all said that there is no real friendship between men and women. Never wait until something happens before you know that the male best friend in the kindergarten will be too late to say anything when something happens, just like this woman in the article. I regret it now and know I am wrong, but what's the use of saying this now?
If you were the first to do your husband or if you were far away from your male best friend, would this ending happen now? Now, whoever you can blame in this ending is blamed, just blame yourself. What's going on? Let's take a look at this matter together. A 28-year-old woman cried: I treated him as my best male friend, but he ruined the rest of my life.
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28-year-old Ms. Wu:
My mother told me, you should go back quickly, and it is 100% tragedy if you don’t go back and wait for you. Now your husband is looking for you everywhere. While he doesn’t know that matter yet, you should go back quickly. Once he knows, he will definitely divorce you, but he will ask you to go back and live a good life with him. Even if this matter is over, you will be happy in the future, otherwise you will not be happy in the future. I told my mother, do you think I don’t want to go back?
I want to go back too. But if my husband knew about this when I went back, I was afraid that he would know and ask me about this, so I didn’t dare to go back. My husband had noticed it. What should I do? My mother told me that even if she knows, what can it do? He will know this matter in the end. Since this is the case, it is better to face it calmly. What's the use of hiding here now? Can you hide it here for the rest of your life?
Since we have to face it in the end, why can’t we face it now? We face it bravely now, and maybe there is still a little bit of it around us. Some women divorced their husbands, but what happened? They ended up taking their children alone. If you divorced your husband, these tragedies are likely to happen to you. You have told me about this before. You think they are living a miserable life. Not only do they have to work but also take care of their children, but they are also bullied by others.
Do you want that too? If you don’t want to, go back. Your husband will give you a chance. He loves you so much. Even if he doesn’t give you a chance, he will give your children a chance. For the sake of your children and family, he will eventually choose to forgive. After my mother said that, my father told me again, "My father told me that what I said was right. Your husband will definitely choose to forgive for the sake of the children, and you will also change it for the sake of the children. Do you think so?"
so go back, only in this way can you go back to the past, otherwise you will definitely lose everything in the future. If you still have the opportunity, you have to answer. If you don’t look back, 100% of your waiting for you is a tragedy. Don’t think that this will not happen to your husband here. The guys here will also discover this. It’s just a matter of time.
Your husband also told us about this and asked us where you are. He asked this, are you still escaping here? What's the matter with escaping? Will the escaping husband come here to find you? Say it, go back quickly. I felt even more uncomfortable when my parents said this. How should I choose now, should I go? But I am afraid that if my husband does things, he will definitely divorce me, but how should I live if I don’t go back?
Today I did this. I hope everyone can pay attention to such things. Don’t ruin the tragedy like this. Just say that if you are not responsible for yourself, sooner or later, you will be like me now. At the same time, I also hope to remind all women to stay away from male besties through this matter.Also, I hope everyone will give me a summary and face this matter. If it were you, what would you do?
If it were you, would you choose to turn back? If it were you, would you choose to confess? I have a male best friend, and my husband knows it, but I deceived my husband. My husband thought I was far away from male best friend, but in fact I didn’t have me at all. I didn’t have your male best friend, and I also chatted with my male best friend every day, but I didn’t know it at the time. Even if my husband was there, I would chat with my male best friend, because like other women, I changed the notes of my male best friend.
I changed a note that my husband dared not think about, that is, I changed the notes of my male best friend to my younger brother's name. My husband thought I was chatting with my younger brother, but in fact I was not this person at all. Not only was it not my younger brother, but my male best friend. My husband saw me chatting with my younger brother and thought I was chatting with my real younger brother, but it wasn't.
This person is my male best friend, and even if my husband and this person are successful, nothing will happen, because we have already been loved by each other, I told this man 1234567. If the other party replied to me 12345, it proves that we are all ourselves.
If only one person does not say the code, it means something. It means it is not me. If it is not me, the other party will not reply. By the same token, my male best friend will not speak even when he sees me that he does not reply to the code. If I see my male best friend not saying a code word to me, what does that mean? It means that my male best friend is not me.
If that were the case, I wouldn't talk nonsense. I was afraid of talking nonsense and destroying our relationship, so it was because I changed the notes and then changed the code words, so my husband would never discover the matter between me and my male best friend. At that time, I thought nothing happened but something happened. That night I asked my husband to come back for dinner.
