Don't cry over spilled milk, because it has been spilled and there is no possibility for you to drink it again.
Life has its joys and sorrows, its bitterness and sweetness. Regardless of gain or loss, mentality is the key. If a person takes troubles too seriously, he will only become more and more breathless. Then how can he have a smooth life? ?
There are many similar people in life, such as The Northern Song Dynasty writer Huang Tingjian, who suffered relegation several times when he wanted to display his ambitions.
Like-minded people around him were worried about him, but he himself seemed to have nothing to do. He fell asleep every day, and when he woke up, he still looked happy. He built houses, raised flowers and bamboos, and lived a different life - pastoral life .
How can a cultured person forget about culture? He has already integrated the two realms into one, recruiting apprentices, giving lectures and cultivating talents.
This may be the ups and downs of life. Huang Tingjian has set an example by his own efforts, because he knows how to go with the flow, because he knows how to change his mentality, because he knows how to be calm when the wind comes. , everything is just a passerby, why should he be so negative?
The heart should be simple and people should be confused. It is rare for contemporary people to practice it, such as Peking University Gu Yi, the top student.
When he learned that his 70-year-old father was suffering from advanced cancer, he felt uncomfortable as a son. While preparing for the worst, he was willing to make one last attempt, which was to trick his father into traveling to Australia, where he even participated in a skydiving project.
No one expected that Gu Yi's efforts broke the doctor's assertion that "time is running out" and that 88 days later, his father was miraculously reborn.
Sudden disaster
Gu Yi was born in Yancheng, Jiangsu Province. His father's name is Gu Quanping and his mother's name is Lu Aiping. The family makes a living on 20 acres of land.
A child of a poor man became a master early, and all difficulties became motivation in Gu Yi's eyes. After twelve years of hard study, he finally reaped the fruits of victory. He received an admission notice from Peking University .
With the beating of gongs and drums by the whole village, finally became a decent college student. His outstanding ability quickly earned him the title of " Academic Master " .
When it comes to educating children, the two of them particularly respect Gu Yi's opinions. As long as he has an idea, he will absolutely support it. When he was in college, he gave more than 10,000 yuan in funds to support his children in starting their own businesses.
Family conditions were not easy. Not only did he support his life and go to school, but he also needed to spend money to get a job. Gu Yi felt very unhappy.
From this moment on, he secretly vowed in his heart: In the future, he would treat his parents well no matter what, in order to repay their nurturing kindness .
In an era of rampant materialism, everyone is working hard for money, and Gu Yi is one of them. After
graduated and entered society, it took Gu Yi more than ten years to gain a foothold in Chongqing. However, his aging parents simply couldn't afford to wait. He decided to bring them together to live with him, trying to add a bit of happiness to his stable life.
In the following time, Gu Yi's career was booming, and his child was admitted to Melbourne University. , everything seemed to be going so smoothly .
Unfortunately, things didn't go as planned. Just when everything was getting better, his father was suddenly diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer.
Gu Yi went to the doctor to intercede, hoping that he could do his best to save his father. Since the latter was already in his 70s, the doctor recommended conservative treatment. Because of the severity of the condition, time is running out unless something unexpected happens, so he should try his best to alleviate the pain .
For Gu Yi, this was like a bolt from the blue. He began to ask himself: What is the meaning of spending the last period of time in pain?
Miracle Reborn
Instead of letting his father suffer in the hospital, it would be better to enjoy his later life. Gu Yi decided to take him to travel abroad.
The old man has worked hard for most of his life, and he is thrifty and frugal in his bones. If he told the truth directly, he would never agree, which is why he came up with the following "white lie": His grandson who is studying in college in Melbourne, Australia, misses them very much .
People often say " passes generations to ". Of course Gu Quanping would not refuse, and then packed his luggage and listened to his son's arrangements.
From the moment he boarded the plane, the smile on his father's face never stopped, and Gu Yi suddenly realized how correct his decision was. After
arrived in Australia, they first had a meal with their children, and then, citing academic obligations, they asked Gu Quanping to take a vacation first. After a while, they would pick him up and live together. The whole family would be happy, and it makes me happy just thinking about it.
Gu Yi rented a RV . On the road every day, he could see all kinds of beautiful scenery. His father seemed to have regained his youthful feeling..
During their wedding anniversary, the two of them put on their clothes again. Gu Yi, a photographer, recorded the beauty. Who would have thought that a 70-year-old man would experience such beauty again.
I saw Gu Quanping kneeling on one knee, holding flowers in his hand: " Wife, I want to spend another 50 years with you.".
Then Gu Yi decided to take the two elders to experience skydiving. In front of Gu Quanping at an altitude of 14,000 feet, he opened his arms like an aspiring bird . Not to mention how exciting the feeling was, he seemed to be liberated at this moment.
After landing, the two people kept communicating about their skydiving experiences. Gu Yi in front of the car felt unprecedentedly relieved.
He kept driving forward, taking his parents to experience more wonderful things. Until the trip ended 88 days later, Gu Yi took his parents back to China from Australia. This time, his body looked so strong. Then he went to the hospital for a reexamination with the mentality of giving it a try.
This seemingly "last trip" in life unexpectedly led to his father's "miraculous rebirth" - Gu Quanping's body fully recovered..
talks about the world with a smile
My parents raised me, and I raised them until they grow old. This "love companionship" has touched countless people.
In the face of disease, there is no need for a panacea, encouragement, companionship and comfort. Gu Yi performed this "medical miracle" with practical actions. Only by being full of hope for oneself can life become more and more hopeful. I hope this "Chapter of Filial Piety" will last forever.
At the end of the article, I would like to give you a word: has no worries, so there is no fear .
Most of the troubles in life come from oneself, such as setbacks, difficulties, diseases, etc. No matter how difficult it is, so what? No matter how bad your life is, isn't it still an experience? Keep a good mood and live a good attitude, and you will only see more good things in the future.
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