joked with her: Look at your death-like appearance that you have never seen a man! Leaving your future without caring about it, there is only one dead end for two people to get together. You should go to work so that the two people can revitalize them. Otherwise, when you are at the end of your life, that is, when the conflict occurs.
It is probably because I had a little pessimistic expectation of her relationship. She didn't talk to me again in many days after that. She had 100% confidence in her love and could not tolerate anyone's doubts.
But as Feng Tang said: True love cannot die well, liking is only temporary and useless, money, career and future are long-lasting. Although I yearn for true love, I know that true love is not tolerated in this world.
Many people may think this sentence is wrong, because if there is no true love in this world, it will be desolate, but as long as you observe life a little, you will find that Feng Tang is talking about a cruel fact.
We have all lived affectionately in this heartless world. We were hurt all over the body because of our sincere love, but we are still willing to believe in true love. Even if our behavior has become cold and cold, in fact, deep in our hearts, we still long for a true love.
True love cannot be so bad. It sounds very harsh, but you will always easily find evidence in real life, which is actually exactly the old saying: deep love does not last long. If you use too much love, it will often push this relationship to a dead end.
True love cannot die well. It does not mean that true love is wrong and should not exist in this world. Instead, it tells us that true love must be stopped in time. Too persistent and unreserved efforts will consume your value on others. You will invisibly put your personal value and happiness on others while giving true love. Once the other party betrays this relationship, you will not only lose true love, but also lose yourself.
As Li Ao said, don’t love so much, just love a little bit, which is actually a reminder to us that everything is the same, too much is not enough, and it should be done in time, including love. You can pursue true love, but don’t be obsessed with it. Once you are obsessed with true love, you will ignore other meanings of life and become obsessed with it. Once you have obsession, you will plant the seeds of pain.
Never bet on your future with other people's conscience. We should leave time and energy to fill ourselves. You can pursue true love, but you must be restrained. True love is not uncontrollable efforts and demands, but restraint.
Don’t love that much, just love a little bit, just love a little bit, as long as it is love, it is genuine, does not put a burden on others, and does not tie a rope to yourself. Only such love can be more vital.
