Writer Bi Shumin said:
"Feeling is a pair of shoes. No matter what shoes, the most important thing is fitting; no matter what kind of marriage, the most wonderful thing is harmony. Don't just seek the luxury of shoes and feel your feet. Others see shoes, but you feel the feet. Foot is more important than shoes. This is a truth, but many people often forget it."
Think carefully about it, it is indeed true.
In love, many people always love with enthusiasm, even if the other party brings them pain and endless torture, they are unwilling to let go.
However, we are addicted to this kind of relationship that makes us worse and worse, what are we trying to do? Is it because of the word "love"?
is not childish!
Really good feelings are never a shackle that binds you, but a help that brings you.
The older you get and the more you experience, you will eventually understand that a person’s top self-discipline is someone who doesn’t like to make himself cheap.
The person who is truly worthy of your sincere efforts will definitely make you better and better.
The person who makes you suffer must be wrong
Writer Yishu said:
"Whether you feel hard is to force it. True love is to be happy. If you feel pain, it must be a mistake. It needs to end it in time and start over."
Good relationship will only make you move towards good results, not always putting you in pain and sadness. The kind of relationship that always makes you bad, maybe you can persist for a while through your forbearance.
However, people will always be tired, and one day you will be unbearable. This will only consume your feelings and will be destined to be unable to move on for a long time.
I have seen a story online:
A girl, I like a man very much.
But after the two of them were together, the girl not only did not feel as sweet and happy as she imagined, but instead was worried about gains and losses every day, and was often worried about him and was often worried about him.
is like this because a man is a particularly immature person. He never knows how to behave and has no ambition.
Every day, except for hanging out with a group of friends, they just stay at home to play games, and ask girls for it when they have no money.
For men's behavior, the girl thinks that as long as she works hard to treat him well, he will definitely grow up and will definitely take on the responsibilities that men should bear.
But one year or two years, not only did the man grow up, but the girl also made the girl more and more anxious. In the end, the girl couldn't stand it and proposed to break up.
There is a passage in the meaning of marriage:
"Happy feelings do not make people choose one between fulfilling themselves and sacrificing themselves, but let us fulfill each other through sacrifice."
Good feelings will definitely make you feel happy and able to continue to grow.
The person who makes you worse and worse must be wrong. Being with him is destined to have no future. Stay away early, stop loss in time.
Good relationships, and each other achieve the best relationships in
. What does it look like?
likes this answer very much, which is:
"A good relationship can inspire the good side of human nature, so that both people can find the best selves, and constantly become ambitious, excellent, and exciting."
Two people are together, not just venting their desires, but two people work together to create a better life for both of them.
In the TV series " Knows ", perhaps many people feel regret that Sheng Minglan did not marry the young master.
But in fact, I think Sheng Minglan is a blessing in disguise. Marrying Gu Tingye is her most correct and lucky choice.
We can see that after Sheng Minglan married into the Gu family, she received the best care. She went from being a person who was trembling and endured to being able to stand up and no longer feel wronged about being a little low.
, and Gu Tingye has changed from a person with a bad reputation to a popular person, and his future is getting smoother and smoother.
Perhaps this is a good relationship and a good marriage should look like.
Because I marry you, I become better and happier; because I marry you, I become more and more motivated and more glorious!
It is precisely because of this relationship that we all become our best selves.
Zhou Guoping said:
"If you feel particularly relaxed with others, and feel the real lessons in relaxation, then you must have met your kind."
is truly worthy of love and worthy of entrusting to cherishing people for a lifetime, and will definitely make yourself happier, happier, and better.
Love the person who makes you better
Guo Qilin once said:
"Two people are in love, they must be happier than one person."
indeed.
In this world, whether it is life, work, or feelings, we must become happier.
If a person can only make you feel hurt, and will only make your heart feel like a withered grass, withering and decaying day by day, then such a person is destined not to accompany you until the end.
The person who is truly worth your life must be the person who makes you feel relaxed and happy in a trivial life.
more than a lifetime, you are very precious. No matter how fast you are, don't love the person who makes you cheap.
Instead, love the person who makes you brave, confident and radiant.
Only such a person can truly deserve the rest of your life.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
