(original by Rongrong, infringement will be pursued)
Introduction:
Both men and women can enter the marriage hall. The most basic condition is mutual trust, mutual support, and sharing of hardships and blessings.
should assume the obligation to take care of both parents.
But Hanyue, who has made a lot of money, is indifferent to seeing her mother-in-law being hospitalized for treatment.
When Sun Xiangping asked her to get 100,000, she sneered, "Your mother can sell her house if she doesn't have money to treat her."
The reason why Hanyue became so cold was actually the "AA system" proposed by Sun Xiangping 5 years ago.
What's going on?
Let’s take a look, is Hanyue’s approach right?
The protagonist: Hanyue 33 years old
Han’s monthly salary is 3,000.
Before getting married, she paid 1,000 yuan to her family a month as living expenses.
In the first month after marriage, when she returned to her parents' home, she gave her another 1,000 yuan to her mother.
"Month, you are married now and you are no longer eating and living at home. Mom doesn't want your money anymore." Mom said.
"I'm married and it's your daughter. You don't have a salary. My father's salary is only more than 2,000. You two are too nervous to spend money, so you should take the money." Hanyue advised her mother.
"This... did you tell Sun Xiangping?" My mother was very hesitant.
"I told him when we were in the same place, but he didn't say anything." Hanyue said.
But my mother still didn't want to get 1,000, so after refusing, she only collected 500. After
, Hanyue will give her parents 500 yuan a month.
Later, Sun Xiangping found out and was very unhappy: "Hanyue, why do you give money to your parents' family every month?"
"I told you that I gave you 1,000 before, but now I only give you 500." Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping said, "You were not married at that time, so I have no objection to pay some living expenses at home, but now you are married to me, why do you still pay for food and accommodation if you don't have time at my parents' home?"
Hanyue explained, "My father is the only one in my mother's family who has an income, which is only more than 2,000. They are too nervous to spend money, so I will give it some."
"You are married, and your salary is the joint property of our husband and wife. Why don't you get my consent?" Sun Xiangping was still quite dissatisfied.
"It's only 500 yuan a month, is it a lot? Others buy a set of clothes more than this, right? Besides, your salary is 5,000 yuan, and our family is not short of this 500 yuan?" Hanyue was also anxious.
At the end of the day, Hanyue insisted on giving her parents 500 yuan a month. Although Sun Xiangping was unwilling, he could not stop it.
became their first conflict after marriage.
Half a year later, Hanyue's father fell ill, and his mother called her anxiously, "The doctor said that you must prepare at least 70,000 yuan for hospitalization. Your father and I only have 20,000 yuan. Can you lend me 50,000 yuan? I will pay you back in the future."
"Mom, don't worry, I'll get you the money." Hanyue agreed in one go.
But she only has 30,000 yuan, and she is still missing 20,000 yuan. After Sun Xiangping came back in the evening, she told him that she hoped he could get 20,000 yuan to help him.
Sun Xiangping's voice suddenly increased: "You give your parents' money every month, and now you want me to give 20,000 yuan? What do you think?"
"It's not to give it, it's to borrow it. My mother said she will pay it back in the future." Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping: "Borrow it? Your parents only have a salary, what can I pay it back? Tell me?"
Hanyue: "At worst, I will pay it back to you in the future. Now my father is sick and urgently needs money. I don't have enough money. You are my husband. You should lend me money if you have money."
"Nothing should be done!" Sun Xiangping said coldly, "I can't borrow it, let alone 20,000, I can't borrow it even 2,200 yuan. Don't your parents have a house? If you don't have money, just sell it!"
"They only have a small house of 45 square meters. Where can I live if I sell it?" Hanyue was so anxious that she almost cried.
"Rent." Sun Xiangping left these two words and left, ignoring Hanyue at all.
Hanyue was so angry that she cried for a while. She was anxious about the 20,000 yuan incident, so she could only call her friend again, but fortunately she borrowed it.
The next day she sent the money to her parents.
