01. In life, every woman hopes to have a good destiny, so that she will not have to worry about food and drink, and her basic life is guaranteed.
I once saw a story: In high school, a woman could have been admitted to a good university through her own efforts. But she didn't. Instead, he left school and entered society in his second year of high school.
After getting married and having children, you can see the rest of your life at a glance. Sometimes, many things are really not something you can predict.
But whether your destiny is good or not sometimes depends on whether you can seize the opportunities around you and break the original low-quality life.
For a lifetime, a person wants to live freely and freely, and a person’s life is rich and noble. But a good life is not something that everyone can have just thinking about.
Many people may say this: "A woman does not need to be particularly outstanding. As long as she marrys well, everything is nothing." Nothing in the world is unchanging, but feelings are flowing.
When a woman enters the marriage hall, you may be happy at first, but later you may be sad because of the constant changes in your relationship.
You can be in a safe position in love only if you have some unique traits. Otherwise, when the other person suddenly leaves you, the better life you want will slip away.
I often hear the saying "Everything can be fate";
Therefore, many people think that all the good luck in their lives is coincidence. Life is realistic, and a good life for a woman is not given by God or given by others;
What's more, this is not my own plea, but the reward after I put in a little effort. Women with these three qualities often have a happy life.
2. Faced with pressure, still do not give up.
A person’s life is a kind of redemption. In the good and bad scenery, only he knows how to find it. Only by knowing how to persevere can you complete this trip meaningfully.
Life cannot be smooth sailing. As a woman, when facing the people or things around her, she does not stand still, but moves forward.
Only in this way can a "beautiful life" get closer and closer to you.
In the TV series " is good and ", Su Mingyu was biased by her mother after she was born. The best things are always left to her two brothers, and she was beaten back to reality by her mother when she wanted to pursue her dreams.
In this way, she went to a place far away from home alone. After experiencing hardships and fatigue, she still insisted on her dreams and went to school while making money.
Later a boss discovered her talent and she gradually became a strong woman. Life brings her no less sadness than others.
Faced with these sad things, she always turns the darkness brought by life into sunshine and slowly digests herself. She became the object of envy of everyone and the way she wanted.
3. Spiritual self-satisfaction
In life, there are often many women who only focus on their bright and beautiful appearance, so that they begin to think that they have a rich life.
But as time goes by and the development of the times, it will only be beaten back to reality. Life is a way forward, and there is no turning back to let yourself walk.
When a woman reaches a certain age, she will find that her life has no light and her spirit is becoming more and more empty.
At this time, everything is too late.
Dong Qing , a famous middle-aged host, has become the object of envy.
However, what she has is not innate, but continuous self-restraint and continuous progress, which makes her look like today.
I remember she once said: "No matter how busy I am, I will take an hour to study every day."
Real wealth life does not need to be found by myself, but steps out from my personality traits.
The more eager a woman is to make quick success, she will eventually become further and further away from “richness”.
Spiritual food is a gift of life. Butterflies only dance when they are full of yellow fragrance.
Such a life will not only be recognized by oneself, but also by others.
4. Love life.
Although the environment of birth will have a certain impact on a person's future life; it is only a small part. After all, "three points are destined, seven points are hard work."
When you truly integrate into life, you will find that life is still very kind. Children from ordinary families can still live a good life through their own efforts.
In the TV series " Thirty Only ", Gu Jia is not a wealthy family. However, for the life you want, you must constantly improve your taste and know all the beautiful things in the world.
Although I was just a housewife at the beginning, I had very high requirements for life and carefully prepared three meals a day. Later, facing the pressure brought by life, her husband changed his mind, still loved life, and began to have his own career.
When facing the misfortune brought by life, she chose to be tolerant and then continued to love. Therefore, in life, the better the woman you want; love yourself, love life, and then slowly enrich your life.
Whether in spiritual or material aspects, only in this way can one get the recognition of oneself and others in one’s life. 
