It may have been two or three months since my best friend complained about my mother-in-law last time.
In the afternoon, my best friend complained about her mother-in-law in the friend group.
Yesterday at noon, she was making hand-rolled noodles in the kitchen. Her mother-in-law came over and said that the noodles were too soft, so she ruined the prepared noodles and rolled them again.
While eating, her mother-in-law left after eating, and she and her daughter ate together. Her husband didn't come over. She was eating the food. Her mother-in-law stared at her, afraid that she would finish all the food, so she would not leave it for her son, and even told her to eat the food left by her daughter.
can't remember how many times she has complained about her mother-in-law.
tell you a few things to comment.
First talk about the situation of her in-laws’ family, one son and one daughter, the son is the eldest and the daughter is the second. It seems that her sister-in-law had already married when they got married.
The mother-in-law is counted as a small county town. When she got married, the mother-in-law's family was about to be demolished, so the mother-in-law felt that she was interested in their family's financial conditions, and her best friend felt that her parents were urging her to get married, and she was old. In her current words, marriage was to create a task for her parents. In addition, there is an orchard at home, and the pear trees planted can be sold for a lot of money every year.
The in-laws' family was demolished and divided into 3 houses, and they gave one to their sister-in-law, and they still had two houses. Although we are very close, we have not stayed in our hometown for a long time since we got married. We went back two or three times a year, each time for one or two days. In the years before the separation of the house, the transition fee will be paid per capita every month. My daughter is now 6 years old and has never seen her for a single point.
Her mother-in-law is a very despicable one. If you have delicious food, you must leave it to your son. Because I have children and have to go to work, my mother-in-law comes to help take care of my daughter, so I live together. Later, I found out that every time my mother-in-law came back from her hometown, no matter what she brought, it was actually nothing special. She kept the fruits from her hometown or what she cooked in her hometown in her house. When her son got off work, she called her son to the house and secretly asked her son to eat. It wouldn't work if she didn't eat them, and it was when she was at home. Alas, this is not to regard my daughter-in-law as my family!
A few years ago, her father-in-law discovered early stages of lung cancer and went to the hospital for treatment. At that time, she had a good job and her income was twice that of her husband, and she might have to have more. The old couple said that the money was deposited regularly and could not be withdrawn. Otherwise, the interest would be gone! I don't understand whether the interest is important or fate is important. This best friend was also careless and foolishly paid off the money and treated the elderly. It cost about 60,000 to 70,000 yuan. Fortunately, it was early, and the treatment was timely, so there was no problem. Later, it took a long time to find out that your father-in-law bought medical insurance for serious illnesses, and in the end he was reimbursed. Anyway, the old couple took it all by themselves. They didn’t spend a penny to treat a serious illness, but instead got another sum of money. So tall! ! !
Later, my mother-in-law had another stroke. The same operation was done, and the money was deposited regularly, and it was her who paid the money again. I didn't say to my wife if the deposit expired regularly.
Best friend has earned money in recent years, and maybe these two major events have been spent almost the same, and I feel very frustrated. She, I, and another friend. The three of us have a small group. Maybe they were extremely frustrated and complained to us in the group. After listening to it, they were speechless. She suggested that she ask the old couple for the money for medical treatment, but she didn’t mean that she was concerned about the money. She only had money in her hands, but she didn’t have money. Don’t you know how much her son earned? Is this wife’s money so easy to spend? But she said, she couldn't ask for it. As soon as she said that her mother-in-law would cry, "Oh my God, are there any reason?" Don’t treat your daughter-in-law as a family, and ask your daughter-in-law to pay when spending money. This is to treat your daughter-in-law as an ATM, and it’s the kind that can’t be taken away.
Remember correctly, her mother-in-law was sick this time, and she didn't want to pay for it, so she asked her husband to find a way, and she went to the park to discuss this matter with her husband. His husband said he had no money and could not borrow money.
again and again, I think my best friend should have a memory.Yes, I have a good memory. After another year or two, she saved some money in her hand. She also had a younger brother and a younger sister, and they were all married. Both of them bought cars at home. On the contrary, she had not bought cars at home. Every time she went back to her parents' home, she had to take a taxi, just to get some money. This time she praised some money, and finally bought a car, and quickly spent the money, just to prevent them from thinking about her and having money again.
days are also gone. In the past two years, as we all know, the epidemic has come, but it has not left even after it comes. Last year, her company lay off employees and she was laid off. Fortunately, the company compensated a compensation. The epidemic has caused the bad industry and jobs. Her husband costs four or five thousand yuan a month. At the beginning, she paid the mortgage. Later, she found out that her husband likes to buy things online without any problems, so she asked her husband to pay the mortgage. Basically, my colleagues were responsible for the family expenses, and later the car loan. I was unemployed in October last year and I kept looking for a job. There was no suitable one. It was stable in March or April after the Chinese New Year, but my salary was half the price. There is no way, let's do it first, the job is too difficult to find.
Although I found a new job, it was a new company and I had no job to be busy. I had a few months of rest in the middle and had children playing. When chatting, I said that she was under too much pressure. My other best friend and I said that if it was too much pressure, I couldn’t tell the elderly and support them. After all, I spent all the money on them over the years. She said don’t mention it. Some time ago, my mother-in-law visited the doctor and bought medicine, and asked her for money, and she asked her for 10,000 yuan. Her mother-in-law even asked her husband to ask her if you asked me to tell me if you gave it to me? She said that in the end there was no way, so she gave it to five thousand, saying that she had lent it to her husband and asked her to return it to her in the future. Alas, I want to curse people. If I don’t have money to see a doctor, don’t see it.
How can you live like this in life? I feel frustrated and a suffocating feeling. The mother-in-law never treats her as her family, and she is still guarding against her everywhere, taking her granddaughter downstairs to play, and even said that her wife is not good. Isn’t this person a little grateful? Are you a little conscientious?
This time, due to the epidemic, it has been blocked at home for more than ten days. My best friend said that since she stayed at home, she had never let her mother-in-law do housework. She did it all. Her mother-in-law also came to find her out from time to time. It sounded like she felt that life was hard to bear.
Although mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are born enemies, there are many people who live well. Why are they all other mother-in-laws? I think my best friend must be too frustrated, so I complained to us, otherwise who would be willing to make a frustrated family scandals out of the way!
Many times I told my best friend not to be too weak and should fight back, but every time I said that her husband said that her mother-in-law had a bad status and did not dare to make her angry. Alas, but such days are really too difficult and too frustrating.
Let’s talk about it. If it were you, what would you do?
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