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Friends are a very important part of our lives. They share happiness with us when they are happy and share pain with us when they are in pain.
But the relationship between friends is not always harmonious.
If you give to a person, he may not repay you with the same kindness. There are some people who think we are friends, but in the hearts of others, they may not regard you as a friend at all.
If a person treats you like this often, in fact, he is just dislikeing you. Don’t think that he is your friend and don’t continue to interact.
1: Disrespect your opinions
The most important thing about getting along with friends is equality.
You are two independent and equal individuals. There is no one who is superior or inferior, and no one is inferior. No one is inferior to anyone, so the opinions of both should be taken seriously.
However, if your friend never values your opinions while getting along with you, it means that what he hopes is not a friend who communicates with him equally, but a vocal worm that echoes him.
He just treats you as his follower and his vassal. He will never pay any attention to the opinions you put forward, regardless of whether they are correct or not. If you are with a friend like
, you will actually become a green leaf that sets off the red flowers.
Without equal communication, it is destined to be impossible for two people to have sincere feelings. This kind of friendship full of good and bad, high and low will only make people feel tired.
2: You often make jokes about you
You can make jokes among friends, but any joke should be done without offense. If a joke makes either party feel uncomfortable, then this is not humor, but meanness.
Some people, their self-righteous humor, are actually belittle each other and trample on each other's dignity. They use sarcasm to pretend to be humorous, but in essence they are acts that hurt each other.
Real friends will not do such things. If someone is mean to you in such a humorous way, it actually means that he looks down on you at all.
He feels that you do not have the ability to resist and the courage to resist. Your feelings are not worth caring about, so he will enjoy you unscrupulously.
His purpose is not to make everyone happy, but to satisfy his bad mentality. Such people are both bullying the weak and afraid of the strong and lacking in a proper manner. They are really not suitable to continue dating as friends.
3: Break your promise and
First is based on integrity among friends. If a friend really cares about you and values you, he will definitely remember the promise between him and you.
A person can easily turn his promises to you, which means that you are not important in his heart. Those promises you think are just his casual talk about.
People who do not even keep their promises will naturally not be very sincere, and they will not take you in their hearts. In essence, they will look down on you.
Because you don’t take you seriously, the promises between you and you are just empty words and can be betrayed at will without paying any price. When you get along with such a person, all you gain is disappointment again and again.
Friends are a warm word, it should not be the reason for us to hurt each other. You should also keep your eyes open when choosing friends. Don’t just rely on your own wishful thinking and give foolishly.
Maybe he won’t say everything he thinks, but he will definitely reveal everything he thinks in his actions.
It is better to see what he has done when he hears what he has done. If you don’t respect you, don’t be nostalgic. There are more friends around you who are worth cherishing.
Please remember that real friends are the wealth in life. Fake friends will only cause internal friction.
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