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In real life, or in film and television dramas, we often see such scenes: men pursue women, and they use flowers and luxury cars, or they throw out a stack of money in a vulgar way, trying to conquer the other party with money.
To be honest, such tricks can usually only work for girls who have just left society, have no life experience, and have no life goals. They can almost be said to be a test of every effort. If it is used on a middle-aged woman, it will probably only bring her eyes off. She disdains this trick. In her opinion, it is too low-level and too cliché.
Men should understand that conquering middle-aged women is not money, but these two words: understanding.
1: Trying to conquer middle-aged women with money will only disappoint her
In the TV series " Perfect Companion ", Lin Qingkun is a straight man who does not understand the hearts of women. The happiness in his cognition is to give his wife and children enough money, and it is an enviable living condition.
But his wife Wu Min cannot feel his love from his behavior. He thinks that marriage can be maintained with money, and he believes that a woman's heart can be warmed with money.
But as a woman with life experience, what Wu Min wants is not money, but understanding from her husband.
This is how women are. In their world, spiritual comfort is always more comforting than money comfort.
They desire understanding from men, and their spiritual needs are higher than anything else. Generally speaking, women will only be conquered by men who understand her, and have nothing to do with the men's own financial strength.
2: Understand the hard work of middle-aged women, she will be grateful to you
Wu Min has a lot of complaints about her husband Lin Qingkun. Even if Lin Qingkun provided her and her son with a life of food and clothing, she would never be moved by it.
What really touched Wu Min was the understanding and help Sun Lei gave her. Sun Lei understands how hard she manages a family, and never looks down on her just because she is a full-time housewife.
When Wu Min is lonely and helpless and urgently needs help from others, Sun Lei always is anxious about what she is anxious and appears in front of her as soon as possible to give thoughtful and considerate help.
Wu Min's gratitude to Sun Lei is obvious, and the reason why Sun Lei was able to capture Wu Min's trust was his understanding of Wu Min.
In fact, women are not materialistic, especially middle-aged women who know how to live. Compared with money, what they want more is men's understanding and understanding.
3: Conquering middle-aged women is more effective than using gold
Conquering middle-aged women with money is a worry-saving and labor-saving, and another alternative to unwilling to take care of one person. But middle-aged women are not those young girls who are just starting out. They know that a man’s sincere judgment cannot be just about the money he pays.
What they value more is whether the souls between the two are in harmony. What they want more is the understanding and understanding of her by men.
put aside the efforts of consideration and understanding, just like he bought you a big box even though he knew you didn’t like cherries, but to show that he had paid enough to you.
Such efforts are just his own self-movement, rather than truly standing from the perspective of a middle-aged woman, thinking about what the woman thinks and worrying about what the woman is anxious about. Only by truly understanding middle-aged women with care can we truly gain her heart and truly capture the true feelings of women.
Men don’t need to regard all women as realistic and snobbish. Compared to greed for your money, most women still see your sincerity and sincerity.
If there is only money and no feelings, two people cannot last long.
Besides, some women can make money more than men. Does she really care so much about your few melons? If you think women want your money, you might as well see how much money you have first.
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