Self-prenatal check-up? Separation of the two places? It's been eight years, and I've experienced everything I should have.
Many people often see that other people's lives are always happy and sweet, while their own lives are always messy and they live a mess.
What will life be like? What kind of life should be considered happy and sweet? Will you feel happy in such a life that you can go to and from get off work together, go home together, eat together, and rest together every day?
In fact, people are always unsatisfied. They are obviously very happy, but they are still unsatisfied. There are always impeccable things happening all the time. It’s not that we are not happy, but that we don’t know how to cherish them.
It took us only three months from getting to know each other to falling in love and getting married. It can be said that we have been together for a short time. The chances of meeting are only one hand that can be said to be the number you get. However, in this way, I gave my life to this man.
has thought countless times what to do if one day gets divorced? I once tried to change myself for him, and I once understood him in a way that I understood, but I still couldn't get his respect and understanding.
I gave birth to a child twice, and I only had a prenatal check-up with me once, and the day my second child was born, I really don’t know what he thought, nor did I ask, I only knew that I had never been understood by him, and in my eyes, he never had sincere love for me.
always ignores me, which makes me feel no trace of love. Therefore, I am also very disappointed with him. Over time, I no longer have to rely on him and do everything myself. Even if I rely on him, he is not around, so why bother?
In this way, I chose loneliness and chose to make some profits by relying on writing to give myself more income. As time slowly passed, the relationship between the two seemed to be becoming more and more tacit.
used to go home, and he always ate, drank and had fun with his friends, and never cared about his family affairs. I always called him one by one and asked him to come back, but he returned home later and didn't even answer my phone number. Later, I felt that I should give him freedom, and I didn’t want to worry about him anymore, let alone call him again and again without any response.
Later, I was very disappointed with him and didn't expect him to help me. He could go home early. Unfortunately, the facts were not as simple as we thought. Therefore, I could only choose to accept his late return home, and no longer urge him to go home, so that he had his own freedom. However, who would have thought that he could go home early every day.
Sometimes when you let go appropriately, you will also have unexpected surprises. Of course, this method depends on who it is used and is not suitable for everyone. Although we are separated from each other and we have little communication, our relationship is getting better and better.
If it is not a job requirement, I would rather not separate from two places, because separation between two places will affect the happy life of the two people. Be cautious in separation, otherwise it will cause a bad ending, which will really not be worth the loss.
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