Dad said grateful words: "Thanks to my daughter and son-in-law, otherwise where would I go to get the money."
"This is all right, what do you thank for?" Hanyue said.
My mother knows her daughter better. When she sent her away, she quietly asked, "Is Sun Xiangping willing to take this money?"
"Are you all brought this? Of course you are willing." Han Yue said.
"Then why didn't he come with you? My father-in-law is sick, and my son-in-law should come and have a look, right?" said my mother.
Hanyue said, "He has been too busy with work recently."
"Are you really okay?" my mother asked again.
Hanyue said, "Mom, don't worry, just take good care of my dad, we are pretty good." The money incident made Hanyue very angry with Sun Xiangping, and there was something even more angry about her waiting for her in the back.
Just as she ran to the hospital every day and changed her attitude towards her father, one night, Sun Xiangping said she wanted to talk to her.
"What are you talking about?" Hanyue asked.
"I've thought about it. We can't live like this, we have to change our way." Sun Xiangping said.
Hanyue: "How to change it?"
Sun Xiangping: "Your mother has too many family affairs. She doesn't want to pay you money, but now she has to leave again 50,000 yuan. Although I don't use my money, because your money is spent by your father now, I basically bear the expenses in our family this month. This is too unfair to me, so I think, let's just make AA from now on."
Hanyue was stunned: "AA system? How to do it specifically?"
Sun Xiangping said: "Simple, you will take care of your own money in the future. We will share all the expenses in the family, and we will be responsible for the affairs of our parents at home."
Hanyue said: "That is to say, you have completely distinguished with me in terms of financial needs, right?"
"Yes," Sun Xiangping said.
"Is this still a couple? Shouldn't couples share everything? Isn't this too cold?" Hanyue said angrily.
"This is not cold, but rationality and fairness! If you don't want to, you want to take advantage of me!" Sun Xiangping said to Hanyue.
Hanyue is not a weak person either. She gritted her teeth and said, "Okay, the AA system is AA system, but the money can be clearly divided, and the housework must be divided into two. I will not do more!"
"Okay, no problem!" Sun Xiangping agreed immediately.
That night, Sun Xiangping slept very soundly. He earned 5,000 yuan a month. In the future, he would save more money without paying more money from his family. He would be happy to think about it.
, and Hanyue was insomnia, not only angry and disappointed, but also thinking about the future.
Everything today was despised and guarded by Sun Xiangping because of her low money in her family and her own income was not high.
"No, I have to make more money. Change this state and make him regret it!" Hanyue silently made up her mind.
Two months later, Hanyue resigned.
Sun Xiangping was very surprised when he found out: "Are you crazy? Resign? Let me tell you, even if you don't have a job, you have to bear half of the expenses at home!"
"Don't worry, you won't let you spend a penny more," Hanyue said.
"Where did you get money? If you say you don't do it, you will stop doing it?" Sun Xiangping asked.
"I want to do business by myself. I have inspected it in the past two months!" Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping: "Doing business? Are you the material? Besides, how can you have that much money?"
Hanyue: "No one is born to do business, you can't learn, you don't have to worry about money, I found a partner."
"Partner? Haha!" Sun Xiangping sneered, "Don't let someone cheat!"
Hanyue ignored her and went to the kitchen to cook. After
, Hanyue became busy and she opened a restaurant with her partners.
In the early days, she was both a boss and a cashier. When she was busy, she also acted as a waiter. She got up every day and went out early and couldn't come back until midnight.
Sun Xiangping saw that she was so busy and laughed at her several times: "Do you think everyone can do business? In the past, you were considered a white-collar worker. Look at you now, it is harder than a worker. I wonder what you are trying to do!"
pictures are no longer looked down upon by you, and the pictures make you regret the decision of the current AA system one day!
Hanyue thought to herself.
But she said nothing.
In the first half of the year, the hotel business was average, and there was not much money left in a month. After half a year, more and more repeat customers, and repeat customers brought new customers, and the hotel became popular.
