Every sober person has a small account in his heart.
This account does not count as a major event in the world, does not count as market development, does not count as a major dispute between people and society, and does not count as a friction between morality and concepts.
This account calculates the fireworks of the world and the fireworks of the world of oneself.
This account is very small, how small is it?
dating and marriage, how much I have paid and how much I have gained, what I have devoted to, whether I can bear when I go to work, work, relationship with people around me, what I have invested in,
ask myself, how much I can accept the pressure of life, mental distress, how much I have,
How much I have, I can avoid.
The account is too small, so small that I feel embarrassed to tell outsiders, because it makes people feel like "Hey, why do you have to calculate everything?" Similar comments.
is the life of ordinary people, and it is precisely dealing with these " firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, ". These things seem to be small things, but often only a slight change can affect the "sweet, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty" in our hearts.
accounts are small, but the accounts are not confused. More and more people are starting to calculate this small account, but they don’t know if they don’t count. They are shocked when they calculate: the more they calculate the more they lose, but the more they lose, the more they want to figure out their own life and how they “lose”.
The cruelty of life is that when you think your life is at the bottom,
actually has room for decline.
When we no longer look at our lives with an indifferent attitude, we will lose again and again in life, but
makes us live a more humble life.
There are many things that must be compromised in life. In order to maintain a stable life and social relationships, we can only hide our knowingly asked right things and compromise on those obvious mistakes.
This is not the end.
For example, in order to look less alien in the group, we must show a positive show of kindness, even if some people's actions are extremely ignorant and their speeches are extremely absurd and illogical. In order to prevent themselves from being targeted, we can only force ourselves to be the same as others.
slap hypocritically while retaining the madness. After experiencing things like
, you will occasionally wonder if there is something wrong with your social circle, and you will feel that your ability is insufficient, so you can only work with such people. However, after experiencing more and seeing countless strange things, you will find that those people are the norm.
This is like why many TV series, movies, short dramas and short videos in recent years give people a feeling of "Do you look down on my IQ?" But in fact, if you pay a little attention, you will find that these things do not cater to the existence of a special group,
. In fact, this is a cater to the mainstream group, and it is an existence recognized and accepted by the mainstream group.
Then if we use this phenomenon to amplify the era we are in, you will find a disheartening fact, that is, if you find that your thinking and mentality have gradually deviated from the majority, what you have paid is no longer recognized by the majority, and the suppression you are under does not have the fact that "maybe one day in the future will really get better",
Then you, or those who are still sober, are indeed being eliminated.
Of course, we cannot say arbitrarily whether all sober people, those who understand are eliminated. Those who look down on them, there are sober people, those who hold wealth, among them, there are also people who understand, but the trend is trending and XX's direction, many things are destined to be unchanged.
Then it doesn't matter who step on this accelerator:
life makes many people realize that they are in a very humble area. Although you will hear a lot of urging people to change, and welcome the unknown future with a sunny mentality.
But if the future is known and it is already clear that it can no longer be clear,
people's disappointment is not just disappointed in the status quo.
Encouragement and inspiring words always exist, but as a real person,
will always believe it, and there will always be disbelief.
So on this issue, if we put aside the sensitivity caused by emotions and only use facts to talk about the status quo.
So what is the current situation?
The current situation is that most people who do not believe now are people who once believed very much and were very willing to give their own efforts to believe.
This is a very sad fact, but the sun is always sunshine, and the singing is still loud:
is just some people who don’t want to be sunburned by sunshine ,
don’t want those loud singing to disturb their nightmare.
