Nowadays, many data show that people's divorce rates are soaring every year, while few people get married.
There are not only social factors, but also family factors.
In the era of the Internet, everyone can make their own remarks, experiences and feelings on the platform.
There are people who live happily, some who are unhappy, some who live luxuriously, and some who live difficult.
Different circles, people can exchange resources and see other people's lives without leaving home.
Ordinary people see that other people’s lives are so beautiful and luxurious, while they are so sad. Others are showing off their wealth.
Others are envious of other people's lives, and at the same time, they are gradually becoming dissatisfied with their own lives.
will not hurt without comparison. After comparing your own disadvantages with the advantages of others, there will be no benefit except being injured.
Other people’s good lives and good resources are all earned by others themselves, except for envy, jealousy and hatred.
will not help your own life, but will make your original life even more unhappy.
Many girls are originally a working class and see others' luxury life.
My own vision also increased. I received a salary of three to five thousand yuan a month, but I asked the man to earn one million yuan a year.
also needs to have a full payment, a car and a house, and a deposit. The man should have everything he can't do, and it is standard.
If he can't achieve it, he is incapable of having a boyfriend and he thinks that others should be unconditional.
satisfy all your unrealistic wishes, and the final result is that your heart is higher than the sky and your life is thinner than paper.
has been picking and picking, and finally becoming an older single woman who could have lived a good life and had children.
Because of his high vision, low skills, high ambitions, high ambitions, high or low ambitions, and finally delays his happiness.
When I got older, I found that people of my age had already gotten married and had children, and people who were in the same condition as me.
Now they have become husbands, and the older they are, the smaller and smaller the room for choice. The chances of meeting the right person after
are getting smaller and smaller, and in the end they simply leave it alone and accept their fate.
Some psychological experts point out that girls insist on DINK and those who do not get married will only hurt themselves in the end.
Everyone has the right to choose life, and some girls are unwilling to get married in their entire lives.
Some girls also choose to be DINK after getting married after they get married.
Maybe when I was young, I had the ability to make money and felt that there was nothing without children.
But the golden childbearing age for women, that is, from 20 to 40 years old, these 20 years.
Some surveys show that some of the people who made an appointment to be DINK together came to middle age.
Suddenly, I regretted it alone and began to envy other people's children around their knees, but women could not give birth to them at this time.
The man had no choice but to say sorry to the woman, and turned around to find another woman who was younger than him to give birth to a child for him.
. After a woman misses the golden childbearing age, she will have no chance to regret it.
People make different choices at different ages, and men still have room for regret for this matter.
But in women, it is not so friendly. Once you miss it, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Some people may say that having children may not necessarily support you, and in the end you have to rely on yourself.
As long as you make enough money, you can spend money to live in a nursing home when you get old.
The person who said these words should be relatively young, and it is not yet time to retire and lose his job and cannot move in bed.
Many videos and cases now show that those women who chose DINK and did not get married would regret it when they get old.
A female star in Shanghai also took on a lot of dramas when she was young. She has always been lukewarm, but now she is getting older.
I am not married or have children. I can make money by myself when I was young, but my life is still acceptable.
After the age of fifty or sixty, others are all children and grandchildren, but she is alone.
No one asked her to film, so she would have no source of income. Even the annual property fees and living expenses became problems.
job cannot be found. I want to start live broadcasts at home to sell goods, but I don’t know how to use electronic products, and no one will teach me.
At one time, he collapsed in pain and cried in tears during the live broadcast, but there was no medicine for regret in life. What causes are planted in the beginning, and what results will be produced later.
Everyone has to pay the corresponding price for themselves, their choices when they were young.
Even if you live in a nursing home and have children, others dare not bully you casually, for fear that your children will cause trouble for them if you have problems.
Those who have no children, even if you spend money, it’s okay to meet people with good conscience, but meet people with bad thoughts.
Even if you spend money, others may be too lazy to take care of you and hope you will die faster.
No support from future generations, even if you suffer in nursing homes, no one will take care of you.
By that time, it was really called "Heaven's power" and "Heaven's power" and "Heaven's power" and could only wait for death in despair.
I hope you who see the article, don’t use this example!
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I am not married or have children. I can make money by myself when I was young, but my life is still acceptable.
After the age of fifty or sixty, others are all children and grandchildren, but she is alone.
No one asked her to film, so she would have no source of income. Even the annual property fees and living expenses became problems.
job cannot be found. I want to start live broadcasts at home to sell goods, but I don’t know how to use electronic products, and no one will teach me.
At one time, he collapsed in pain and cried in tears during the live broadcast, but there was no medicine for regret in life. What causes are planted in the beginning, and what results will be produced later.
Everyone has to pay the corresponding price for themselves, their choices when they were young.
Even if you live in a nursing home and have children, others dare not bully you casually, for fear that your children will cause trouble for them if you have problems.
Those who have no children, even if you spend money, it’s okay to meet people with good conscience, but meet people with bad thoughts.
Even if you spend money, others may be too lazy to take care of you and hope you will die faster.
No support from future generations, even if you suffer in nursing homes, no one will take care of you.
By that time, it was really called "Heaven's power" and "Heaven's power" and "Heaven's power" and could only wait for death in despair.
I hope you who see the article, don’t use this example!
Author: Sister Jenny!
Share your understanding and insights in life!
Like my article, please remember to follow Like and leave a message!
Thank you everyone!