A year later, he hired several waiters, and Hanyue finally didn't have to be so busy anymore.
Moreover, at this time her income had exceeded her original salary.
She feels that her decision is correct and that her efforts are worth it.
In the second year, Hanyue gave her parents 2,000 yuan a month, and in the third year, she bought herself a car.
Sun Xiangping looked at Hanyue's car much better than his, and stood beside him and said a few words without hesitation.
"What kind of car can you buy? It's so expensive? How much money can you make in your small restaurant? Don't pretend with me!"
"Isn't it a waste to drive such a good car? Are you driving well?"
"If you have money, you don't know how to save money. Don't even have to turn over the capital one day and you can't find the adjustment if you don't open it!"
...
Hanyue ignored everything. Not only did she drive the car, but she even changed her clothes and dress. She looked not only beautiful, but also full of confidence.
Sun Xiangping felt quite hot, but he still had to pretend.
"You spend so much money, what did your partner say?" he asked.
"Where did the partner come from? She withdrew her investment two months ago, and now the entire hotel is mine." Hanyue said.
"No wonder I spend so much money, I don't know how to manage it at all." Sun Xiangping said.
He felt that Hanyue’s method of spending time may not necessarily cry to him one day, and he would not have enough funds to ask him to help.
That day, he not only won’t help him, but also had to take the opportunity to train her well. Who made her so awesome now!
But Hanyue did not give him this opportunity to vent his anger. Half a year later, the original small restaurant was expanded, with three floors in total, and the interior and exterior decoration was particularly grand. Sun Xiangping had been there once and was shocked.
Look at Hanyue again, she is already a veritable big boss.
What surprised Sun Xiangping even more was that she now gives her parents 6,000 yuan a month! The salary is 1,000 more than his!
is really crazy! Can her parents spend so much money?
Sun Xiangping muttered in his heart.
also began to become unbalanced.
"Hanyue, you give your parents 6,000 yuan a month, but you don't give your parents-in-law any money. Is there anyone who is like this?" Sun Xiangping asked.
Hanyue glanced at him and said, "The answer is to ask yourself!"
"Didn't you just talk about the AA system? That is the AA system between us. You should be filial to your parents-in-law and you have to be filial!" said Sun Xiangping.
"Hahaha." Hanyue smiled, "Sun Xiangping, are you shameless? You said at the beginning, the AA system also includes their parents, and whoever is responsible for their parents, so I just care about my own parents, your parents are yours!"
Sun Xiangping was so angry.
During the Chinese New Year, Hanyue bought a lot of New Year’s goods at home early on. When Sun Xiangping saw that it was all high-end goods, which were useful for food and money.
He frowned, "Hanyue, you buy these things very expensive, I won't share them with you! Besides, we have these small appliances in our house, why do you still buy them? And these supplements, we are both in good health, there is no need to eat them! But if you insist on letting me eat them, I can eat them, but I won't share this money."
Hanyue said, "You keep your heart in your stomach. You don't need to spread the money for small appliances, and you don't need to eat them. These are the New Year's goods bought for my parents."
"What? You actually bought so many things for your parents?" Sun Xiangping was too surprised.
"Is it much? I think it's okay." Hanyue said.
"You have to spend a lot of money on these things, right?" Sun Xiangping asked.
Hanyue replied: "Not much, less than 20,000!"
"You usually give your parents so much money, just buy something less during the Chinese New Year, why buy so much?" Sun Xiangping asked.
"How much I buy for my parents' home has something to do with you? Have you spent a penny?" Hanyue asked back.
Sun Xiangping was speechless after being quarreled.
When the Chinese New Year is approaching, Sun Xiangping and Hanyue discussed, "Your parents can't use so many things, so why not give it to my parents, they will definitely praise you."
"I don't need them to praise you, but if you really want to send it to your parents, I don't have any objection. Take whatever you like, and you can take as many as you can." Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping was surprised: "Really?"
Hanyue said: "Really, but don't forget to give me the money if you get anything. I have invoices and I won't charge you a penny more."
