Nowadays, most Chinese people use some very strict indicators to evaluate a person's success, such as identity, status, occupation, income, house, automobile, children's education, personal travel, etc. With these, it can be called success. The definition of evaluating a person abroad is "interesting". If someone says "boring",
that would be a failure. For this reason, some people say that the biggest enemy of life is boredom. Boredom has historical origins. Our generation just happened to meet our era, which made you boring: the previous generation experienced the baptism of the gray era, and the perspective of looking at the world is right and wrong of class struggle. Funny ideas are basically equivalent to " petty bourgeois ", and are the object of the dictatorship of the proletariat. Our next generation is living a colorful new life, and the world is changing rapidly, and you can't even imagine the fun in it. And under the attack of our generation, the heavy burden and the contradiction between thinking make us unable to stretch our eyebrows. So we have many kind, capable, successful, and wealthy people around us, but they are not interesting at all. Some women, beauty is beauty, beauty is beauty, which makes people very bored. What is "interesting"? According to the word segmentation method, the key to the word "interesting" is the three words "interesting"
, "interesting", "interesting" and "interesting". In "Four Friends", the famous Taiwanese poet Yu Guangzhong divides people into four categories: the first type, advanced and interesting; the second type, advanced and boring; the third type, low-level and interesting; n The fourth type, low-level and boring. Using interesting and boring as classification criteria shows how cute people are. "Ghost" Jia Pingwa said: "People can be ignorant, but they cannot be bored" (see the preface of "The Strange Stone of the Clouds". I believe this disoriented great writer is also an interesting person. Phoenix TV female reporter Lu Qiuluwei also said: "Let yourself be an interesting woman." If you are bored, it is very unpleasant. Once a person is "boring", he will become rough, numb, shallow, and no longer cute.
frowning, worried, sighing, and disgusting faces all day long, as if everyone in this world owe you. If such a person lives, it will only increase the obstacles of others. Unlike an interesting person. Because of his and her existence, the crowd around him became lively. His and her "aura" catalyze the essence of life, making people work hard and making people happy. Interesting people are the "pistachio" in life and the "source of happiness" in the crowd. When you get along with interesting people, you will find the world interesting, life interesting, and you will seem to be interesting. Interesting people are people who love life. In life, there is no profound knowledge of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Just eating, he can chew with relish, eat well, eat thin, eat happily, and eat sunny. A realm that can be pursued.
"Stop talking, Mr. Feynman", there is a scientist who is full of interest in everything that uses his brain, such as magic, unlocking, decrypting codes, guessing, mental arithmetic, gambling... The constant pursuit of interest has made the life of geek the dream of countless people. Interesting people are not necessarily more interesting than ancient people. I always feel that some people in ancient times are more interesting than we are now. When we read "The Analects of Confucius" today, we may think that Confucius is a boring person, but if you know his sense of humor to speak to students, when you see the beautiful Nanzi , he leans over and kisses Yijia, you will understand that the so-called "saint" is actually a temperamental and interesting person. Interesting people may not have a prominent reputation, but they must be unrestrained and unworldly. King You of Jin lives in Shanyin. One night, it snowed heavily.
Ziyou woke up from the cold. He simply went to the yard to drink and watch the snow scene. Interesting people have no restraints in their hearts, express their feelings directly, and have the ultimate temperament. Mr. Huaisha, a master of Chinese studies and Chuci, is nearly a hundred years old. He prefers to wear bright red and green clothes, and large sunglasses that cover half of his face. He is more fashionable than that young man; every time he attends an event, the host needs to introduce him as a "young poet." As soon as he opened his mouth, he quoted the classics and made the audience cheer.When he saw the beauty, his eyes not only lit up, but also praised him with "sweet words", but also wanted to get close to him. No matter where he is, he will be lively. Interesting people may not be in a good situation, but they are unique and will not change their true nature. Jinzi Holy Altar was clever all his life, but after being sentenced to death for the "crying temple case", it was still the same. Seeing the execution time approaching, Jin Shengtan's two sons Li'er and Lianzi burst into tears when they looked at their dying father. Jin Shengtan said calmly, "What's the use of crying? Come on, I'll make a couplet for you." So he recited the couplet "Lotus Heart Wounded". My son knelt on the ground crying and said, "Why did he feel the right couplet?" He thought for a while and said, "Get up, don't cry, I'll read a couplet for you." Then he recited the second couplet: "Pear stomach acid". This separation of life and death is right, a pun, a rigorous confrontation, and shocking. Interesting people may not be able to achieve great things, but people are happy to see them. The old naughty boy in " The Legend of the Condor Heroes " is one of the most popular characters. Although he is very skilled in martial arts, he has a childlike mentality. Many comedy adds a lot of romantic and cheerful life to the bloody world. It should be reminded that interest is a scarce resource in this world. Interest has nothing to do with how much you read or how much money you make. Interesting has nothing to do with identity, status, gender, age, environment, and conditions. Interesting people are easily misunderstood. Some people mistakenly think that fighting, eating, gambling, swearing, and obscene behaviors are interesting. Interestingly, this is the highest state of human nature. It is not difficult to be an interesting person, first of all, you need to find an interesting world. Funism is a life attitude. Interesting people are usually smart, optimistic, humorous and emotional. Interesting people are those who understand the true meaning of life, and those who know how to enjoy life. The more people are interesting, the higher our happiness index is, and hopefully we can all be interesting.
