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Loving someone in the name of friendship is a failure of friendship and a blasphemy of love. Because friendship and love are two completely different existences, if you are confused, it means that you are an irresponsible and have no responsibility.
If you want to be friends with someone, keep the most basic sense of distance and sense of proportion; if you want to become a lover with someone, pursue it carefully and let the other person feel your sincerity.
Never love each other in the name of friendship. Such hypocritical friendship does not need; and such uncertain love does not need the other party.
The relationship between men and women is impure, and the swaying back and forth between friendship and love often starts with sharing the following three things, each of which is obvious.
1: Shared each other's personal belongings without any sense of distance
The reason why private belongings are private is that they cannot be shared with others, but some people's feelings for someone have changed, and the boundaries of many things are blurred and they no longer care.
For example, you can never let unfamiliar people drink water with your cup, but the one you like can do it. Not only that, you will also regard two people sharing a water cup as a proof of the closer relationship between the two people. The difference between treating
is actually love.
Apart from the water cup, you don’t mind the other party using your other personal belongings, such as nail clippers, combs, towels, toothpaste, etc. In short, there is no sense of distance between you. Although you have not confirmed your relationship, it seems that you are really in love.
This shows that the relationship between you is no longer pure.
2: Share all privacy and secrets, and you have no concealment from each other
In addition to the obvious signs in life, you will also treat them differently psychologically. There are some things you won’t tell others, but you will share them with them without reservation.
For example, your privacy, some secrets from your past, or a scar in your heart.
, you are not afraid of being known by him, because you have regarded him as a very close and trustworthy person in your heart. You won’t worry that he will alienate you if he knows this, but instead feels unprecedentedly relaxed because he has no concealment.
This means that you are ready to go with the other party for a long time.
And he is also willing to keep a secret for you, is willing to respect you, and will still be willing to be with you after seeing through you and knowing you enough, which also shows that his feelings for you are real.
3: Sharing time is inseparable, and even spending night together
Modern people live a fast pace and will only spend time willingly on people and things they care about. If men and women are already inseparable, often together alone, or even spend the night together, it is enough to show that their relationship is extraordinary.
Before Xiaoying was with her boyfriend, all the time except for going to work was basically shared.
At that time, my boyfriend would pick her up from get off work on time, and then the two of them would go to have dinner or late supper together. If it was too late, they would stay together. Although her boyfriend is sleeping on the sofa, the two are already intimate and can talk about everything.
Not long after, the two of them confirmed their relationship and moved together.
The two people who truly love each other don’t need too many routines. This feeling of going in two directions is clearer than anyone else in your heart. From the time you share all the time and spend the night together, you know that you are not ordinary friends of the opposite sex and have long crossed the line.
Since you have a love and a lot of intentions, why not go with the flow and be together openly? It saves you from having too long nights and dreams.
The way of expressing feelings between adults is often direct and tacit.Although they have not said it out loud, they both understand that when they do not reject certain things, they are actually a default.
When two people have started to share the above mentioned, it means that they have already thought of each other as their own person.
When you are no longer guarded against a person and give and trust without reservation, it means that your relationship is no longer pure, and there is no need to deceive yourself anymore. Only by taking one step forward and seizing the fate can you live up to your life.
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