A marriage is a "building" built by two people based on love, money as the cornerstone, sex as the bridge, and trust as the support. If there are no "things" like love, money, sex and trust, this "building" will inevitably be in danger and may collapse at any time.
1. Marriage without love is no happiness.
A marriage, if you have no emotional foundation, just look at the conditions and have no love, it is like a cold transaction. There is no question of tolerance or patience. Once there is a conflict, we will only consider ourselves and will not care about the other person's feelings at all.
has no emotional communication for a long time, and rely on children to maintain the appearance of marriage, and are too lazy to manage and maintain it. It is full of warmth, quarrels and betrayal. In such a marriage without love, there is naturally no happiness. Over time, it will be difficult to maintain the marriage.
2. Marriage without money is everywhere in life.
Marriage is not something that can make you drink enough with affection. There are many responsibilities and obligations that need to be borne. Children's education, parents' support, food, oil and salt, human relationships and worldly affairs, everything is inseparable from money.
Happiness is not necessarily related to money, but unhappiness is often related to money. In a marriage without money, life is full of tests, which not only tests the relationship between two people, but also tests the determination to share weal and woe. If the two quarrel over the whole day over the food, food, oil and salt, and chickens and dogs, and if this continues, no matter how good the relationship is, it will not be able to withstand the trouble, and the marriage will naturally have problems.
. Marriage without sex will part ways sooner or later.
Marriages without sex have a false reputation. They are husband and wife during the day because their identity maintains the appearance of the couple. At night, they are neighbors, each sleeps with their own slumbers and do not disturb each other. Even if you sleep in the same bed, you will have different dreams in the same bed, which is a painful torment for both of you.
Sex life is the lubricant of husband and wife's relationship. Without sex, the two are no longer intimate, and the couple will inevitably feel a grudge. After the desire is suppressed for a long time, it is inevitable to find a vent. The extramarital affair is not far away, and the relationship between husband and wife gradually moves towards distantness or ends, and it is also a matter of time before we part ways.
4. A marriage without trust will be broken up sooner or later.
Trust is like a piece of glass, and once it is broken, it is difficult to recover. In a marriage, if there is no basic trust between husband and wife, various contradictions, differences and misunderstandings will arise due to suspicion, resulting in a crisis of trust.
All kinds of distrust will lead to deeper and deeper estrangement and resentment, cold violence and old accounts will all be put on the table, causing the trust to be exhausted, leaving behind a piece of pain and chicken feathers.
If these four situations occur in marriage, you must actively respond. The two should communicate more, understand more, work together to maintain this "marriage building" and create a better life together!
