Everyone has a line of tears, the cold water they drink, the hot tears they brew. I put the most sad grievances there. If you don't understand me, I don't blame you. When Meimei accidentally saw these words on the Internet, she couldn't help but burst into tears. Why do she look

Everyone has a line of tears, the cold water drunk by

, and the hot tears brewed by

.

I put the most sad grievances there.

You don’t understand me, I don’t blame you.

Meimei accidentally saw these sentences on the Internet and couldn't help but burst into tears. Why do you look so much like yourself?

Mimei and her husband met 15 years ago. They were the perfect match for the golden boy and jade girl. Back then, they were the most dazzling couple in college.

After graduation, they got married and gave birth to a very beautiful daughter a year later. The family of three is full of affection. At that time, Meimei felt that she was the happiest woman in the world.

Before my daughter went to elementary school, she was all taken care of by her grandmother. Later, Meimei's sister-in-law gave birth to a son, Meimei's mother was taken back to the countryside to take her grandson, and her mother-in-law began to enter her life.

My mother-in-law's arrival seemed to start a nightmare.

It turns out that Meimei’s husband is the only child, his father died early, and his mother is extremely strong, and he is a typical mama’s boy. When my mother-in-law didn’t come, my husband’s behavior was normal, but everything changed since my mother-in-law came.

The day when Meimei's mother returned to the countryside was when Meimei's husband's stepfather passed away. It is my husband’s idea to take my mother-in-law over and live with me, and that’s what he should do. Meimei has always been reasonable, not to mention that her mother-in-law has only one son.

But since my mother-in-law came, the atmosphere at home has become serious, and I feel that my mother-in-law is the real hostess of this family.

Meimei was spoiled by her mother since she was a child. She really didn't know how to do housework. The food was cooked and the level was average, and she could eat it, but it was not necessarily very delicious. But Meimei has strong professional skills and is an excellent elementary school teacher. She can sing and dance and is very popular with children.

She is very happy when she is with the children every day; but when she gets home, she will hear all kinds of accusations from her mother-in-law.

For example:

Didn’t your mother teach you? No matter how clean the table is, it can't be wiped clean.

How do I wash this bowl? Why use dishwashing liquid? Chemicals are all toxic.

How do you put these shoes? Uneven.

Why wash the quilt frequently? You will be washed away.

and so on, Meimei will hear words every day. She felt that nothing she did was right. Tell your husband about your own suffering, the other party is only concerned about playing with his cell phone. If Meimei accidentally said something to complain about her mother-in-law, she would definitely be scolded by her husband.

My mother-in-law's ear back, her phone's volume is always set to the maximum. As long as she is awake, her phone will always be on. The first thing she does when she wakes up every morning is to turn on her phone to listen to the news, without caring about whether the rest of her family is still sleeping. Even though she fell asleep at noon, the Douyin on her phone was still on.

Beautiful, gentle and quiet. Sometimes I want to read a book, but I really can't find a quiet place at home. She could only read more books after her mother-in-law fell asleep, so she naturally slept late. But sometimes, before six o'clock, my mother-in-law's cell phone started to illuminate.

Mimei is becoming less and less willing to go home. She is willing to stay in school or accompany her daughter to specialty training classes. At least she can do something she likes. Sometimes I secretly call my best friend and chat, and I feel much more comfortable. Otherwise, it would be difficult to find someone who can speak when you get home.

"That was my mother who taught me back then."

"When encountering such a thing, you have to ask my mother, she is the most experienced."

"Is it easy for my mother to raise me? You have to be nicer to her."

These are three sentences that my husband often talks about. I thought that my husband could help with his family affairs, but since my mother-in-law entered the door, it felt that she had the final say. Meimei has no say. She felt that this was not her home, but her mother-in-law and her son's home.

Some people say that mama boys are more terrifying than scumbags. They always criticize you in the name of filial piety and implement moral kidnapping , which makes you unable to refute.Every time I think of the many accusations my husband and mother-in-law have on her, Meimei shudders.

What Meimei couldn't understand most is that even if she bought a few books, she would be criticized by her mother-in-law, believing that she was generous and did not know how to save money. Meimei couldn't figure it out. She was obviously spending her own money, but her mother-in-law's tone seemed to say that she was a parasite, and she was spending her son's money.

Fortunately, Meimei has good money-making ability and does not need to rely on her husband's life at all. She was wondering how to get out of this suffocating world.

Everyone has a line of tears, the cold water drunk by

, and the hot tears brewed by

.

I put the most sad grievances there.

You don’t understand me, I don’t blame you.

Meimei felt something uncomfortable when she savored the above sentences again.

yes, "You don't understand me, I don't blame you" is a bit awkward to pronounce the sentence "You really don't blame anyone?" Can you accept real life calmly? Where did that once harmonious and warm little home go?

Meimei doesn't want to live such a life again. She doesn't want to leave her sadness to herself. She feels it's time to talk to her mother-in-law and her husband in a public and honest manner. Otherwise, sooner or later, she will leave this home, and she doesn't want to do this.

She believes that fate is like the palm lines in her hand, and no matter how tortuous it is, it is always in her own hands.