After all, that day was my husband and I’ve been married for 5 years. I told my husband when will you come back for dinner? The food I cooked for you is cold. Didn’t you say you would come back for dinner in advance? I originally thought my husband would come back soon, but I was disappointed. I waited again and again. From the original 8 o'clock to the end of 9 o'clock, my husband did not come back.
My husband said sorry to me, I forgot to tell you about this matter. I originally agreed that I would go back to accompany you, but because of work, I have already gone to work outside. Those who can't come back tonight don't have to wait for me to go to bed. You go to bed in advance, and I want to apologize to you and promised to go back to accompany you, but I can't be sorry. If I have the chance, I will definitely go back to accompany you next time. This time it's really not possible. I'm sorry.
I was very angry when I heard my husband speak like this. I told my husband, "You can forgive me if you say sorry to me, I'll forgive you. Is there anything like me? It's not a word of sorry. I'm sorry, it's useless to me." If sorry is useful, what else is the police in this world?
It is obviously your fault. You are the one who hurt me. I have prepared so many ways to do it in my mood all day, but you said sorry to me, how can you forgive you if you want me to say? My husband told me wrongly, I don’t want to do this either. If possible, I will definitely go back to accompany you, but I have no choice. Since this is the case, then forgive me and give me a chance. When I have time, I will definitely accompany you well.
I didn’t have the chance to send it to the warehouse again. I answered the phone, and then I had to bring my best friend to my house for dinner. I had prepared so many meals, so someone had to eat. Anyway, my husband won't come back. Since this is the case, let the male best friend come to eat at home. That's what I thought at that time. The male best friend is my best friend. I want to tell my best friend about this matter, otherwise I will not be able to vent my grievances, so I let her best friend come over.
After the male best friend arrived, we both had a meal and chatted, and our mood instantly improved a little. My male best friend told me that you don’t need to care about so much about this. Although your husband can’t tell you, he is helpless. If he has a choice, he doesn’t want to treat you like this. Since he has no choice, he can only accept you, right?
and if he comes back, I can't come here to accompany you. So you don't need to worry about it anymore. Wait for the next time, when you have time, you will be with you when you go back. We both talked and wanted to chat, and my male best friend deliberately asked me to drink. At that time, I was still naive and I couldn't figure out what was going on.
I was scared at this time. I didn’t know how to face my husband, and then my husband also came back at this time. If I don’t come back, I can only go to take a shower. I tried my best to be nice to my husband, but I was wrong. But the more I feel like this, the more I feel that I have done something unforgivable, and the more I do this, the less I don’t know what to do. I really don't want this to happen, how come this happened?
Then I went back to my parents' home, and I told my parents about this. I didn't know how to deal with it, nor how to live with my husband. I was afraid that my husband would find out that I was afraid that I would ruin everything. Then the paragraph at the beginning of the article appeared. I don’t want to do this. If I had a choice, I would never let this tragedy happen. All of this is my fault. Now I am very confused and don’t know what to do. I dare not tell my husband, I dare not think, and I am afraid to lose everything.
But I have to face women, ah, I must make you sad. Don’t wait until the end to know that I can’t be so much. It’s too late to wait until that time, just like I am now, and it’s useless to say anything. If I have the chance, I will definitely stay away from my male best friend and live a good life with my husband, but I have no chance anymore and I ruined my family.
Conclusion:
If I had known this, why would anyone blame him for the ending now? If you mention your husband. If you are far away from your male best friend, will this happen again? Your parents have told you how many times, why are you not far away from your male best friend? There is a reason why a man will not do these things to a woman for no reason.
Do you think this is love? Or do you think this is pure friendship, it is impossible. This is pure friendship, it is you who ruined everything you have. Who can blame this ending? If you want to blame yourself, you will blame yourself. If you are obedient, it turns out that this is not the ending now. If I had known this, why would I hope to remind all women through this case? For myself and for my family, I must stay away from my best friend.
If you are not responsible for yourself, then no one in this world will be responsible for you. Women must learn to be responsible for themselves. Staying away from male besties means being responsible for themselves and their families. Do you understand? Don't let this kind of tragedy happen?
