"I, I'm guarding against each other when I get older. When I'm young, I'll talk. Now I don't think about it anymore, and my relationship can only become weaker and weaker. Unfortunately, I'm at this age, divorce is not that simple. In the end, I can only live an AA life. People think we are a trendy young! The helplessness inside is hard to describe..." Aunt Luo said this while chatting.
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Aunt Luo is 3 years younger than her wife. The two of them met through a matchmaker. Unfortunately, they have no children in this life. It’s not that they don’t want it, but because of their health, they will never have this blessing in this life. When she was young, her husband was thinking about starting a business, so Aunt Luo and the others did not plan to have children. Until she was 35 years old, her career was stable, but it was difficult to want children. The couple had some minor problems, and due to their age, the doctor advised them to take it more. For this reason, Aunt Luo was sad for a long time, and her husband persuaded her: "There are so many couples without children now, and they are living well. Besides, I am successful in my career now, and we are so rich, so we are not afraid of being old and not guaranteed. Besides, this is what I owe you, I will always be with you, don't worry!" At that time, Aunt Luo and her husband were just middle-aged people. They felt that they should not force their fate, and it doesn't matter if they have no children. They slowly let go until they get older...
Although there are no children, Aunt Luo's relationship with her husband was still very good in the early years. Until that time, Aunt Luo's unintentional words became the eternal pain in the couple's heart. My nephew is young and a naughty man. He accidentally brought the soup to Aunt Luo's husband, so he said a few unhappy words, but Aunt Luo is a slut: "What are you scruples about with a child? You don't know how difficult it is to raise a child now. I can't bear to say something about my baby, and I just yell. You yell. I don't know if you don't be a father!" My husband's face was bad at that time and didn't speak all day. Mother Luo knew that his son-in-law was in a bad mood, so he privately asked Aunt Luo to persuade him: "Your brother is that kind of temperament, he doesn't know how to turn the corner, and he is not bad!" In fact, Aunt Luo really didn't take this to heart, but her husband took it seriously. He had a big fight with her because of a trivial matter when he got home, and even talked about the lack of children. Most of the time it was Aunt Luo's responsibility. He was sad, and Aunt Luo didn't say anything.
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40, Aunt Luo’s husband had already found a job and was about to be assigned to a job in another place. In fact, he could completely refuse, but probably to escape from this home, he agreed. In the next three years, Aunt Luo had almost no contact with her husband. He had an outsider. Aunt Luo knew very well that if her husband could have children with that woman, they would probably have a divorce. However, Aunt Luo’s husband had no children with that woman for three years, so the matter was left unresolved. This was known to Aunt Luo through his colleagues. Some photos were used as evidence, so it would definitely not be added. However, her husband did not mention it after she came back, and Aunt Luo did not expose it either. When things came to this point, Aunt Luo's heart was cold. She didn't want to be a good wife and mother, would not cook for her husband, or serve her daily life. She wanted to open her mind. If she didn't have love, it would be a good choice to have money in the bank card. She would live for herself for the rest of her life!
Aunt Luo found a job. She worked part-time jobs in her spare time and would not spend the money she earned indiscriminately. Instead, she saved it in her bank card as much as possible. During that time, she followed her as magical as she wanted, and she was reluctant to buy anything. She only saw that the numbers in the card were getting higher and higher, and she felt safe in her heart. At the age of 55, Aunt Luo retired. At that time, he was in good health and planned to find another job. At that time, her mother-in-law advised her: "Anyway, the family is not short of money, and you don't have children. Why should I move to live with us and do laundry, cook, and clean. Anyway, I'm used to it, and the whole family is still more lively!" Aunt Luo was unwilling to find a job and can still get a salary. Why do you have to be a nanny and serve people? A few years later, Aunt Luo bought a suite. Although she couldn't live there, it could be used for rent, which is also considered an investment, and she could also have a living security in the future.Originally, Aunt Luo felt that her life had just passed, but she didn't expect that her husband would actually propose an AA system with him. Aunt Luo's first reaction was that there was someone outside and that she was going to get a divorce, but now she has the confidence, so she simply took the initiative to bring it up.
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The husband was stunned by Aunt Luo's words: "What are you talking nonsense? We are all at this age, why are you talking about divorce? Let's just live like this. What can you change even if you divorce?" After hearing this, Aunt Luo seemed to make sense. Even if you divorce, life would be just like this. Why not just do it? Then she moved her things to the guest bedroom, and from then on, the two of them really became roommates...
