What will you do when you meet a man you like outside of marriage? Should you dare to love and hate and live for yourself, or should you stick to the bottom line and protect the integrity of your family? Advance is this kind of adventure; retreat, but reluctance to give up. Perhaps this is the conflicting psychology of a woman who is trapped in the whirlpool of extramarital affairs!
Extramarital affairs are always tempting. Even if there is true love, it is an indulgence that passes by happiness. Some women just don’t believe it, thinking that they met a man who understands her, and felt that the spring of life was coming, and they were very happy and frantically crazy, but as a result, they became deeper and deeper and deeper and more than just extricate themselves.
When the freshness of extramarital affairs gradually fades away, they suddenly realize how important family is. Facing husbands in marriage and lovers outside marriage, cheating women always force themselves to make up their minds to make a choice. Either tie a knot with an extramarital lover or live a good life with your husband, this is a choice that women must make.
The question is, once a woman is trapped in the quagmire of extramarital affair, how can she get what she wants or get out of her way? If he wants to marry an extramarital lover, will he follow his mercy and divorce his wife? If you want to live a good life with your husband, can your extramarital lover give up and stop getting entangled? Therefore, once a woman unfortunately falls in love with an extramarital man, the wisest choice is to stop the loss in time. The sooner she gets rid of her lover's entanglement, the better.
Ms. Wang Linlin fell in love with a man outside of marriage, and found the sweetness of her first love in the tryst under the moonlight, forgetting the responsibility of her family and the chastity of a woman. She thought she was a love supremacist who dared to love and hate, but as she deepened her relationship with her lover, she found that extramarital affairs were not that simple.
It is really not easy to give up her family. She still can’t give up her child emotionally, and she is worried that her child will hate her for the rest of her life if she doesn’t understand.
What bothers her even more was that her lover was just greedy for her beauty and had no intention of divorceing her wife and marrying her. She repeatedly found various excuses to make her procrastinate. Gradually, Ms. Wang Linlin also saw clearly that her lover was just looking for a free woman to sleep with. All the sweet words and vows were just deceptions with ulterior motives.
Ms. Wang feels so stupid that she is ashamed of everything she has done. It's a coincidence that one night, she chatted with her lover on WeChat and wanted to end this unclear relationship between her and her lover, but she fell asleep and fell down under the bed.
Her husband got up to go to the bathroom and picked up her cell phone, and tucked her in the quilt. Fortunately, the phone fell under the bed and ran out of power, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
Ms. Wang is really scared. If she continues to get entangled with her lover, sooner or later, her husband will notice it and destroy the two families. Women, everyone understands the truth, but they are most afraid of being obsessed with ignorance and being lucky. Ms. Wang repeatedly expressed her willingness to break up and never meet again, but she compromised under the entanglement of her lover again and again. My lover always said that this was the last time we met, but I still couldn't help but beg for the next time.
Big mistake has been made. Only by making up our minds to give up can women get rid of the entanglement of extramarital affairs and keep their happiness. How many women just float around in fear that their husbands will notice and are reluctant to give up and lingering with their lovers, and then continue to have a secret meeting with their lovers again and again.
To be honest, it is a woman's luck to not be discovered for extramarital affairs, but it is definitely not a woman's happiness. A woman is involved in two men, physically and mentally exhausted and exhausted, and even a woman’s normal life is lost. What else can she talk about happiness?
If a woman does not make up her mind to draw a line with her lover early, she will sooner or later fall into the abyss of misfortune.
You have to admit that no matter how open and progressive people’s concepts are, men still cannot accept the humiliation of women’s extramarital affair. Although women may not necessarily be punished for extramarital affair, the consequences of extramarital affair are often unbearable for women.
At least, it is humiliated, beaten and scolded by men and swept out of the house, despised by others, and complained by children.
Women with extramarital affairs should not be deeply involved in it and refuse to turn back, nor should they just worry about being noticed by their husband. The most important thing is to resolutely never get entangled with their lover, never see each other again, reflect on their own life, and return to their family to live a peaceful life.
Other than that, the others are unfortunate choices.
(The picture is from the Internet, the character is a pseudonym)
