Bing Xin once said this: I am an ordinary person myself, and I blindly pursue the happiness of ordinary people. From this sentence, we can feel that Bing Xin’s poetry collection pursues happiness from the perspective of ordinary people, and happiness will become easier and easier.
In fact, whether a person can reap happiness does not depend on external things, but should depend on the mentality of the person to face life. If the mentality is easier, then happiness will of course be lighter and easy to obtain.
people, you can only be calm when you change. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you will not panic. You can solve them steadily from beginning to end, so that you can achieve the final victory, otherwise you will lose your way in the dilemma. Some people always regard personal gains and losses and gains and losses as important, and are usually used to being petty and unable to calm down and improve their personal abilities.
In fact, a person will only be less petty in life, learn to let go, and treat the injustice of fate and the dissatisfaction of life with a dull attitude, so that life will get better and better.
If you regard the life path as balance scale , then the so-called happiness is that the balance scale remains stable. You only need to be slow on both sides to reap happiness. It is to see through success or failure, but it is just too petty.
From ancient times to the present, happiness has been a hot topic that everyone has replayed. It still exists, and the yearning for happiness and happiness is not only. For example, in childhood, having more time to have fun and winning favorite toys is a kind of happiness.
However, after entering the social development, the criteria for judging happiness will change greatly. Some people think that having a stable job and a stable income is happiness. But I don’t know that happiness and happiness are just a psychological state. External chemicals only have the influencing factors that really have a key role, or come from the mentality. If the mentality improves, then even if your life is ordinary, you will be very happy and happy.
In real life, many people look forward to some interfaces that make themselves happy when they are free, hoping that they can get real happiness, but then on the other hand, they don’t know what they like. In fact, this state is that I yearn for and collapse, and I slowly lose the direction of my life in a tangled and confused manner, and I don’t know what happiness is.
In fact, most people do not know how to find and explore, they will not look for it, because once you don’t feel the happiness you have for a day, it will be difficult to truly reap happiness.
Therefore, a person should not be arrogant and low-key. He should learn to be positive and have a positive attitude, understand what he wants to get, and work hard, so that this is the happiness and joy brought by success. What's more, happiness is not difficult. It is not only possible to obtain unusual creations that can be called happiness and happiness. Simple trivial matters in life are the source of happiness. As long as you can adjust your mentality, you will find that there are many happinesses.
As the saying goes: The highest good is like water, and there is no desire to be strong. In such a huge world, there are no two completely fallen leaves, and there is no smooth life. Everyone must find a place to settle down in the storm.
Everyone has independent logical thinking ability and has different opinions on the same thing, but what we need to do is how to be gentlemanly and different and respect each other. If we want to fight for right or wrong, then the precious time and energy will be gone. As long as the situation alone becomes bigger, then the things we care about will of course have qualitative changes.
As the saying goes, a general can go up the mountain on his forehead, and a prime minister can take a boat in his stomach. Only with a broad mind and courage can a person fully reflect the simplicity of dealing with people and doing things in a low-key manner. No matter how you live with anyone, you can achieve a harmonious situation.
does not blame others for their own mistakes, does not express personal privacy, and does not care about other people's old evils. Both can cultivate virtue and can also keep harm from others.The greater the measurement and courage of a person, the longer the road of life will be. Tolerating the shortcomings of others will also help oneself move forward better, thus truly opening the door to happiness and happiness.
If people are very simple, they will not be afraid of failure, but will be filled with courage to move forward. Li Bai wrote a poem like this: There will be a time when the wind and waves are long, and the clouds sails cross the sea. He has ambitions, but he has a simple heart, firmly believing that one day he can ride the wind and break the waves, but he still deals with all kinds of difficulties and dangers in a dull manner.
In fact, if a person is too complicated when doing things and always thinks about the consequences of not succeeding, this concept will become a rope that binds himself, and even makes him afraid of breaking and not daring to fight.
It is better to not think so much about uncertain conclusions. Just take a steady path in the future and do what you should do. Even if the conclusions may not be satisfactory, it will not be too disappointing.
People should not lack a simple mentality in their lives, otherwise they should ensure that they are calm and tranquility in losing.
If you encounter obstacles when moving forward, even if you use various methods, it is difficult to break them. Then you need to carry out a comprehensive consideration and make a choice whether to continue moving forward or change direction.
Life is not that difficult. What is difficult is that you have a complicated heart. For the rest of your life, make yourself simpler, don’t be confused when encountering things, don’t say it out loud, just take every step in a dull way.
If you have ideals, you will strive to pursue them. Just change the dreams you can’t get, and there is no need to always adhere to unrealistic dreams.
