Aged girls misunderstood that if they really can't get married, I'll be a stepmother
Many older girls think that if they really can't get married, there is another way out, which is to be a stepmother. Many older girls feel that they have no children and are wronged as stepmothers to find a second marriage. This level of low marriage should be able to live well. In fact, this is a big misunderstanding, the reasons are as follows:
- The reason for his divorce:
It may be because he has a problem with himself: he gambling, prostitution, cheating, his personality is too difficult to get along with, his family has a low sense of boundaries and is thief, he is too calculating, ma's baby, sister-in-law, etc.
It may be because his ex-wife has a problem with him; even if his ex-wife has a problem, it has a lot to do with his personality. He chooses the person himself, and the baby has been born, and it is much lower for girls, so it is better to go out and start over and leave him. I believe that the hidden dangers a man has is self-evident;
- child support issues:
keeps with you: men who are willing to take care of their children are relatively responsible, and their sense of responsibility and love are given to their eldest son or daughter. They don’t have much expectations for second-marriage children. Even if they have the same mother and father, the two children still rob the love of their parents. The relationship between half-children will test the mother's emotional intelligence;
The child follows his ex-wife: He also needs to visit frequently, see his children frequently, and also pay and work;
If a boy buys a house and gives a bride price in the future, it is normal for the father to pay a large amount;
If it is a daughter, the house and dowry will not be missing, but the ex-wife's child will feel guilty about divorce, and the father's investment may take up a large amount. ;
- Ex-wife problem:
He goes to his ex-wife to see his children from time to time, sometimes staying overnight, or his ex-wife comes to ask about his well-being by borrowing child matters from time to time, and calls him to take care of the children together, which is a lot of trouble;
- Not strong willingness to get married:
Some boys/girls have moderate conditions or are relatively good, and they finally get divorced I have a baby, and I am not in a hurry to get married. I just want to live happily. In other words, I live for myself for the rest of my life. If I can’t understand, I can look at those who posted the divorce certificate . For them, divorce means regaining freedom. I suddenly remembered the guy who signed the divorce agreement in the fishing pond. After divorce, he just wanted to fish well;
- Not strong willingness to rebirth:
Marriage may be under pressure from the woman, and rebirth may not be active or willing to cooperate well. If an older woman chooses a divorced boy with a baby, most men are around 40 years old. If the man’s tadpole is of poor quality at this age, it is easy to cause the woman to have a miscarriage. It is also possible that the woman has poor physical condition due to age reasons, etc. The above reasons require test tubes, and the man may not be willing to accumulate. Very cooperative;
To sum up, some divorced men of older age are very good. They finally divorced. They may just want to choose a "concubine" or find a "uncle" for themselves and not want to get married. They just want to spend as long as possible. Most of the above views are applicable, and the divorce rate is very high now. For major marriage events, it is recommended to choose carefully; if you are not married, what situation do you think will be willing to choose a divorced her/him? Tell me in the comment section;)
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