When it comes to marrying far away, I believe many women are worried. For love, they stay away from their familiar hometown and their parents who gave birth to her, and go to a strange place to start their lives again, full of longing for a better life in the future.
Love is romantic, marriage is realistic, as the passion fades away, what is left is a trivial life. Women who marry far away will find that the road back to their hometown is not as simple as imagined, and the distance from their hometown is getting farther and farther away.
Recently, a young man born in the 1990s took his father to a different place 5,000 miles away to visit his aunt who had been married for 50 years. The scene when he came back made countless netizens unable to help but cry.
1, Huai'an, Jiangsu Province, a netizen posted a video of himself taking his father to Harbin to visit his aunt. The man said that his father missed his younger sister far away in the Northeast and wanted to see her, but because he was old, his family was worried about his long trip and had not been able to make a trip.
This time the son was on vacation, so the father asked his son for his advice and asked him to accompany him to visit his aunt who had been married for 50 years in the northeast.
The journey is long and the transportation is inconvenient. My aunt's home is still in the far countryside. After passing the plane, bus, etc., the man and his father arrived at their aunt's home safely.
Aunt's house is an ordinary rural family. From the simple furnishings at home, we can see that life is average and not very wealthy. However, when she saw the arrival of her brother and nephew, her aunt was still very happy. She was busy in the kitchen and made a table of sumptuous farm dishes.
The man said that the brother and sister met, not as he imagined, when they met, they hugged their heads and cried, or how exciting the scenes were. Both of them looked very calm, especially when their father even came to their sister's house, which was a bit unnatural.
But the happiness on my aunt's face still cannot be hidden. The simple aunt is not good at speaking, so she can only express her inner joy by preparing all kinds of delicious food for her brother and nephew by constantly working hard.
However, because it is the busy autumn harvest season in the local area, my aunt's family also has hundreds of acres of farmland, and they are so busy that they don't touch the ground every day, so they waited for a few days before going home and rushed home.
When the father and son left their aunt's house, the aunt did not go out to see her off. The brother's expression was a little lonely, but the man understood her aunt's mood because she could not bear the sadness and sadness of parting. After all, the brother and sister would never see each other again after this parting.
According to the man, this is the second time my father has come after his aunt married away. The last time was more than 20 years ago, and this time, it is probably the last time. After all, my father is also old. Such sad scenes as
made countless netizens cry. They said that the reluctance and sadness may only be deeply experienced by women who marry far away.
As the saying goes, brothers and sisters have deep affection. Even if they are far away from thousands of miles away, the thought is still deeply buried in the heart and it is difficult to disperse for a long time. I am worried about my sister's life, and I am worried that she can come back to see her in the future. My wishes are always beautiful, but the reality is so cruel.
Just as a netizen said it is right. Marrying so far away is destined to be a relative, and the next generation becomes a stranger.
What a sad fact. Although the cash society has developed transportation and convenient network, in reality, if you want to marry far away, it is still a matter that you have to seriously consider. After all, a woman has children and takes root in her in-laws' home. If you want to return to her parents to be filial, it is because she has the will but lacks strength, and has too much helplessness in reality.
We once thought that the future is long, but we forgot that things are impermanent, tomorrow or accident, and I don’t know which one will come first. Time is long, but life is short, and before we know it, we go from youth to twilight years.
Where has the time gone? We have not enjoyed life well, and have not loved our relatives well. Looking back, we are already in the twilight years of white hair, and our lives are coming to an end.
While the sun is shining, while the time is not old, go and see the relatives you miss, the person you love in your heart, stay by your parents, be filial and be filial, and leave no regrets in life!
