Our society in New China is different now. Women are self-supporting, independent, and self-reliant. Whether in work or life, women will not be inferior to men.
We can take a look at Zhao Liying . Zhao Liying's career is getting better and better, and she is also a very confident woman.
Let’s look at big S, big S and gou Junye . They have known each other more than 20 years ago, but for many reasons, they are not together.
Da S has quickly married Ju Junye since she divorced Wang Xiaofei . Looking at Big S's current state, she is really very happy, because you can see a person's happiness from her expression.
A woman can be spoiled by a man, she is happy and happy from the bottom of her heart.
I am also a second-married woman. I was also confused after the divorce. I never thought of remarrying because I was afraid of men's harm and lack self-confidence.
But fate is very strange. Sometimes fate comes, and you can't hide it.
By chance, I met my current second-married husband. Everyone around me said that I was lucky and married to a good man.
looks good, looks young, responsible, responsible, has no bad habits, is well-educated, and does not have domestic violence. He is also a gentle and considerate Oppa.
The only drawback is that there is not much money, but for me, a non-money-worshiping woman, it doesn’t matter. Money is not a problem. The most important thing is that you have a good character, be good to me, and be good to my son.
There are also many divorced women around them. Their standard for finding men is to have money, a house, and a car.
I said I can't deserve such a man because I can't control it, because I know my own abilities.
If a man is rich, has a status, has a career, and has a good character, how could it be his turn? If he wants to find him, he will definitely find someone younger than me. I have a self-aware person.
Whether I am first or second marriage, my standard for finding a partner is not money, and I will not look at each other's family.
In this life, it is important to find someone who understands you, and it is important to find someone with the same viewpoint.
This is how my second marriage husband and I are. He is not such a material person, and I am not a material woman.
What my second-married husband should not appreciate about me is because I am not beautiful and much inferior to his ex-wife. He appreciates my confidence, my cheerfulness, my kindness, hard work and hard work. I never complain about myself or others.
Because I know complaining can't change anything and anyone, all we can do is change ourselves.
We don’t have money and we don’t have the ability to learn. All happiness depends on our own efforts.
The most important thing for a woman is not to pin her hopes on others’ knowledge, nor to pin her hopes on men.
Sometimes I think, I feel like I am dreaming, how can I be blessed to marry such a good husband again, because he has a good temper and I am more willful, but he follows me, he will spoil me, and he will say nice words to warm me.
At the beginning, my mother-in-law now also disagreed because I was with a son, and my mother-in-law felt that her son was under pressure.
This is what I said to my mother-in-law: " Whether it is my son or daughter, they are all my biological children, so I want to take him with me. I don't even care about my own son and abandon my son for my marriage. Such a irresponsible and cruel woman, will your son still look for me? ?"
I guess my mother-in-law was a little confused at that time, but I didn't expect that I was so sharp.
A woman doesn’t even want her own child, so how can she be called a good woman?
I also relieved my mother-in-law of my concern. I said that my son and I don’t need your son to bear it, because I am not a woman who can’t make money. I have the ability to raise my own son, and I will not let your son’s money raise my son. What are you worried about?
In this way, we walked together smoothly. After ten years of marriage, we bought our own house and paid back the loan together. Although we were not rich, we were very happy and happy because we were people on the same channel.
Now my mother-in-law's view of me has also changed. She also knows that I am a self-reliant woman and I will not live on a man.
And I feel that in my husband's eyes I am just a little girl. He will satisfy me if I like, and he will satisfy me if I need. This is not necessarily money, but some small details.
My husband also regards my son as his own. Since he was in high school, he has been picking up and dropping off his son, including going to college. He has never hesitated, he has never complained about driving back and forth such a long way.
My family is more satisfied with my husband than me, because they all said that he was a good person since the beginning, and my family told me not to bully him because I have a hurry and will scold him.
My husband is the kind of person that mother-in-law likes the son-in-law when she sees her son-in-law.
Happiness is achieved through our own efforts and by our sincere treatment of everyone, so that we can achieve our own happiness.
Only when two people are together can they be truly happy.
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