My uncle passed away during National Day. Although my children were crying, I knew they did not suffer too much pain or reluctance, but instead felt relieved.
Uncle has been lazy all his life. As long as I can remember, several cousins sighed angrily when they mentioned it, and when they said it, his cousin gritted his teeth even more annoyed. The aunt died in her 40s. At that time, the uncle was just over 40 years old. He was in his prime. His family was so poor that he was half-year-old. He was half-year-old. It was when he was about to do his best to take on the heavy burden, but he was basically flat. Since then, I have rarely seen him go to the fields, and all the work in the fields has been handed over to my cousin and his cousin. No matter whether it is windy, rainy, harvesting and summer seeds, everyone is busy with the tops. The old man in his seventies or eighties goes to the field to help. The uncle is never too anxious or slow. It took him a long time for the rest of the day before he took his big teacup into the field. He left early without knowing whether his feet were mud. As for when he is not very busy, no matter how tired the children go down the field, he doesn’t care about it and just carries his teacup to play cards and chat with the old men. I do laundry, cooking, carrying water and chopping wood at home, and I don’t care about anything, just knowing that I will go home for dinner when it’s time to go. My twelve or thirteen-year-old cousin took water pressure several times along the way. My uncle sat in the shade of the tree and fanned the palm-leaf fan and drank the water with peace of mind.
The second year after the aunt passed away, the cousin got married. The marriage was decided before the aunt passed away, and it was exchanged for the second cousin's marriage. As soon as my cousin entered the door, he often asked my parents to accuse my uncle of his uncle, and he hated him every time he said that. Less than a year later, his cousin-law split up with him, and his teenage second cousin took over the financial power of the family, and his uncle had to ask for money from his second brother. At that time, my second brother sold side dishes and collected scraps. No matter what he did, even if he was too busy, his uncle rarely took the initiative to help him. Sometimes even if he called him, he would always feel uncomfortable and uneasy, and he would say that he would not have to do it and play cards more than anyone else. My second cousin was so angry that he had no choice. Every time he drank some wine, he would run to my dad and cry. I am so lazy and have no money in my hands. My cousin naturally can't give him a good face. Later, my second cousin also exchanged my third cousin for her daughter-in-law for marriage and got a wife, but whether it was a blind date or a wedding or a drink, my second cousin discussed with my cousin's wife and my parents if she had any questions, and my uncle didn't ask or inquire. Whether it is the eldest brother's or the second brother's family, the eldest uncle rarely helps to take care of him. He puts up whatever food his daughter can eat for him or what delicious food he bought himself and eats it secretly without letting his grandchildren eat it. The two daughters-in-law are still angry when they mention it.
However, the uncle has one advantage, he is heartless and shameless. No matter which child quarrels at him, he doesn't say anything or speak. If you are a person with a temper over the years, you will be criticized and disliked by your children all day long, and you will be so angry that you will be so angry. My uncle still remains the same as before, and remains unchanged. I got hemiplegia a few years ago. Although I was cured, it was no longer very convenient to move. He really wanted to live in a rotation like other old men, but neither of them wanted to live. In the end, my father asked them that the family would pay 2,000 yuan a year for him to cook and eat by himself. I was seriously ill in the spring of this year and couldn't move. My second brother was not at home, so I agreed that my cousin's house would deliver food to him and that he would live in my second brother's yard by himself. The lobby sister-in-law held a grudge against him all her life, what can she do for him? According to the villagers, he was skinny and bone-skinned in the last two months, and the house was so smelly that it was impossible to get into people.
There is a cause and effect. When he was young, he did not fulfill his responsibilities for his family and children. When he was old, he would not have the kind of reluctance and filial piety to him. His death is a relief for him and his children.
