Everyone yearns for a happy life, especially women. When they reach a certain age, as the pressure and worries increase, they are more eager to find their own happiness.
Getting happiness is actually a kind of ability. Looking at happy women, whether in work, life, or interpersonal communication, they are full of heart, calmness, and mature in wisdom.
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Rich in the heart
Writer Lin Qingxuan once said: "It is spotless, it is not that there is no dust flying, but that the dust lets it fly, and I am my sunshine."
A happy woman, even though she has experienced the ups and downs, is still confident in her heart; despite the difficulties of life, she is still rich in her heart.
Yang Huishan , once a hot popular star. But when her acting career was at its peak, she suddenly announced that she would retire from the film industry and devote herself to Liuli Art without hesitation.
Not long after, she built her own glass workshop, but because she didn't know much about glass production, she never created a qualified work in the next five years despite countless failures. During the period of
, she not only spent all her savings for Liuli Art, sold her real estate, but also owed a lot of foreign debts. When she was in the worst, even the bank was reluctant to lend her.
But she still did not give up, nor did she mind the hardships in material life. She kept her passionate feelings for Liuli Art and continued to explore and try.
She believes that as long as you have love in your heart, no matter how hard or poor the days are, there will always be a day that will pass.
The rich heart supported her to survive more than five years of hard time. In the end, she successfully made the first high-quality glass craft using the long-lost Han Dynasty dewax casting method.
Since then, Yang Huishan's glazing career has gradually improved. Not only has she created many glazing products that are well-known at home and abroad, but she has also gradually become one of the world's first-class craftsmen.
There is a saying that goes like this: "A rich heart is the confidence for a woman to live a good life."
The happier a woman lives, the clearer she knows what she wants. They always stick to what they think and love in their hearts, not being confined to things, and not being confused in their hearts.
The inner wealth and love have become their hardest armor when fighting hardships, helping them move forward, overcome all obstacles, and find their ideal world.
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Calm and go
There is a question on the Internet: "What kind of woman do you appreciate the most?"
The most praiseworthy reply : "Don't panic when doing anything, be calm and relaxed when something big comes, and the face will not change when the wind and rain are about to come."
In reality, most women who can live so fond and calm and calm have a strong heart.
is just like the movie "Mom!" 》Wu Yanshu, who won the Best Actress at a certain awards ceremony.
She was born in a scholarly family. Since childhood, her parents have strictly educated her: her standing posture should comply with the standards of a lady from a family, and her words and demeanors should be polite and decent.
Therefore, even at the age of 84, she is still dignified and generous, with a kind and kind smile on her face.
After suffering heavy blows such as the pain of losing her husband and the death of her parents in 2016, she was depressed for a long time and could not get out of her sadness.
Finally, acting saved her. After 40 years of film and television gap, she resolutely chose to return to the screen. During the performance, she gradually let go of the pain caused by the death of her relatives and found a new joy in life.
Even she herself said: "If a person must experience changes, it is unstoppable. No matter what big thing comes, after that period, it becomes the past, it becomes a small thing, and there is no need to be afraid of anything."
Today, Wu Yanshu has a calm mind and elegant as before. When walking on the road of life, her posture becomes more and more firm and calm.
Calmness is the temperament and demeanor accumulated over time, and it is also the courage and strength that a woman has tempered after facing the sufferings of life.
Do not complain about difficulties, do not ruminate on the pain, and know how to stabilize the heart, so that you can act calmly.
Learn to be at peace and face the joys, sorrows, ups and downs of life calmly. Only then can we not be easily influenced by gains and losses, and welcome more beauty and happiness into life.
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matured in intelligence
Former US President Obama 's wife Michelle . Before he met Obama, he was an outstanding lawyer who combines ability, wisdom and intelligence.
After Obama entered politics, the couple often separated from each other, and many things at home fell on Michelle alone.
Michelle has to work and take into account her family. The degree of hard work can be imagined, so soon, she felt overwhelmed and complained about her husband.
But as a mature and wise woman, Michelle's best thing is:
She understands that there is a problem with her marriage. The first thing she thinks about is not to change her husband, but how to solve this problem and protect this marriage.
So she took Obama to conduct marriage consultation, accepted the advice of the marriage counselor, turned her attention to the places she was interested in, and finally found a new pursuit.
Before, she would wait for her husband to go home. Later, she gave up the opportunity to reunite with her husband and refused to move to Washington , and stayed in Chicago with her two daughters alone.
She doesn't want to give up her favorite job in Chicago in order to support her husband. She felt that a woman had to become a better self first in order to become a better wife.
Michel's independent and self-reliant thinking prompted her to become not only the most capable helper in Obama's career, but also the best virtuous support in her husband's life.
After her husband stepped down as president, she was elected as one of the most respected women in the United States with her strong charm.
Philosopher Cicero once said: "Those who rely all on themselves and have everything themselves cannot be unhappy."
The more mature a woman is, the less she needs others to give her happiness, because they can create happiness themselves.
No matter what stage of life they are in and what role they play, they can always maintain the ability to grow upward and constantly improve themselves.
They no longer rely on others, no longer let their emotions go, and live a more mature and glorious selves on the road of growth and transformation.
Psychological expert Bi Shumin said: "Happiness must be something that will run through your life."
Women are looking for their own happiness throughout their lives.
May the ladies in the world have a rich heart, take calm steps, and use a more mature mind to polish themselves to shine brightly.
In the ever-changing world, cultivate your own happiness and encounter more happiness unexpectedly.
encourage each other!
