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The relationship between relatives is innate. Although the innate part cannot be changed, the acquired part can make choices. Treat relatives who are not satisfied with it need to learn to refuse, and don’t let your embarrassment hurt you.
1. Relatives without boundaries
Relatives without boundaries often get involved in your family affairs and even inquire about your family privacy, especially your child’s work or marriage. They either urge or urge. Often, you are not in a hurry, and your relatives are already anxious. Of course, it is not ruled out that some relatives are for your own good, but most relatives are openly interfering with your life under the banner of doing your good, and criticizing the diverse aspects of your life. It is not important to whether the interference or critical aspects are good for your life. Relatives without boundaries just disturb your life to disturb your life, and to criticize your life to criticize your life.
2. Hypocritical relatives
The typical characteristic of hypocritical relatives is that they have a set on the surface and a set behind them. The more money is involved, the more this is the case. For example, if a relative asks you to borrow money, and you lend it to a relative, the relative may not be able to repay it. If you were nervous at the time, even if you explained to your relatives that you were powerless, your relatives would misunderstand you, either saying you were stingy behind your back or saying that you ignored your affection in front of others. It’s good that if you lend money to your relatives, and when you need to make the relatives pay back their debts, it is natural for them to pay back the debts, but the relatives will delay the debts and even complain first. Therefore, when you recognize the true nature of a hypocritical relative, there is no need to interact with you for the rest of your life.
3. Relatives with bottomless pits
Although relatives cannot save the poor, they can provide appropriate emergency services. When relatives need emergency services, help is a relationship. However, some relatives need emergency treatment from the beginning, and gradually become needy to save the poor, while some relatives need to save the poor from the beginning. If you realize that your relatives are bottomless pits, you cannot be as sympathetic as you always do. After all, you need to act within your ability. Faced with endless efforts, it is your duty not to help. If you continue to help the relatives of the bottomless pit at any cost, you will not use rice to raise your benefactors, but use rice to raise your enemies. If you do not stop the loss in time, you will eventually be implicated by the relatives of the bottomless pit and will be dragged down by the relatives of the bottomless pit.
Conclusion: Blood relationship is just a proof that you have a close or distant relationship with your relatives. In fact, only those who truly have feelings and righteousness to you can be considered your relatives. Some people, even if they are not your relatives, will care about you and feel sorry for you. They are not your relatives, but are better than your relatives. In short, they cannot only judge relatives by blood relationships.
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