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1. A woman will feel that she is being used when she meets a husband who doesn’t love her.
Just like some men, when their wives are pregnant, they care about their wives in all kinds of care. When their wives give birth to their children, their attitude towards their wives can be said to be a 180℃ turn, complaining that their wives "don't do this or that" and complaining that their wives "has not given anything for this family"...
This is a manifestation of men not loving women. In this case, women will feel that they are regarded as "a machine for giving birth" and will feel that they are "used".
2. When a woman meets a husband who doesn’t love her, she will feel that she is an “outsider”.
There is a typical type of men here, that is, "mama's boy". They follow their mother's arrangements in everything, do whatever mother asks them to do, and don't do whatever mother doesn't want them to do. They are even married and married, and are still "listening to mother's arrangements" in detail.
For example, the wife said, "Let's buy a TV!" He would say, "I'll ask my mother for her opinion." For example, if the wife says, "Let's buy a sofa!" He will say, "I'll ask my mother's opinion"... Men like
The first feeling that a woman gives is "no opinion and no independence", and the other is that it will make women feel that "there is no place in his heart" or "I will always be an outsider in this family."
3. A woman meets a husband who doesn’t love her, just like she was thrown into a cold palace.
There is a kind of husband and wife relationship. No matter how much your wife does or how hard your wife works, the husband ignores his wife's efforts and even compares his wife with other people's wives.
For example, the wife gets up early and goes to bed late every day, working hard to make money, but he says to his wife: "You compare, look at others, and then look at you..." No matter what the wife gives, in his eyes, he will only have all kinds of dissatisfaction, accusations and complaints.
In fact, from a psychological perspective, the more people blame and complain about others, the more they use others to vent their "dissatisfaction with themselves", which is a manifestation of incompetence.
Then, if a woman meets such a husband who doesn't love her, no matter what she has paid for this family, he doesn't care at all, and he looks "dissatisfied" in her face, and the woman will feel that she is ignored, as if she has been thrown into a "cold palace".
Changyan Changyu:
What does it feel like to meet a husband who doesn’t love him? When a woman meets a husband who doesn’t love her, she will feel that she is not cared about, is isolated, is not understood, and feels that she is living a hard life.
On the contrary, if a woman meets a husband who loves her, then the woman will feel that she is cared about and cared about, and her life state is happy and happy.
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