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So, what does mean in the emotional relationship of marriage and emotional relationships?
There is a word here called " Starting a Family and Starting a Business ". It goes without saying that the final direction of each emotional relationship will go to the direction of getting married and starting a Family and Starting a Business. If you have not reached this point, it means that this emotional relationship is still in a state of "on the road".
Speaking of the word "starting a family and starting a career", it should be a more anxious word at the moment. Parents see that other people's children get married early and are all grandparents, while their children are still alone and have not yet married and started a family, they will feel very anxious. What about children? Some are anxious, some are not anxious, and some are anxious about what parents are anxious about...
In this situation, from the perspective of parents, some parents can't hold on and hurriedly think about finding a partner for their children. When they heard that they wanted a house and car, they wanted to sell their savings for their children like a sacrificing themselves to buy a house and a car for their children, and even completely ignored "What should we pay attention to?"
At this point, let's first think about a question: Does have a career first and then love, or will there be a career first and then a career? Or, should we start a family first and then start a business, or should we start a business first and then start a family?
In fact, from a man's perspective, if he can achieve something in his career, then he will naturally not worry about not being able to find his partner. This is what we are discussing today about the "one moves the whole body" in marriage and emotional relationships.
is more thorough, that is, when you have not yet gotten out of single, don’t be too obsessed with “get out of singleness”. You must first focus on your career, constantly improve your abilities and value, create greater achievements, and make yourself better and better, thereby improving your connotation and charm, attracting more attention from the opposite sex, and thus helping yourself find someone with a destiny.
Here, it should be noted that in marriage and emotional relationships, if wants to better achieve the effect of "revolving the whole body", it cannot operate mechanizedly and cannot focus too much on a certain aspect, otherwise it is easy to miss a good opportunity.
A step closer, in the process of focusing on our career, we must also communicate and communicate with more people. We cannot work behind closed doors and stubbornly bury our careers, especially those of technical friends. If we only know how to study our technical level behind closed doors and do not communicate with more people, it will be difficult to realize our desire to get out of singleness.
Secondly, in the process of communicating and communicating with more people, we must also have a "find a partner" heart. If during the communication process, we feel that "we are very comfortable with a certain opposite sex" and the other person is also single, we can try to pursue the other person and cycle through this process in turn until we find our destined person.
Changyan Changyu:
The so-called "one moves the whole body" in marriage and emotional relationships means that as a man, if we can achieve something in our career, then our fate in love will naturally come naturally.
Of course, fate is not something we have to wait for, but we also need to take action to find it. Therefore, when we are still single, we can first focus on our careers and find our fate and love while running our careers.
In other words, the "one moves the whole body" in the emotional world of marriage is to tell us: we must use our eyes to manage our career and pursue our love with our light.
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