Home is a harbor that can be sheltered from the wind. At home, we can always feel the deepest love and the most relaxed feeling; for a person, the mutual help between family members is the greatest comfort to each other;

home is a harbor that can be sheltered. At home, we can always feel the deepest love and the most relaxed feeling;

For a person, the mutual help between family members is the greatest comfort for each other;

But under the same roof, no matter how good the relationship is, it is impossible to be completely free of conflicts and conflicts;

The key is how families deal with this problem;

People with high emotional intelligence often "lock in the door" to resolve the disputes and misunderstandings between their families themselves;

People with high emotional intelligence often "lock in the door" to resolve the disputes and misunderstandings between their families themselves;

Because this is the privacy of the family, it represents the concepts and habits of the family, and is a detail issue in daily relationships. It is related to the decency and image of the family, and it is not convenient to tell outsiders;

No matter how estranged from the family, smart people will not tell others casually about the privacy between the family;

The real sorrow of a family has little to do with having money or not. Rich families also have family members to calculate and blame each other. A family without money can also rely on the mutual assistance and diligence of the family to open up a happy sunny avenue;

However, placing the following three family privacy on their lips is the real misfortune of the family. It not only hurts the dignity and dignity of the family, but also makes people laugh and ridicule behind their backs.

Tell outsiders that the shortcomings and shortcomings of a partner

Before the couple got married, everything about each other was beautiful and satisfactory;

Once they live together for a long time, the shortcomings and shortcomings will slowly be exposed;

People all have advantages and disadvantages coexist. There is no perfect person. The partner who once looked at him liked will become disgusting after marriage;

People are all about advantages and disadvantages. There is no perfect person. The partner who once looked at him will become disgusting after marriage;

Sometimes when my best friend or buddy is together, he often complains and complains about his dissatisfaction with his wife or husband;

For example, the husband is tired of his wife's restrictions on his own money and socializes with daily life;

The wife dislikes her husband always be domineering to him, plays games all day long, and rarely shares the burden on housework for him;

If you talk about the troubles in marriage and the shortcomings of your partner, how can you finish it?

But smart people will choose to digest the privacy of these couples by themselves;

Even if you can't bear it occasionally, you should know that you can stop and don't tell them everything in detail;

First, others will not understand your dissatisfaction with your partner, and secondly, it is easy for others to laugh at;

If others have a dispute with their own family, the privacy between the couple and the shortcomings of your partner you casually will become the source of attacks on others;

So, keep your mouth shut and don't say the shortcomings of your partner everywhere. Not only will it hurt the couple's harmony, it will also easily cause disaster.

Tell outsiders that money-related relationships with their partner's family

Talk about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money;

In marriage, both feelings require feelings and money;

Sometimes, feelings require money to prove and test;

After marriage, some money-related relationships are inevitable between the two families;

For example, if a family member is sick and undergoes surgery, dear The family will provide certain funding; if a couple encounters trouble in their lives, both parents will pay to support them; if both families are cheerful, don’t care much, they can be impartial, fair and reasonable; if

But sometimes, if a family spends less money, it will cause dissatisfaction and suspicion of the other family;

In reality, if the family and their partner’s family encounter difficulties, it may be that the rich contribute money and the poor contribute to the big family.

However, some families have their own rules and criteria for judgment. Once they find that their partner's family has paid less, especially in terms of money, they will be particularly concerned;

Parents' ideas and complaints about their in-laws will be passed on to their children, and it will inevitably make the couple unhappy;

If you tell outsiders about the financial disputes and dealings with your partner's family, they will expose their weaknesses;

People are usually very sensitive to such things and hate outsiders to intervene and evaluate them at will;

So, don't say these to outsiders, which will make the two families disagree.

Tell outsiders that conflicts and disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

In marriage life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not that good;

In reality, of course, there are some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence who get along like mother-in-law;

But more, they still need some tolerant and frictional mother-in-law and mother-in-law. The relationship between daughter-in-law;

Where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are both women, and they can not only understand the difficulty of being a woman, but also easily amplify the shortcomings of each other;

For example, some mother-in-law, when they give birth to children, they don’t suffer any root cause, and they dislike their daughter-in-law. After giving birth to children, they are weak and cannot do so many housework;

Some daughter-in-laws usually neglect to take care of their children. , the mother-in-law always helps to take care of her, and always complains that her mother-in-law has not been able to do the best;

In fact, people need to understand each other;

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a trivial matter in life;

If you always tell the other person's shortcomings to outsiders and ignore the advantages, it is inevitable that it is unfair. Once outsiders hear it, they will feel that you are not empathetic enough, selfish and selfish. Big;

Second, it will aggravate family conflicts and fall into a vicious cycle;

Family members live together, and they have advantages and disadvantages. If you just complain about the other party’s shortcomings, it is better to calmly put forward your needs and get support and understanding. Don’t talk about conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when you meet people everywhere. These are not conducive to the other party’s image and are not conducive to the harmony of the family.

When getting along with a family, you must also consider the issue from the other party's perspective. You cannot just care about your own selfishness and make arbitrary judgments, make the originally good family relationships known to everyone and live a mess;

Maintaining the privacy of your family is a way to protect your family and yourself.

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