"I love you, but I can't give you a title, nor can I give you money!"
Is such love considered true love?
Talk about money will not hurt feelings. Only by talking about money with people who don’t love you will hurt feelings!
Love without name is the cheapest love, do you really want to continue?
lacks love for women, and has been a third party for love for seven years
A few days ago, a fan told Lan Fang about her situation.
She is a mistress and has been with a cheating man for more than seven years.
She always felt that the two of them were true love, but because of some recent events, she began to doubt it.
When she met the cheating man, she was only twenty years old. The cheating man was more than ten years older than her. The cheating man was in business. The conditions were very good, and he had a wife and children.
The cheating man told her that marriage was arranged by the family, and the original wife's family was also in business.
The two were in marriage, and they had no feelings. Having children was also to complete the task.
also said that the original wife cheated first and got along with a man a few years younger outside.
The man who cheated on him couldn't control him and was in pain until he met this mistress and felt that he had met love.
The man cheated on me was very clear to the mistress from the beginning.
He cannot divorce, but he will give me all the love and let me be with him.
also said that if the mistress wants to leave one day, he will let go, as long as the mistress can be happy.
This mistress has many common problems with true love mistresses, lack of love and love brain.
Because her parents divorced, she was sentenced to her mother. After two years, her mother remarried and her stepfather had no feelings for her.
She was in junior high school and high school boarding schools, and she went back to her grandmother's house during winter and summer vacations.
So it is not only lacking fatherly love, but also not much motherly love, so it is very lacking.
Her grandmother always tells her that she will be happy when she grows up.
led to her having a yearning for love. When she went to college, she would be together if someone chased her.
was despised as being too clingy, and finally broke up. When he was hurt by love, he met a cheating man.
A cheating man has true love at once, and he is very sympathetic to his mistress's previous experience and will treat his mistress well.
coaxed the mistress so much that she knew she had no title, but she was willing to be a third party.
has been doing this for seven years, and his relationship with a cheating man has always been pretty good.
If you want a house, a man who cheats on him is unwilling to buy it, she begins to doubt the love of a cheating man!
The mistress said that she really didn't care about money. After being with a cheating man, she still worked on her own. She felt that if she relied on a cheating man, the two would not be a romantic relationship, but a storm.
So in the past seven years, she has also worked hard to do her own career, from hotel cleaning to room department manager.
is also a woman with a little successful career. There are many people around her who want to introduce her to her, and some have pursued her.
But she was wholeheartedly thinking about cheating on a man and always felt that she was sacrificing for love.
At the beginning of this year, a friend of her bought a house and told her that the house price is cheaper now.
She has saved some money over the years and told her that she could buy a house for herself while the house is cheap.
She was moved. She has lived in a rental house for so many years and it is time for herself to have a home.
She chose a community between a hotel and a cheating man company. The housing prices are a bit high, and
She has enough money to pay the down payment, but she dare not clear all her deposits.
After all, the hotel business has been unsuccessful in recent years, and she is worried that if she loses her job one day, she will not be able to afford the mortgage.
So she thought to borrow some money from the man who cheated on her first, but the man who cheated on her directly refused.
What the cheating man told her was that the two of them were pure love, and talking about money hurts their relationship.
But Ms. Gao ran to borrow money from another colleague, and the colleague lent it to her without saying a word.
also said that the two have worked together for seven years, and Ms. Gao has difficulty in helping her.The comparison of
made Ms. Gao start to doubt whether a cheating man really loves her?
Does a cheating man love mistresses? Love is the cheapest!
This mistress asked Lan Fang if the cheating man really has feelings for her?
Blue Party believes that there is no real relationship. There is only one reason why a cheating man has been with her for so many years.
is because of cheating with a mistress, and the cost of cheating is low.
On the one hand, the cost of money is low, and cheating men don’t need to spend much money on mistresses.
Judging from the situation mentioned by the mistress, she has always maintained financial independence and the cheating man has never given her money.
In addition to some holiday gifts, there are also red envelopes, going out for dinner and dates, etc.
A man who cheats on his mistress does not need to pay other money costs on his mistress.
Compared with those women who want money and houses, the money needed by this mistress is really too low.
On the other hand, the risk cost is, mistresses love brain, as long as love does not seek to be superior.
One reason why most cheating men don’t have a long relationship with mistress is that.
The mistress cannot be a third party all the time, and she is a little unwilling to accept it after a long time.
What's more, a cheating man with good conditions and a very profitable cheating man.
Most mistresses will make trouble for the men to get married and force a cheating man to divorce.
made the original wife know about extramarital affairs, and many people even knew about it. This is the risk cost.
But this mistress doesn't have it. She doesn't want to be promoted. She only wants love, so there is no risk cost.
Simply put, a cheating man only needs to coax him sweetly, and I love you.
You don’t need to pay too much, so you can keep the mistress being a third party and enjoy extramarital affairs.
This is the main reason why he maintains an extramarital affair. As for real relationships, there is no one.
Look at him, he made the mistress be a third party for seven years, and never wanted to give the mistress a title.
doesn’t feel guilty about the mistress. She doesn’t want to borrow money to buy a house. What kind of feelings can he have for the mistress?
It’s not that he has no money, but that he is very rich, and a hundred thousand yuan is a small amount for him.
Any friend may borrow it, but why is it not to lend it to mistresses?
Because the mistress is very cheap in his mind, the mistress doesn't ask for anything and keeps depreciating himself.
So the cheating man doesn’t borrow money because he thinks that the mistress is not worth his borrowing of 100,000 yuan.
A cheating man looks down on his mistress and thinks that his mistress is cheap. Where does he get the true feelings?
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say, "I love you" sounds affectionate, but just saying and not doing it is the cheapest love words.
Sweet words don’t cost you. You can say them with a mouth. If you believe them after listening, you deserve to be deceived.
Being a third party is not noble at all because of love, but rather is silly and pitiful.
Because you are devalued by yourself, you just want to make a cheap love saying "I love you"!
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