Hello everyone! I am talking about life with words, and I hold the pen in my hand to share the trivial things in life with you, taste the ups and downs of life, and the mood of the four seasons.
(For the convenience of narration, the whole text is in the first person)
Poor parents' hearts, and what parents can never let go of is their children. No matter how old the child is, no matter what the child is at the end of the world, the child is always concerned about, and always gives the best to the child.
My wife and I have only two children in our life, one son and one daughter, and we form the word "good". Now they are both married and started a family. My wife and I have completed our mission and can spend our old age in peace.
My wife and I worked hard for most of our lives, saving 1 million yuan. As we grow older, we began to plan for our elderly care. My wife said,
"We have worked hard to save money, don't let the brothers and sisters know about the money we have saved. Then we need someone to take care of when we are sick and need someone to take care of. Which child is filial to the bed is and filial to , we will leave this money to which child."
everyone says raising children to prevent old age . In my heart, I prefer my son because I think that my daughter is married and is an outsider. Giving her to a daughter is equivalent to giving her to an outsider. It would be better to give it to your own son, but my wife insisted on
"No matter who your son or daughter, whoever serves us then will leave the money to whom. "Filial piety" your child for the sake of money is not really filial. When he knows that you have no money, he will not be so kind to you willingly , even if it is your own child, so we must now keep our own deposits as a bottle "
I nodded and agreed, because my wife has always been considerate more than me in doing things, and I have been used to listening to the opinions of my wife for so many years.
day unexpectedly. My wife was suddenly sent to the hospital for a heart attack, but she was not able to be rescued yet. In this way, my wife suddenly passed away . I couldn't stand this heavy blow. I cried every day, felt heartbroken, and fell ill all of a sudden. I lay at home for many days.
During the period when I was sick, my daughter kept asking for leave to take care of me at home, and my son would come here every now and then. That day I happened to hear the conversation between the two brothers and sisters
"Xiaobin, if you are so convenient, I will take my mother over and stay for two days. I can't keep asking for leave. The leader of the unit called me to go back to work, and they urged me several times. "
" I got it, sister, I'll go back and discuss it with Yajiao"
After I heard their conversation Then he walked out and said to his daughter
"Xiaoxia, don't worry about going to work tomorrow. My illness has improved a lot. I can take good care of myself now."
but my daughter was still worried and wanted me to follow her to live in her house. I decisively rejected . I am not without a son. I feel that in this situation, should be with my son for granted.
I thought I could not delay my daughter from going to work because of taking care of me. This was not a long-term solution. The next day, I called my son and said that I would go to his house and live with them.
My son got off work in the evening, so I packed my luggage and went to his house together.
As soon as I entered the door, I saw my daughter-in-law Yajiao drooping her face. I knew she would not welcome me, but the house they lived in was bought by my wife and I. I lived in the house I bought myself. What’s wrong? But now it depends on her expression.
They arranged me to live in the study on the north side. Since I moved in, my daughter-in-law Yajiao has been asking me about my faults everywhere.
In the morning, I bought them fried dough sticks and soy milk. Yajiao said that the oil used to fry fried dough sticks outside has not been changed once a long time ago. Eating such food is unhealthy for the body. She also said in disguise that I am lazy and unwilling to get up early to make breakfast for them.
When I was having dinner with them, I thought I would sprinkle the soup on the table, and I specially laid a layer of plastic cloth on the tablecloth of dining table . What made me even more angry was that Yajiao took out my bowl and chopsticks and put them aside. I was not infectious. I was so in this little thing despised I
When it was cold on the day, my old habit of arthritis was caused. There was no way, so I could only apply plaster, but Yajiao thought the plaster was very smelly on my body. When I was eating, I held the bowl and closed the door of the bedroom and ate in the bedroom.
One day, I felt uncomfortable and lay in the bed for a while, and I fell asleep in a daze. Who knew that after a while, they came home at noon, I was still busy making lunch. Because I didn't prepare lunch on time, Yajiao was furious , and even spoke with guns and sticks
"Mom, you are really lazy, your son and I are away I worked for a day and couldn't even eat hot food when I got home. You won't do anything at home. You'll sleep all morning!"
looked at my son standing by without saying a word, letting his wife bully me and scold me. I was so angry that I ran back to the study and closed the door. Tears flowed, and I missed my deceased wife even more.
My wife, you're leaving, leave me alone, do you know what life I live every day at my son's house?
I am like a servant every day. I have to buy vegetables and cook on time. I have to match meat and vegetables to make every meal nutritious. I clean and wash clothes. I am careful in life and look at my daughter-in-law's face. My son never feels sorry for me, let alone speak for me. Thinking about living bad days every day for this period of time
I pressed After suppressing my emotions for a long time, I finally couldn't control myself. I cried all night and fell ill again the next day. My daughter-in-law called my daughter Xiaoxia
"Our mother is sick again. We are very busy at work. I really don't have the time and energy to take care of her at all. You can pick her up. When she gets ready, we will go and pick her up."
