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Things have to start from June 2017. The two joined the same company. Xiao Zhang is beautiful and Xiao Liu pursues fiercely, and he is very attentive. Xiao Zhang is moved and makes a heart. The two people who fell in love soon lived together in just one month.
At the beginning, Xiao Liu performed well and took good care of Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang soon became pregnant, but Xiao Liu was not happy to be a father. Instead, they persuaded them to have a miscarriage on the grounds that they were still young and were unable to raise children.
Xiao Zhang also questioned Xiao Liu's feelings for him, but he couldn't resist the bombardment of Xiao Liu using money as a "sugar-coated cannonball" and continued to indulge in Xiao Liu's love. (In order to eliminate Xiao Zhang's concerns, Xiao Liu took the initiative to transfer the money to her, with a total of more than 40,000 yuan and a bride price of 80,000 yuan.)
Xiao Zhang took this reassurance for love. He has been living together for four years and has suffered 5 miscarriages for Xiao Liu. Although every miscarriage is extremely painful, she gritted her teeth and endured it every time, because she always believed that Xiao Liu would marry her one day.
However, she still mispaid her true feelings. Xiao Liu not only ruthlessly asked him to break up, but also thought about taking back all the money he spent in his four years of living together.
Xiao Zhang was angry and angry, questioning Xiao Liu: "I have a miscarriage for you five times, do you still have the face to ask me for money?"
Because Xiao Zhang refused to "repay" the money, Xiao Liu sued Xiao Zhang in court with a complaint.
Xiao Liu also had a good reason. He insisted that he had not obtained the marriage certificate , and his girlfriend should return all the money to himself.
Xiao Zhang responded angrily: "Do you have a conscience? You transferred me more than 40,000 yuan, all of which are used for the daily expenses of our two living together. How can I still have money? And I have a miscarriage for you five times. I don't know whether I can have a baby in the future. Do you still have the face to ask me for a bride price?"
The court held that the evidence provided by Xiao Liu was true. However, during the two of them, Xiao Liu did not take out any other money for living expenses, and Xiao Zhang paid the expenses. Therefore, the 40,000 yuan transferred by Xiao Liu to Xiao Zhang was regarded as the joint expenses of the two and there is no need to refund them.
As for the other 80,000 yuan bride price, if Xiao Liu just gave Xiao Zhang the bride price, it did not cause him to get pregnant, nor had he lived together for so many years, the money would definitely be back, because the purpose of the bride price was to get married. However, Xiao Zhang did not mean not to marry, but instead waited for Xiao Liu to marry him home, so he was willing to have a miscarriage for Xiao Liu five times and did not hesitate to hurt his body as a price. On the contrary, Xiao Liu was unwilling to marry him. So, Xiao Zhang was not at fault.
Recently, based on the facts of the investigation, the court made a judgment on the case, ruling that Xiao Zhang would return 15,000 yuan to Xiao Liu.
How much harm the woman will be to live together without marriage is obvious, it can be said that she is both physically and mentally. Moreover, if you have miscarriages in 4 years, you will have no chance of becoming a mother in the future. It is indeed pitiful. However, the injuries and pains that Xiao Zhang experienced just confirm the saying: Poor people must have something hateful.
are all adults, and they dare to stuff everything into their stomachs. They can’t eat anything and shouldn’t eat it. Don’t know what you should eat?
You should know that you have met a scumbag for the first time and can still live together for 4 years and have 5 miscarriages. This is not only disrespect for life, but also disrespect for oneself.
Xiao Liu is certainly a scumbag, but "flies don't bite seamless eggs" isn't it? If Xiao Zhang can be self-esteem, self-love, and self-respect, agree with Xiao Liu's pursuit, but clearly tells him his emotional bottom line: he does not agree to living together without marriage. Then, Xiao Liu would not be regarded as a frivolous and unloved woman, and would eventually be abandoned.
Xiao Zhang's experience also reminds more women: Don't live with a man easily. For men, living together is really a very low-cost investment.You don’t have to bear the responsibility of your husband, but you can enjoy the care of your wife. The bride price is just a big cake that can only be seen but cannot eat. You can get it all back on the grounds that you have not obtained a certificate at any time.
Women must understand that men who truly love you will think of marrying you home quickly, rather than living with you quickly.
also needs to have a correct understanding, that is, no matter how bad a man is, he is only willing to marry a woman with self-discipline.
, and Xiao Liu's unkindness and calculating skills also reminds those scumbags who use the name of love to deceive women's feelings and hurt women's physical and mental health under the name of love: , don't owe love debts, don't play with feelings, otherwise you will burn yourself if you play with fire.
Although the law stipulates that as long as you do not receive a marriage certificate, you will get all the bride gifts you give, the law also resonates with the law and the emotion.
Just like Xiao Liu, although he has not registered for marriage, he has lived together. During the cohabitation period, the woman caused multiple miscarriages and hospitalizations. This not only caused Xiao Zhang to suffer great financial losses, but more importantly, he suffered physical and mental trauma. Therefore, in accordance with the principle of fairness and fairness, considering that the transfer of funds between the two parties is mostly used for daily living expenses, the property is inconsistent and there is no need to refund 40,000 yuan. The court finally ruled that Xiao Zhang would return Xiao Liu 15,000 yuan.
Xiao Liu filed an appeal dissatisfied. The Xinxiang Intermediate People's Court made a final judgment to reject the appeal in the second instance and uphold the original judgment.
Xiao Liu's defeat of "stealing chickens but losing rice" also gave him a good lesson: has to pay the price to hurt others, and the small abacus is very good, but the premise is not to commit evil. The old saying goes: God can forgive evils, but he can't survive if he commits evils. In this world, there is no such thing as cheapness.
was originally thinking about calculating others, but in the end, the bride price was gone, and the wife was gone, and the ending of losing both people and money was too satisfying. (Pictures from the Internet, pictures and texts are not related)
