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Love is like a dish of various styles, different styles seem to add different "flavor" to the food.
Love sometimes appears suddenly, without any preparation, and cannot be expressed clearly in words. However, it seems delicious and always makes people want to taste a few more bites.
From the bottom of my heart, when I fall in love with a person, I will understand what he is thinking in my heart.
He frowned, coughed lightly, or looked at him. There is no need to explain or say a word to understand what the other person is thinking.
Su Qin said: "Real good love is effortless, and there is no need to deliberately please or work hard. Two people are comfortable to let the flow."
Love requires "the right medicine" to make the beloved love the heart.
The love a man wants is not the woman’s moth-swinging a flame-like effort, but being understood and recognized, which can bring a lot of surprises to each other’s lives, rather than burdens, pressures and constraints.
What a man wants is not a woman who gives him every effort, but the following needs.
02. The most advanced love is to understand
love, it is a deep understanding, care and heartache, and it is trust and tolerance without conditions.
When facing your beloved man, women should not give blindly, but should understand what men need, which is actually an understanding.
Su Dongpo When his life was in a low point, he went to Huangzhou to exile and lived a very poor life.
However, his wife never complained and was willing to go to the fields to work with him and live a poor life.
My wife ate radish and cabbage every day, and was a little bored, so Su Dongpo went to the river to catch fish. When cooking, the scent of fish wafted out, which surprised my wife.
She knew that Su Dongpo liked to drink and would find a way to make him drink.
It is precisely because she understands Su Dongpo's deep affection for her and his attitude towards life that she also chose to live with him and live a good life.
When a woman understands a man’s joy and sorrow, she will not say too much in pale language, but will give him more understanding and support. Even if it is silent, it will make the man more moved and love her more.
Life is not smooth sailing. When in difficulties, a woman’s understanding of a man is the driving force of his life.
Women have more understanding of men and will be respected, grateful and cherished by men.
03. Men need to identify with it, reflecting their value
" Growth of All Things " says: "I don't want the stars in the sky, I just need the happiness of the world."
When managing love, women give men approval, which makes them feel needed and makes them happier.
Men can express love, maybe the way is wrong, or the gifts they prepare are also unsatisfactory. Women should not just attack, but thank them for their expressing feelings.
and, tell him your ideal gift and guide him to give in the right way.
When a woman recognizes a man’s approach, she will not easily deny him. Even if he does a lot of inappropriate things, he can slowly get the man to correct it.
will not blow the man’s enthusiasm for love, he will work harder in the future.
A woman shows weakness appropriately is a way to recognize a man's ability and can enhance the relationship between two people.
All bottles and jars that cannot be opened are handed over to the man. Let the man think of a solution for repairing the work at home. If he can solve the problem, don't be stingy with praise and rewards.
What a man needs is not the efforts of a woman, but the recognition and appreciation of him.
When a man feels recognized and feels that marriage requires his efforts and support, he will feel more belonging.
04. Men desire freedom and live a sense of space.
. Sometimes what men need is not women taking care of every detail, but respect for them.
When a man has his own lifestyle, is respected, lives freely and has a sense of space, men will love the women who know him more deeply.
If a woman loves him but does not restrict his freedom, and is willing to give him greater room for development, it means that women really cherish this love.
A woman's fulfillment will make men feel empathy, and he will also give women happiness, allowing women to face the future without restraint.
Men and women have different ideas and needs, and they also have different hobbies. They need to get close to each other and have independent space.
As a woman, support men's interests and hobbies, and respect some of his plans and choices for life. He will feel free and feel able to live out himself.
A woman respects a man’s freedom, makes him live a sense of space, and makes him and a woman live with him for a long time.
A woman gives men care and concern, but does not stop him from moving forward. A man will understand her trust and respect, which is very valuable.
Even, if there is a sense of space between men and women, men will respect women more, appreciate her more, and miss her more.
05. Summary of
Good love, rely on management and wisdom to protect and maintain.
When a woman loves someone, she doesn’t have to give everything for him. If she lives without herself, the woman will have the freedom in love.
Healthy love will make men and women feel more happiness in their relationship. We will not be bound by each other, but will have more understanding and tacit understanding.
In the eyes of men, the most comfortable love is that women respect their choices, do not demand or force them.
Women like him, but they will not restrict him.
A truly smart woman will not blindly give to men, but will know how to give men recognition, understanding and respect, and let them live the way they like.
Men will also love her more because of the understanding and support of women, and are willing to spend the years with her.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
