[Maxims of the Happiness of Couples] After women understand the following principles, instead of working hard in the offensive and defensive struggle of private money for a long time, it is better to give men more tolerance and understanding, greater room for activities, and broa

[Maxims of Happiness of Couples] After a woman understands the following principles, instead of working hard in the long-term attack and defense struggle of private money, it is better to give men more tolerance and understanding, greater room for activities, and broader space for expansion; more trust, less suspicion; more freedom, less control; more "guidance" and less "blocking" - this open "economic policy" will add a lot of happiness and happiness to the family.

In real life, private money hiding has always been a topic of discussion, and the popularity has never diminished. "Men will become bad if they have money." Many women believe this sentence very much, so these women will never allow men to have private money. Do men become bad if they are really rich?

There is a man who hid some bonus without hiding his wife, but he often felt embarrassed: he deposited the money in the bank and set a password, but over time, he forgot what the password was. In addition, my wife is very diligent and often cleans up her house. The money that was not deposited into the bank was hidden in a hidden place, but she did not expect that she would be "robbed" by her wife for a day.

In fact, for most men, the main purpose of private money is to make friends and deal with unavoidable social engagements. Women really don’t understand this principle: “Money can largely maintain a person’s dignity.” For men, this dignity is particularly important.

In real life, most married men have more social needs and a larger social scope than married women, so! There are more opportunities to party with friends. We Chinese people pay attention to etiquette and exchanges. Today, others are working as guests, and tomorrow you have to ask for help. You can’t pay for money at critical moments and you really can’t raise your head in front of your friends. Therefore, for men, you must not ignore this face in front of friends and colleagues.

Many women also understand men very well in this regard and will not control them too much. They will acquiesce their husbands to have a certain amount of private money. As a man, he should make good use of his precious private money. On the outside, he can be used to make friends, deal with the situation, develop mutual interests, and use private money as a "diplomacy" reserve; on the inside, he should be used to regulate family fiscal expenditures, enrich family life, adjust family atmosphere, and use private money as a fund to "create family happiness."

Today I will tell you that men usually spend their private money on the following aspects:

One is used to supplement their parents and show filial piety and care.

is used to adjust married life and add romantic mood. Whenever a good man celebrates his wife's birthday or the couple's wedding anniversary, he will think about going out with his wife to enjoy a candlelight dinner, or a family of three goes out for a delicious meal, and at the same time gives his beloved wife a beautiful gift. On Valentine's Day and Women's Day, buy a bouquet of roses to his wife. If the expenses required for these special moments are from the family's financial expenditure, in the eyes of men, the romantic effect will be greatly reduced.

The third is to develop your own interests and hobbies. For example, some men like photography, philatelic collection, collection of antiques, fishing, reading, practicing calligraphy, etc., while most wives believe that these hobbies cannot see any benefits in many cases and do not help their family life, so it is difficult for them to take out part of their family finances to their husbands. Some men are particularly interested in taking risks and often engage in unpopular venture capital. At this time, if the husband uses his own private money, he can avoid his wife's dissatisfaction and be happy.

Most men who have private money mainly want to have a little space of freedom under the strict management and supervision of their wives, and have the feeling of being the "master of the family" once or twice. The conflict between husband and wife is sometimes actually a battle of intelligence, and it is also a struggle between "control" and "anti-control", "theft of secrets" and "anti-theft of secrets", "investigation" and "anti-detective".