often asks what should men and women talk about.
When pursuing, many people don’t know how to chat or what to say. Only then will they be interested in others, develop a good impression of themselves, and further bring each other closer together.
Even after falling in love, I am often confused and don’t know what topics to talk about.
It seems that there is nothing else except morning, evening, good night, and when you ask what you are doing and what you are eating.
. Such a chat method is so mechanical. Of course, this is not a good thing, and it cannot promote relationships at all.
not only cannot make the relationship go further, but it also makes the other party feel boring and doesn't want to pay attention to it at all.
chat is a science, and if you want to warm up your relationship, it is best to talk about something interesting and interesting.
talks about the past, present and future.
When I reached the age of love, I was with someone. At that time, everyone would actually have some past.
Even if you think the past is meaningless, it is just very ordinary. In fact, the other party will be very curious about those pasts that seem to be ordinary and want to know. Every detail will be very attractive to the other party.
So, at many moments, you can really talk to each other about each other’s past, even your friends from the past, your dreams, and some of your thoughts when you were young.
In addition to the past, you can also share with each other every day of the present and the trivial days of ordinary years.
It seems that I discovered a good small shop myself and had a delicious braised chicken rice . I had a bad colleague around me.
Of course, you can also look forward to the future days with the other party, where you want to live, what kind of house you want to dress up, how to spend each other's day, and how many children you hope to have and what kind of names to give them.
shares the past, present, and some plans for the future, which will make each other feel very involved and feel that the other party does not regard himself as an outsider. Unconsciously, the two hearts will get closer and closer.
It seems that every day is so ordinary and no difference. In fact, when we discover and focus on some small things, we will really find that there are really a lot of things that can tell the other person.
Say something, hobbies and personal preferences.
Even if it is a lover, they may not have much understanding of each other.
. The best way to get to know each other is of course to talk about what they like and don’t like. They tend to do something in their daily life and what kind of behavior they think will be a kind of enjoyment.
In this process, we will realize that we and the other party have some similarities and will feel happy because of these similarities. In the days to come, we can make an appointment to do these things together.
will also clearly see that they have many differences, and they will also find it novel because of these differences.
will arouse your desire to explore, wanting to understand the other party further and understand what the other party likes.
As each other understands more and more what kind of person each other is, what they like to do on weekdays, their mutual understanding of each other will become more comprehensive, and the other person's image will be deeper in their hearts.
Later, when we make an appointment to do what we like together and understand what we like, and when we continue to interact, our feelings will naturally become stronger and stronger and our feelings will become better and better.
Love someone, love the other person’s similarities to you, and love the differences between the other person. More importantly, you must always have various contacts, which is conducive to developing each other’s feelings.
share embarrassing things, each other's secrets.
More or less, in the past years, a person will have some small secrets that belong only to him, and have some embarrassing things that he is embarrassed to tell others.I have always kept things like
in my heart, never mentioned them, but I have never forgotten them.
Once upon a time, I felt a little embarrassed and uneasy. Later, I thought of it, but I felt a little funny.
For experiences like this, you can talk about the other party, talk about the ignorance you used to have and some of the little thoughts you have had.
talks to the other party about this. The moment they say it, the other party may laugh and feel distressed, but after that, the other party will feel very proud and feel that as long as they know these, it is amazing.
seems to have mastered their own handles, and in the future, you can be more presumptuous in front of each other, as if you know some unknown things that each other is the closest people to each other, and you are more intimate than anyone else. The idea of
really makes people feel contented, and they feel that in each other's hearts, each other is a very special existence, more important than anyone else, and more familiar with everything about each other.
After all, everyone is the same as something that embarrasses you and secrets. It is impossible to talk about it everywhere. It is impossible to say it directly no matter who you meet, and ignore it at all. Only by feeling relieved and trusting someone will you be willing to reveal it.
Between couples, chatting cannot just talk about meaningless nonsense, but in-depth communication.
talk about some specific things, share more, talk about each other's preferences, keep these in mind, talk about secrets, and only tell them to each other.
can talk more about these things, so that each other will not feel embarrassed, and often the cold things will be unsuccessful, and will become more and more permeable to each other's lives.
When they become more and more involved in their respective lives, they will naturally become increasingly inseparable and truly become a whole.
In addition, you can talk about these things and have a better understanding of each other. In the future, you will not always feel that the other person is unfamiliar with each other, and your relationship will be more secure.
Friends, many times, are really just chatted.
can chat, and if you talk speculatively, the relationship will naturally become increasingly stable.
text/Tan Meng
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