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Retirement is a dividing ridge in life. We are busy for the first half of our life. In order to give our family a better life, we will keep moving around like a top for life.
After retirement, gyroscope suddenly stopped, with more free time and more boredom and loneliness.
When you are at work, you have a job and the day will pass quickly. After retirement, life becomes longer and longer, and the retired elderly will also become empty in their hearts.
Some people fall in love with visiting each other at this time. Today they go to the home to sit for a while and tomorrow they go to the west to take a walk around, which has become the most common pastime for retired people.
However, there are also some things to pay attention to when visiting each other. Some people will not welcome you. Maybe it’s just because we dare not speak directly on the surface, but we cannot be that ignorant person.
After retirement, no matter whether you live well or not, don’t visit these people’s homes. This is business emotional intelligence.
1: Don’t visit your old subordinates’ homes, I’m afraid they won’t be welcomed
The relationship between superiors and subordinates is like the relationship between lips and teeth. In daily work contact, there must be some situations that make both parties unhappy.
And if you are superior, in fact, in the contradictions of work, you have a lot of time to take the initiative. You can easily achieve your own selfishness through the power in your hands.
is in this possibility. Perhaps there was a conflict between you and your subordinates early, but you would not care too much about being in a high position, and as the oppressed party, he was actually extremely uncomfortable and caring.
The unfair treatment received in these work will make him feel complaining about you. This emotion will accumulate over time and accumulate more and more, and it will be difficult to self-dissolve.
So no matter how bored you are, it is best not to visit your old subordinates’ homes, as others may not welcome you.
After retirement, you no longer have the energy and need others to flatter you. In other words, he will no longer take you seriously.
He may treat you indifferently. If that's the case, why use your hot face to stick someone else's cold butt? It's really not necessary.
2: Don’t visit the homes of people with patients at home, they won’t have the heart to welcome and send them to
When you retire, it’s best not to set the place where you visit, in those with patients.
For them, when caring for patients, what they need most is time and energy, and after caring for their families, what they need most is enough free time to have a good sleep.
At the same time, people with patients at home usually feel uncomfortable. In this situation where physical and mental exhaustion is already caused by your arrival will only cause trouble to him.
No matter what purpose you visit his house, they usually dare not neglect you, compressing down their short rest time, talking and chatting with you, and meeting your emotional needs.
But who will satisfy his needs? He didn't want to force himself to greet the guests with a smile and see them off in a bad mood.
This is also a kind of mental storm and torture for him, which makes people feel uncomfortable but dare not say no.
After retirement, we must also be a little self-aware. Even though we know that some people will not welcome you, there is no need to come over.
Your visit will make them feel uncomfortable, but they dare not say it explicitly...
So, in your spare time, it is better for you to serve flowers and grass to raise pets. These things can also pass the time and cultivate your body and mind, which is the best.
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