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Not every love can reach a happy ending smoothly. There are some loves full of regrets, loneliness and regrets of missing out. Only when ending this love, women will feel sad after realizing it: Why haven’t they managed this relationship well? Why slowly, the two of them are strangers?
In fact, love does not depend on fate by heaven. Most love is also "things are done by man" and requires one's own efforts to make up for it. At the same time, we must give full play to our subjective initiative, be ourselves well, and at the same time urge the other party to be the best lover.
In the process of managing love, women must learn to ask men actively these three things. Only in this way can they truly measure the value of this love and measure their weight in the heart of men. Don’t be embarrassed.
Take the initiative to ask for a sense of ritual, so that he can care about you
In love, love without a sense of ritual is like a pile of loose sand. The sense of ritual can make men cheer up and pay more attention to the value of this love, so that love becomes full of surprises due to the inspiration of a sense of ritual.
ritual sense has many forms of expression. For example, you can chat before going to bed and share with the other party the happy things you encounter. You can learn to cook together, go out for a romantic candlelight dinner together, and hug each other before you go to work every day.
The sense of ritual does not need to be so grand, nor is it as grand as a festival, but as long as there is a sense of ritual, you will feel that life has a lot more mood.
Not only that, the sense of ritual can also awaken a man’s yearning for true love, awaken his numb heart, let him feel the beauty of love, and thus he is more willing to raise his spirit and cherish you.
However, most men are "uncomfortable". They will not create a sense of ritual for life so easily, so women must remember to take the initiative to ask for a sense of ritual, not only to commemorate love, but also to make men care more about you.
Take the initiative to show weakness and tolerance, and see how much he cares about you
When men and women get along, there are often some quarrels, and most quarrels are caused by small daily events. "The husband talks about his reason, and the mother talks about his reason." Both sides think that they are right, so they are even more dissatisfied and unwilling to soften their attitude to forgive each other, which eventually led to a cold war between men and women.
Cold war is an important turning point in love. Sometimes it means the end of a love. If both men and women are unwilling to show weakness, then this relationship will not be far away from disappearing.
However, if a man is willing to bow his head and admit his mistakes and save this relationship during this period, then the relationship will not only not break, but may also become more solid.
Because this means that he cares about you very much and is willing to take the initiative to take the initiative to take the lead in taking you as a treasure, hold you in your palms, and tolerate your negative emotions.
But not every man has such a high level of awareness. Sometimes men don’t think so much, so women need to take the initiative.
If women are willing to take the initiative to show weakness and tolerance to men at this time, then they can judge how much men care about themselves.
After the woman gives her a step, the man quickly surrenders and admits his mistake, which is enough to prove that the man really cares about you, and he is willing to retreat for you; but if the man is still unwilling to tolerate you after you take the initiative to ask for it, it means that he doesn't care about you.
Take the initiative to ask for the bride price, which is his greatest sincerity to you
Many women think that love cannot be equated with money, so they dare not take the initiative to ask men for the bride price, for fear that they will be criticized as vulgar and love for money.
However, the real meaning of the bride price is not to satisfy a woman’s desire for money, but to measure a man’s heart. If a man truly loves you, then no matter how much money he spends, he is willing to marry you. When you take the initiative to ask him for a bride price, he will definitely do his best to give it to you with all his heart.
Because in his heart, you deserve the best things in the world and deserve these brides. He pays you the brides not the cost you have to pay for marrying you, but a concrete manifestation of sincerity.
If when you take the initiative to ask for a bride gift, the man is angry and embarrassed to you, thinking that you worship money, love money, and even accuses you of greed, then this means that the man does not love you sincerely.
He wants to marry you, maybe not for love, but for marriage. Because there is no love, he is very concerned about every effort. He will think that any penny spent on the way to marry a wife or any gift given is a loss of self-interest.
If in an ideal state, he hopes to marry a virtuous wife without any cost, and then drain the surplus value of you.
Therefore, when a woman is facing a major marriage, she must not give up the opportunity to ask for a bride price. Taking the initiative to ask for a bride price before marriage is definitely not a jealousy, but to let you better see the other party’s sincerity. If the two people parted due to interests before marriage, it is a good thing, which is to kill a wrong marriage in the signs.
In the popular song "He Still Don't Understand", there is a lyric: "He still doesn't understand. Leaving is to be kept. If you speak, it's just the gentleness I want to come." This can explain many reasons for emotional failure: women always expect men to understand everything, and wait naively and arrogantly, waiting for men to get out of their own way, and they are unwilling to speak.
Finally, seeing that the man is still unaware of his own ability, letting the relationship finally reach a desperate situation of being unable to retreat, they couldn't help but sigh helplessly and sighed: "He still doesn't understand!"
In fact, women can maintain reserve and shyness appropriately, but at all critical moments in the relationship, when they have to take the initiative to ask for it, they must take the initiative to ask for it. Never stay silent and speak up all the time, be self-righteous and arrogant, but in fact they are frustrated; they think that men can understand it, but in the end they just put love into a dead end.
I hope every couple in the world can meet someone who is in the same mood, boldly and enthusiastically pursue love, make your heart brighter in communication, and make men cherish you and care more about you and get the sweetest love.