"You? You are too much! You are still thinking about collecting money from me? Don't forget that we are husband and wife, a couple!" Sun Xiangping said excitedly.
Hanyue: "I haven't forgotten, but I remember even more that we are made by AA."
"Cancel, cancel now!" Sun Xiangping shouted.
"Sorry, I think the AA system is good. It protects my interests and makes it more fair between us. No one can take advantage of each other, so I don't agree to cancel." Hanyue smiled and went back to her room.
Sun Xiangping sulked alone in the living room, but she couldn't do anything about it.
He regretted it, why did he want the AA system at the beginning? Now it's hard to get rid of the tiger.
However, who thought Hanyue would develop so well? Han Yue didn't give up on the New Year's goods at all, and gave away all the things he bought for his parents, regardless of Sun Xiangping's jealous eyes.
The more he does this, the more she feels happy! In the fifth year of the system, Sun Xiangping returned home in panic and said to Hanyue: "My mother is sick and very serious. She has to go to the provincial capital for surgery. The treatment fee plus other various other expenses must be prepared for 300,000."
Hanyue was shocked, but immediately calmed down: "What?"
"My parents can only take out 100,000, and I can only take out 100,000, and I can't get all the money." Sun Xiangping said anxiously.
"Then why don't you call relatives and friends to borrow money? What do you say to me?" Hanyue said.
"Hanyue, you understand what I mean. You are now driving such a big hotel and driving such a good car. You must make a lot of money every year. You can get this 100,000." Sun Xiangping said.
"Why?" Hanyue asked.
Sun Xiangping said, "You are my wife and my mother's daughter-in-law! You can ignore it, but now there is a big deal, you must bear your obligations!"
Hanyue sneered, "I only have an obligation to my parents. Your parents' obligations are yours, it has nothing to do with me."
Sun Xiangping was anxious, "You can't say that, I don't need you to take care of my mother, but you have to get 100,000. The key is that 100,000 now does not count for you!"
"How much money I have is my business, but I won't give you a penny to your mother. 5 years ago, you were afraid that my parents would drag you down, so I proposed the AA system to me. Now I will not pay your mother. Not to mention 100,000, it is impossible to even 10 yuan." Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping: "Do you still have a conscience? Do you not save me when you die?"
Hanyue: "I learned from you. I still remember your expressions and words!"
Sun Xiangping knew that he was in trouble, but his mother was really anxious, so he had to say, "Can I borrow it? Can't I pay you back in the future?"
"Haha." Hanyue sneered: "I borrowed 20,000 from you when my dad was sick. What did you say? No need to repeat it, right?"
Sun Xiangping scratched his head in anger, "Hanyue, Hanyue, I really didn't expect you to be so indifferent. Do you just think that my mother is so critical and don't care?"
"If you are really anxious, you should borrow money immediately! Or, I have an idea to guarantee that you can help your mother." Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping: "What's the idea? Tell me!"
"Let your parents sell the house! Their house is large in area, and after selling it, you can get at least 200,000 yuan left after the money to treat the disease!" Hanyue said.
Sun Xiangping: "Let my parents sell the house? Where will they live after selling the house?"
"Rent a house?" Hanyue sneered, "Did you forget? This is the idea you gave to my parents 5 years ago."
"You are so vicious!" Sun Xiangping gritted his teeth in anger.
"Learned from you! I just returned it as it is!" After Hanyue said that, she went to the kitchen to make her own midnight snack.
Soon, the fragrance floated out, and Hanyue's singing came out at the same time.
Sun Xiangping was angry and helpless, and could only think about whom to call to borrow money.
Miss Rongrong:
What is cause and effect? I think that's it!
5 years ago, how did you say and do it, and how she will return it to you 5 years later. If you are angry, just be angry with yourself 5 years ago!
It’s so sad that a husband who calculates his own interests everywhere and even comes up with an AA method to demand his wife. What
unexpectedly was that in the end he was bound by himself!
What do you think? Do you think Hanyue is doing the right thing?
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