1. Regarding this issue, we must first understand the motivation for raising children and elderly care. Raising children is to prevent elderly care. It is too late to feel sorry for children. Not only does it take to pull a handful of shit and urine, but it is frugal to eat and save money on food, drink, wear and use, and satisfy the children first. It is worthy of the heart of parents all over the world.
When you need children to support your children, the situation is very different. It is not a problem to find a partner if you have a source of income. You don’t have a pension and you have to rely on your children for life. When you are old, you don’t think it’s a burden and burn the incense. How can you support finding a partner? The reality is so realistic.
2, whether elderly people are widowed to find a wife? Let’s first talk about which one needs to find a wife, men or women, I think men need more than women. Men put career first when they are young, and are used to serving their wives. They have no idea about the family. Being widowed in old age brings great inconvenience to life. Eighty percent of male elderly people want to have someone to accompany them until old age.
3. Female elderly people have always focused on their families and are used to working for family trivial matters. They are widowed in old age to eliminate sad emotions, but time is the best process to wash away melancholy, and there is no other way. If you recruit an old man, it will inevitably add a little more burden. A smart old lady will not do this stupid thing.
4, under what conditions will children support their father in finding a partner?
1, the family has no financial burden, the old man is in good health, and has a pension that can support his stepmother, so his children have no right to interfere.
2, children cannot take care of the old man because of their career, and are worried that the old man will be lonely. Finding a nanny is not a long-term solution, and their children support it.
3. The family can’t spend the old man’s money at all. There is no need to rely on his parents, but there must be someone who can take care of him. Of course, the children do not object.
4, the family is rich and doesn’t care about having one more person to eat. The old man has this idea, and his children should meet the old man’s requirements.
5, under what conditions does children will not support their father in finding a partner.
1, the family’s financial situation is average or bad, finding a wife will only increase the burden on the family, and the children are unable to support it.
2, the elderly have no source of income, so they are unwilling to give up a stepmother.
3 has become a burden to children and will never support them no matter how hard they are.
6. After all, I still have to have strength. I said at the beginning that when I need children to retire, it is very different. Reality is reality.
Let me give you an example. An old man in the village worked in the Grain Bureau. His wife passed away two years before retirement. After retirement, his children were busy with work. He lived alone for more than ten years of lonely life. When he was 70 years old, his pension increased to more than 4,000 yuan. He finally couldn't stand the loneliness and found a single nanny.
Two people live together, and they live a life of so much health. The nanny is in her 50s and can ride a tricycle. She cooks good food and good food. She gives the salary card to the nanny for custody. Two people can buy whatever they want to eat at any time.
Why? Because children can’t spend their money at all, and they never care about how much money the elderly have. Who they spend is not flowers, and their children will give them if they are not enough. This is strength. Of course, children with strength support. Why not have a person to take care of when the old man dies?
7, the other old man was not so lucky. The old couple is still alive, but his wife (female) had a stroke and was paralyzed in bed five years ago. His health was not good. In the past, his wife was taking care of him, but now he has no ability to take care of his wife instead.
and they are all rural people. There is only the elderly subsidy given by the state every month. The children's family conditions are not good, and they can't afford to hire a nanny. How do you let them live? Now they are all children taking turns to take care of their daily life. If they are widowed, how much hope is to find a wife? It should be almost impossible.
