Some people speak bluntly and can't keep a few words in their stomachs. They can't calm down when they find other people's omissions. A company held a year-end summary meeting. The director made a mistake in his speech. He said: "This year, our company's cooperative units have been further expanded, and so far it has grown to 46." Before he finished speaking, a subordinate stood up and whispered to the director who was talking on the stage and corrected loudly: "I said wrong! I said wrong! That was the number at the beginning of the year, and now it has reached 64." As a result, the audience was in an uproar. The director was so embarrassed that his face turned red and his emotions suddenly fell down. His face was thrown away by this sudden statement.
We should never be like the people in this story, but should hold this attitude, as if you are just reminding him of something that "he knew it, but he forgot it by chance", rather than something that requires you to give me some advice.
As the saying goes, "Only three parts to people" and there are seven parts to say, there is no need to say it to others. Maybe you think that a real man is open and upright, and he can talk to others in everything, so why do you have to say only three parts of the word? In fact, this sentence means treating the person he says differently. If the other party is not someone who can speak the whole thing, you have already said a lot; if the other party is not a close friend, you will talk about everything. If you are quick, how will the other party react?
What you say belongs to you, is the other party willing to listen? The relationship between them is shallow, and if you talk to him at will, it will show that you are not well-educated. If the topic is about the other person and you are not his close friend, talking to him in depth will make you too presumptuous. If your words involve others, you do not understand the other party’s position, you do not know the other party’s opinions, and you are blunt, which is often easy to offend people.
So, only three-point words to everyone is not that you can’t say that. The key point is not to say anything that is not necessary. Those who know how to be human are smooth and conservative, and don’t say anything without saying it. This is by no means he is dishonest or cunning, but a skill in being human.
There are three limitations for speaking, namely, one is people, two is the land, and three is the time. If you don’t say it if you don’t know the right person, you don’t know the right person at the moment, even if you get the right person, you don’t have to say it if you get the right person at the right time, rather than where you speak.
is not the person who speaks, you have too many words to say. If you get the right person, not the place where you speak, you have given the other party a hint and observe his reaction. If you get the right person, the right time, not the place where you speak, you will just attract his attention. If necessary, you might as well find a place to discuss in detail. This is the truly wise person.
However, in life, some people can't help but spread what they hear and see, and they immediately spread it. Many right and wrong are often caused by such people's talk too much.
Confucian said, "If you don't know what others say, it's called a misunderstanding."
Sometimes, you only say three points because of your professional ethics. As a doctor, you cannot mention the status and medical records of special patients to others. This is the professional ethics of a doctor.
If you are engaged in confidentiality work or in a special industry, you should pay attention to it. What you said should be about food, food, food, oil and salt, astronomy, geography, and unofficial history. In short, it is irrelevant material anyway. Although the irrelevant materials are spoken in a very clear manner, they are all happy, but they are actually nothing and will not cause any trouble.
People who know how to be a human are not only smart, but also have the skills to speak. They speak smoothly and conservatively, and they don’t say anything without saying anything, and they don’t say anything without saying anything. This is neither his dishonesty nor his cunning, but a skill of speaking.
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