To forget the unhappiness of yesterday, focus on the present, do the present, and live every day well; there is no next life in life, whether it is happiness or sadness, whether it is moving forward or stopping, you must do your best and cherish it as much as possible.
In fact, in everyone's life, in everyone's heart, there is always a kind of understanding: that is, they never want to cause trouble to their relatives, nor do they want to add trouble to each other; they are willing to bear all the sorrows and worries, and they know the cold and warmth. In your life, you have unshirkable responsibilities and responsibilities on your shoulders: the mission of supporting your family is always in your heart; no one is relying on you, you can only take on yourself, work hard, and complete them. Because I don’t want to leave regrets in this life, I am always working hard and doing my best to work.
Of course, life changes in the world, and the heart is cold and cold for no time. When facing reality, you can feel relieved: But if you want to look back once, you can change the ending.
When you feel sad, you can only bear the grievances calmly; the world is like that, when the scenery is glorious, others will have you, envy you, and jealous of you. When there are difficulties and troughs, others will be indifferent to you, reject you, look down on you and stay away from you. This is simply human heart!
In this life, to be honest, people are never afraid of the hardships in their bodies, but are afraid that their true heart will be ruthlessly let down; in this life, they are not afraid of setbacks, blows and fatigue, but are afraid that their trust will be misunderstood and violated!
Because if the body is tired, take a good rest for a night, and when you wake up in the morning, you will be more energetic; but if the heart is tired, it is difficult to cure it.
So what is "heart tired"? I feel tired because I think too much about hope and let go of disappointment too little; that is, I don’t cherish what I have and can’t afford to lose what I have. The fatigue of heart is even more complicated by making the originally simple things complicated, which seriously affects and disrupts normal minds and thinking. Therefore, my fighting spirit and confidence have been greatly weakened, and I have become sighs... The main reason for the positive mind and positive energy mentality has been disrupted, which has caused my heart to be tired.
Therefore, you would rather be tired in your body than in your heart. You would rather be tired of sharing joys and sorrows than be tired of betrayal; you would rather be tired of being sober than be tired of being intrigue!
Because physical fatigue is temporary, and mental fatigue can lead to a lifetime of fatigue. So learn to say to yourself: Everything doesn’t matter! Know what you should give up and forget: what you should cherish and remember. Understand and see through, "There is no absolute thing in the world, only face it bravely." Face what should be faced resolutely, and give up decisively.
In fact, people do not need much to survive. They only need a simple life, contented happiness and ordinaryness, quiet and plain happiness, precious and intimate family affection, sincere and trustworthy friendship, dedicated and sweet love, and a happy and harmonious marriage and family life, a job that can support oneself and his family. This may be the whole of life!