Just like that, I was "showed out" by my daughter-in-law and sent to my daughter's house.
sson-in-law treated me warmly, and even called me warmly after shouting about my mother, and arranged me in the master bedroom facing south toward the sun. The son-in-law also said,
"You are older, it is good to bask in more sunshine, and you can also supplement calcium."
I heard it and felt warm in my heart.
The daughter and son-in-law were worried about my body. The next morning, I drove me to the hospital for a full-body examination. After learning that there was no major problem, I specially found a respected old Chinese doctor to prescribe Chinese medicine for me and asked me to take my body well. I thought that I applied plaster myself, which made the house smell full of smell. I was afraid that my son-in-law would dislike me, so I said to the nurse
"Please decoct the Chinese medicine and we will come here tomorrow to get it. "
But the son-in-law said
"Let's take the Chinese medicine today and cook it yourself. There is a ready-made casserole at home. Don't worry, mom, I can decoct Chinese medicine!
Looking at the son-in-law who cares about me everywhere, I was very moved.
My face was getting better and better day by day under the careful care of my daughter and son-in-law. I took care of me during my illness. It is in my eyes and in my heart.
, especially my son-in-law, always go out early to buy good vegetables every day, and even says to me
"Mom, if the vegetables I buy are not to your taste, tell me what you want to eat, I will buy them next time."
The son-in-law knows that I have a bad stomach, so he carefully cuts the apples into small pieces, soaked them in hot water and then brought them to me for food, for fear that they will all go to work, and I am lonely at home alone , and bought me a machine that can speak voice conversation. As long as I say " Tmall Elf ", and then what I want to see, the machine can play it for me.
When they rest, they will drive me to a nearby park to relax.
During the period when I was staying at my daughter's house, my son and daughter-in-law came to see me, and they didn't even call me a phone call.
During the period when my daughter and son-in-law lived in the house, my son-in-law never shook my face. He would chat with me when he had nothing to do. Thinking about his own son, he was really sad!
says "a son-in-law is half a son", but my son-in-law is thousands of times better than my own son!
Unconsciously, I have lived in my daughter's house for almost a year. Looking at my son-in-law who is so filial to me, it is even better to me than my own son.
In these few days, I called my daughter and son-in-law to me, and I said to my son-in-law
"Kinguo, your father and I have a deposit, and now my mother plans to give it to you."
son-in-law quickly said
"Mom, we don't want it, we should be filial to you, you have always been very good to me, son-in-law! When I went home, you didn't work for me to eat and drink. That year, my mother used money for surgery, and you didn't know anything. He said, I just got me 50,000 yuan,
Mom, I will remember your great kindness in my life. When we are not in good condition, every time we leave home, you will get us a lot of land. For so many years, I have recorded the kindness you and your father are doing to me in my heart. Now that you need us, we should be filial to you. I never thought about what to want, taking care of you is what we must do.”
son-in-law kept shirking and saying no, but I insisted on handing the passbook to them.
When my son and daughter-in-law knew about this, they ran to her daughter's house and made a big fuss. When Yajiao entered the door, she started asking me in an aggressive tone. "Mom, are you old and confused? How could you give such money to an outsider? But you don't leave it to your own son and grandson." I sat on the sofa and looked at my daughter-in-law and said calmly
"Although I am old, I am not confused at all. How did you treat me when I was in your house? It doesn't count on shaking my face, but I also think that I am so sorry for me. I substitute all my retirement salary for you every month. For household use, who do you say I am better? During the days when I lived in your house, even a nanny was not as good as
. Seeing that I felt a little uncomfortable, I was afraid of taking care of me, so I quickly swept my out of the house and . I had the right to allocate this money. I owe you no money at all. When I got married, I bought all your houses and cars for you. As a mother, I did all the responsibilities that I should fulfill. Your father had agreed to leave the filial piety to whom you are. You two are not worthy of any distribution at all! "
I glared at my son, looked at him with his head hanging down beside him, and didn't dare to say anything. I really can't do anything about my "wife's strict control" son.
Forget it, is too big to be a mother . He can only live his little life well by himself. I am lazy to worry about them. I am so old that I just want to live a peaceful and stable life.
The old sister who has a good relationship with me said
"You left all the money to your daughter and son-in-law, you are not afraid that your son will not bury you well after you a hundred years."
I smiled bitterly and said
"Don't take good care of it before you die. The "filial piety" after death is all fake. It is for living people to see. Please take care of it first. What else can you know when you die?"
Do you think it is this?
this person! Only when something happens can you tell who is sincere, even if you have a child, it will be the same!
I advise the old sisters, we are old, but our hearts cannot be confused. We must recognize which child is truly filial to us, and we must not let good children who are truly filial to us "at a loss"!
The world is so big, thank you for meeting you, I hope you will be fragrant all the way through
